Reblogged this cause this is very important.

“When you wait for a man to make up his mind about you, your life cannot move forward. You can’t put your whole heart in anything else if you’re betting on something that may not come through. You can build the life of your dreams without him. You can start today. But first, you need to take your heart off the table. You have a few precious years to do what you need to do. Don’t waste them on him.”

““…When fall comes, kicking summer out on its treacherous ass, as it always does one day sometime after the midpoint of September, it stays awhile like an old friend that you have missed. It settles in the way an old friend will settle into your favorite chair, take out his pipe and light it, then fill the afternoon with stories of places he has been and things he has done since he last saw you.””

A List of The Mini-Syllabi I Made in 2020-2021: