Shhh, it's okay.

So. This is the proof, in case any of you think I’m lying. I’m shaking right now. Antis, you better come and take out your trash. Dahanci, I have reported you. I hope your happy with what you’ve done. This is beyond fucked. Also, nice threat there Dahanci.

So, there’s this one particular anti that’s been around for a while now who’s especially bad for a multitude of reasons. I’m really going to focus on two here, the first being that Dahanci is a bully. 

Note: formerly known as exshipper and reyagainstreylo

Let’s begin this by noting that dahanci has claimed to have been bullied in the past, and I am inclined to believe them. 

Note: I’m not questioning whether or not they were abused here. I’m only using this to show that they themselves have been bullied in the past. They’ve likely experienced the pain and strife it causes.

And yet, as someone who has been bullied before, they think it’s okay to say things like this:

And this. Note the suicide bait here, even if it was intended as a joke. Considering how PC dahanci is, you’d expect them to know better. But apparently not. Disappointing really, but there’s no honor among thieves I suppose.

And, probably the worst in my opinion, this:

What the fuck, dahanci? Do you honestly think that this is appropriate? Comparing someone to Ted Cruz because you don’t like them? This is abhorrent, childish behavior. This is bullying at it’s finest.

Oh and then there was the moment when you almost became self aware:

What a great defense for your bullying of someone over a ship. “I wasn’t comparing their personality to a slimy, universally disliked man! Just their looks!”

Stop and think about what you’re about to do before you act. This was cruel and unnecessary. This is bullying. You are a bully. Way to go champ.

Part 2: “Cope ship, but like, do it in private” uwu

Ah and probably my favorite thing about you is your incessant need to police how and where people can cope ship; when you yourself are a cope shipper. 

Let’s begin with this. You, telling survivors how to cope.

You don’t get to tell other people how to cope, dahanci. That’s it. Period. End of conversation. It’s not your business how they cope, it’s not your business what they might be coping with. None of that is relevant to you. If you see them post something that you find problematic or bothersome, block and move on. It’s that simple. I don’t care how unhealthy you think it is, a simple fact of being on the internet is that you are in charge of your own experience here. If you can’t filter content for yourself then you should just leave. The internet is not a safe space.

I would also like no note that you ship Kylux as a cope ship. And you champion the idea of cope shipping in private; yet you have several Kylux drawings on your art blog? Hypocrisy perhaps? I guess you’re the only one who gets to ship ‘problematic’ ships because you’re doing it ‘the right way’. 

And then there’s this blubbering mess:

Which essentially comes down to; “The problematic content that I like is okay because I get that it’s problematic and I don’t support the problematic parts!”

Which isn’t how these things work. You don’t get to enjoy something that you deem ‘problematic’ because you disavow the ‘problematic’ parts, while attempting to police other’s for liking those same things. You don’t get to decide what people write, or how they write it. You don’t get to decide what other people like or why they like it. You don’t get to decide where they post it or why. None of this involves you. Stop the fucking purity crusade. You’re only making yourself look like a complete hypocrite. 

You have been bullied in the past, horribly so, it sounds like; and yet you still have the audacity to bully others.

You are an abuse survivor, someone who has to deal with that emotional trauma everyday; and yet you have the audacity to tell others how they should handle their own trauma. Stop.

I’m going to leave it at this for now. But I want you to know that I have much, much more. And depending on how you respond, this hole has the potential to get much deeper.

I am sick of this fandom. Sick of it. I’m, in particular, sick and tired of all the racism, homophobia, abuse apologism, empathy for nazi coded villains, fandom misinterpretation for the fucking villain, erasure of the MoC heroes, bashing of aforementioned MoC heroes, internalised misogyny for the female hero, self-insertion, fanon taking priority over canon, racists using “but we have black shippers too” to justify thier nonsense…you can see where I’m coming from here. If you don’t you’re a fucking idiot and don’t even think of coming at me because I will roast your ass without hesitation.

A bunch of my friends are here (interestingly, they fall under minority categories: PoC and LGBTI+ for the most part) are always calling out the abovementioned bullshit, and then, they get the bullshit perpetrators of the above mentioned nonsense (interestingly, they are white, western women who are straight, for the most part, the most fucking entitled people in the world) coming to thier inbox and telling them how, ironically, evil and terrible they are because they can’t stand being called out for thier racism, homophobia, abuse apologism etc etc etc.

I am tired, because my friends are being attacked for doing the right thing, and it’s really just fucking up with their mental and emotional health and well being and I cannot do anything about it (except roast idiots, but most of the time my friends ask me not to, and their well being takes far higher priority to  my personal pettiness).

When will this nonsense stop?