since he is locked in chastity, you should be pegging him regularly. if you’re not, then you’re seriously missing out! the more you do it, the more intoxicating it becomes! the power of you fucking HIM and making him cum on YOUR dick is crazy sexy.
keep him caged long enough and he will cum every time you fuck his ass. it’s so hot to fuck him until his body cant control itself anymore. it makes you feel so powerful. i totally understand why guys like doing it some much. i use a double sided strapon that has a clitoral stimulator which frequently results in me cumming too.
best part is that since you didn’t unlock him, he’s still totally sexually charged and ready to go. you can either keep fucking him if you want (i like to collect his cum and use it as lube on my strapon for even more humiliation) or you can have him turn that energy to focus on your orgasm.
pegging is the best time to humiliate him too!
smack his ass
pull his hair
bend him over the couch
fuck him in the window
make him suck your strapon
make him wear a garter set and heels to make him your little slut.
tie him up and take a video of you pounding his ass.
tie him up and after he cums, grab the cum and put it on your strapon and continue to fuck him with it as lube or make him suck it off.
tie him to the bed. after your done fucking him, disconnecy the dildo from your strapon while it’s still inside him and leave it there. make him hold it in his ass while you climb on top of him to ride his tongue.
while riding his face, use a vibrator on his cage
say things to him to humiliate him:
how does it feel to be the bitch in his house?
everyone assumes you fuck me, but you’re the one that gets fucked in this house.
laugh and comment how he is the only one who gets their ass fucked in your relationship!
just laugh while you’re fucking him and then smack his ass and laugh even more,
tell him how cute he looks on his lingerie
tell him how you can’t wait to show this video to your friends, they’re never going to believe what a cock whore he has turned into
call him your whore
your dick never made me cum as hard as my dick makes you cum.
if your dick wasn’t so useless, you’d be the one fucking me like this.
if you dick wasn’t pathetically locked up you’d be able to fuck me.
i love our new way of having sex. i’m never unlocking you,
why would i ever unlock that tiny dick? it can’t make me cum anyway.
if your cock was half good as mine i’d let it out
make him say things:
make him call you master or sir and say “please fuck me master/sir”
with your strapon in his mouth, make him beg you to fuck his face. keep it in his mouth and pretend like you can’t understand him so he has to repeat it over and over.
while fucking him, ask him how he wants it. he better answer “faster” or “harder” or “deeper” or he gets his ass smacked hard.
ask him if he likes it? make him say yes.
ask him where he wants your strapon to go.
tie him up and put a ball gag in his mouth so he can’t talk.
you do the fucking now; he gets fucked.
How Pegging Fixed Our “Emotional Connection” Problem
One thing I hear a lot from other women is that they need to feel emotionally connected before they want sex. I used to feel that way too. It was frustrating—my husband wanted physical intimacy to feel close, and I needed to feel close to want the physical intimacy. Classic standoff.
Regular pegging completely flipped that script for us.
When I peg him, he’s the one being vulnerable. He’s the one opening up, surrendering, and experiencing that deep emotional exposure. There’s something about being on the receiving end—especially while locked in his pretty pink cage—that strips away the usual male defenses. He becomes softer, more attentive, and way more emotionally available afterward.
Ever since we made pegging a regular part of our dynamic, he’s started initiating emotional connection first. He’s kinder, more considerate, listens better, and actually puts in the work to make me feel loved and desired outside the bedroom. The emotional intimacy comes first now… and the sex follows naturally. I feel connected, so I’m eager. He feels owned and cared for, so he’s happy and motivated.
It’s one of those beautiful win-wins in this lifestyle. His fantasy (being pegged and dominated) directly solves one of my biggest frustrations. The more I take control in that way, the more emotionally open and satisfying our whole relationship becomes.
If you’re a keyholder struggling with that classic “he wants sex to feel close, I need to feel close for sex” loop, try making pegging a consistent thing. You might be shocked at how quickly it shifts his priorities.
