i'm a cool girl

love is 100% real

when terfs and crypto-terfs say that trans women have to “unlearn male socialization”, they never mean stuff like “try to get back in touch with your emotions after years of dissociating because you were closeted” but usually things more like “unless you act like a complete doormat we are going to brand you as aggressive and a sexual deviant and make sure that you get as close to possible to dying”. you have to be a “perfect feminist” (THEIR brand of feminism) to even attain the right to have the correct pronouns used for you (when such a demand is never presented to cis women since even people as vile as Margaret Thatcher don’t have their True Femaleness put into question ever). The entire “YOU MUST UNLEARN YOUR MALE SOCIALIZATION” argument is predicated from the beginning on the idea that trans women are more dangerous to cis women than viceversa when… all empirical evidence can show us is that this is… the complete opposite, in the real world.

Help trans women of color thus pride month please! She hasn’t eaten in the past few days either

I wrote this at least a year ago and it seems more true now than it did then....