Ldn Sugarbaby

She drastically improves her appearance.

She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.

She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.

She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.

She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.

Never let anything break the illusion. 

And not all days are good, but they are never completely bad, and the divine timing between and the taming of my restlessness moves me forward. I’m always reminded that things are falling into place and that there is reward in the progress before the final outcome. It gives me a happiness that is comforting.

Online... men understand they are the prize. Multiple aspiring SBs and hoes used every tactic on them already so they know they have something women want. You’re not special online. There’s no need to entice or spend on you because he knows he can swipe right on easier targets, or naive women who don’t know their worth.

Meeting in person... men understand women are the prize. In person, a woman will rarely chase a man; rarely do we compliment them, charm them, approach them etc, so when we do, that’s when we capitalize. He can’t swipe right on a hottie in real life, but he can and will impress, spend, and swipe his card for one that he wants.

Never outshine the master.

Never put too much trust in friends.

Conceal your intentions.

Always say less than necessary.

So much depends on reputation; guard it with your life.

Court attention at all costs.

Get other to do the work for you, but always take the credit.

Make other people come to you; use bait if necessary.

Win through your actions, never through argument.

Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.

Learn to keep people dependent on you.

Use selective honesty & generosity to disarm your victim.

Pose as a friend, work as a spy.

Crush your enemy totally.

When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interests, never to their mercy or gratitude.

Use absence to increase respect and honor.

Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability.

Do not build fortresses to protect yourself. Isolation is dangerous.

Know who you’re dealing with; do not offend the wrong person.

Do not commit to anyone.

Play a sucker to catch a sucker; play dumber than your mark.

Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power.

Concentrate your forces.

Play the perfect courtier.

Re-create yourself.

Keep your hands clean.

Play on people’s need to believe to create a cult like following.

Enter action with boldness.

Plan all the way to the end.

Make your accomplishments seem effortless.

Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal.

Play to people’s fantasies.

Discover each man’s thumbscrew.

Be royal in your fashion: act like a king to be treated like one.

Master the art of timing.

Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge.

Create compelling spectacles.

Think as you like but behave like others.

Stir up waters to catch fish.

Despise the free lunch.

Never appear perfect.

Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes.

Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter.

Work on the hearts and minds of others.

Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.

Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once.

Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop.