C.K. Marion

In a world that so easily shuns you when you’ve slipped up, it’s nice to know that we have a God who will never turn us away. His arms are always open to us. When the world says ‘Go away’ Jesus says, 'Come back, I love you.’

A lot of bi women are trapped in the mindset that it’s futile to pursue attraction to women. Their attraction to women is discouraged - by homophobia, bullying, heteronormativity, and even intracommunity biphobia (whether anyone wants to admit to that or not) - and most of them are closeted and isolated from other women who love women to begin with. So they shrug and think that it’s just easier and safer for them to pursue men and only men, to believe that their future will involve a man and that’s how it will be for the rest of their life. It’s a “why bother?” sentiment. Why bother, they ask themselves, when they’re at risk for bullying or abuse? Why bother when people see them as fake or lusty or sites of sexual objectification? Why bother when people externally impose the “you’ll end up with a man” ideal? Why bother when their bisexuality is invalidated no matter who they’re with or what they do? 

I can’t stop drinking about you