Stop giving the effort you will expect and not have it reciprocated. If they wanted to, they would.. stop making excuses for them. Have a conversation, also express what you want. Stop overplaying your part though. Efforts should be matched and if you’re the only one rowing the “boat” in the relationship. You will end up nowhere with them, whether that is platonic or romantic.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
1. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
2. You can either experience the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The choice is yours.
3. Your passion is waiting for your courage to catch up.
4. Magic is believing in yourself. If you can make that happen, you can make anything happen.
5. If something is important enough, even if the odds are stacked against you, you should still do it.
6. People who wonder if the glass is half empty or full miss the point. The glass is refillable.
7. Everything comes to him who hustles while he waits.
8. Invest in your dreams. Grind now. Shine later.
9. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
10. If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced.
11. How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.
12. Great things are done by a series of small things brought together
13. Very often, a change of self is needed more than a change of scene.
14. It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.
15. If you believe it’ll work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you don’t believe it’ll work out, you’ll see obstacles.
16. Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.
17. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.
18. At any given moment you have the power to say: this is not how the story is going to end.
19. Don’t limit your challenges. Challenge your limits.
20. Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come.
21. In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity
22. Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
23. Dreams don’t work unless you do.
24. Go the extra mile. It’s never crowded there.
25. Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It’s quite simple, really: Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn’t at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, so go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remember that’s where you will find success.
26. If you want to fly give up everything that weighs you down
27. Focus on being productive instead of busy.
28. When someone says you can’t do it, do it twice and take pictures.
29. I didn’t get there by wishing for it, but by working for it.
30. You’re so much stronger than your excuses
31. I choose to make the rest of my life, the best of my life.
32. If you don’t get out of the box you’ve been raised in, you won’t understand how much bigger the world is.
33. Twenty years from now you’ll be more disappointed by the things you did not do than the ones you did.
34. Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.
35. A winner is a dreamer who never gives up.
36. The only thing standing in the way between you and your goal is the BS story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it.
37. The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem.
38. Nothing is stronger than a broken man rebuilding himself.
39. It’s not what happens to you but how you react to it that matters.
40. The best way to predict your future is to create it.
41. A diamond is merely a lump of coal that did well under pressure.
42. You could rattle the stars,” she whispered. “You could do anything, if only you dared. And deep down, you know it, too. That’s what scares you most.
43. Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.
44. Practice makes progress not perfect.
45. Quitters never win. Winners never quit!
46. Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
47. We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.
48. The secret of change is to focus all your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.
49. If you talk about it, it’s a dream. If you envision it, it’s possible. If you schedule it, it’s real.
50. The key to success is to start before you are ready.
51. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, and start being excited about what could go right.
52. Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat is accepted as a reality.
53. Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
54. It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default.
55. Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm
56. Why do we grieve failures longer than we celebrate wins?
57. Failure isn’t the end of the road. It’s a big red flag saying to you ‘Wrong way. Turn around.
58. Whenever you feel like a failure, just remember that even Coca Cola only sold 25 bottles their first year
59. Take the risk or lose the chance.
60. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
61. Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.
62. If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.
63. If it doesn’t challenge you, it doesn’t change you.
64. The best thing you can do is MASTER the chaos in you. You are not thrown into the fire, you ARE the fire.
65. Flowers grow back even after the harshest winters. You will too.
66. Do something today that your future self will thank you for.
′′Let go the people who are not prepared to love you. This is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing. Stop having hard conversations with people who don't want change.
Stop showing up for people who have no interest in your presence. I know your instinct is to do everything to earn the appreciation of those around you, but it's a boost that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health.
When you begin to fight for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you in this place. This doesn't mean you need to change what you are, it means you should let go of the people who aren't ready to accompany you.
If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to, you don't do yourself a favor by continuing to offer your energy and your life. The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.
That's what makes it so special when you meet people who reciprocate love. You will know how precious you are.
The more time you spend trying to make yourself loved by someone who is unable to, the more time you waste depriving yourself of the possibility of this connection to someone else.
There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will meet with you at your level of interest and commitment.
The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow, a background option or a therapist for emotional healing, the longer you stay away from the community you want.
Maybe if you stop showing up, you won't be wanted. Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end. Maybe if you stop texting your phone will stay dark for weeks. That doesn't mean you ruined the relationship, it means the only thing holding it back was the energy that only you gave to keep it. This is not love, it's attachment. It's wanting to give a chance to those who don't deserve it. You deserve so much, there are people who should not be in your life.
The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy, and both are limited. When you give your time and energy, it will define your existence.
When you realize this, you begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend time with people, in activities, places or situations that don't suit you and shouldn't be around you, your energy is stolen.
You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and for everyone around you is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else. Make your life a safe haven, in which only ′′compatible′′ people are allowed.
You are not responsible for saving anyone. You are not responsible for convincing them to improve. It's not your work to exist for people and give your life to them! If you feel bad, if you feel compelled, you will be the root of all your problems, fearing that they will not return the favours you have granted. It's your only obligation to realize that you are the love of your destiny and accept the love you deserve.
Decide that you deserve true friendship, commitment, true and complete love with healthy and prosperous people. Then wait and see how much everything begins to change. Don't waste time with people who are not worth it. Change will give you the love, the esteem, happiness and the protection you deserve."
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
“I am finding my way back to myself again. slowly, patiently, intricately. I am finding roads in between my heart and my mind that connect. I am finding melodies that taste good on my soul. I stray and i take detours occasionally, but I am finding my way back to myself again.”
“Don’t give them a taste of their own medicine. They already know what it tastes like. Give them a taste of your own medicine. If they lied, let your medicine be honesty. If they played with your emotions, let your medicine be maturity. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, even if it means removing yourself from lives that you want to be in. You are, no doubt, worthy of being valued for who you are. So be who you are.”
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Love is not an emotion. Emotions are temporary and ever-changing, twirling and fluttering like feathers drifting through the wind. Love, real and true, is neither brief nor momentary. It is incessant, perpetual, and persistent.
It is deep. It is the discovery of fears and insecurities. The exploration of vulnerabilities and sensitivities. The transformation of “I” and “me” into “us” and “we.” The intertwining of needs. Difficult conversations anchored by trust, loyalty, and honesty. It is the death of the single life and the formulation of a dyad, a couple, a partnership.
It is trust. Do what you say you will. Be where you say you are. Arrive when you say you will. Be with who you say you are. Support is given and received. Loyalty is unwavering. Faithfulness is not up for interpretation, speculation, or in need of interrogation. And should there be a fall, there will never be a break—commitment and resiliency cement the foundation.
It is delightful. It is electricity in the eyes, cuddling late at night, the off-the-cuff remarks fueling laughter for a lifetime. It is holding hands under stars. It is PDA in someone else’s front yard. It is blowing kisses. It is that inside joke no one else understands. It is the thing that only we know. It is viewing each other in ways the world is unable.
It is mature. Forgiveness is mastered. Tolerance is practiced. Listening and understanding triumphs hearing. Mistakes are learned from. Truth is pervasive.
It is not an emotion. It is neither an action, choice, nor decision. It does not rest in a category to be superseded by some overarching concept. No, love is the granddaddy of them all. Love is the headlining event. Love is the featured attraction. Love is the main course. Love is simply love.
“If there is ever, even for a fleeting moment, a tiny voice in your head, and that tiny voice is telling you, "I deserve better", listen to her. That’s your partner. That’s your real, true love. And if you betray her long enough, you will lose her.” You (S03E10)
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming