You insist. politely! You decline. rudely.

Adding both Rowan and Key’s tags to this actually because like. Yeah. Yeah exactly. And on the inverse of fanon ableism I can personally say that Tennas coding spoke very deeply to me while I was playing and with each replay and analysis spoke to me in a way that I hadn’t seen before- where there were symptoms of BPD without the character being treated as irredeemable or a massive burden but someone who is scared for good reason and struggling. Like you can imagine that it feels like a personal punch to the face when you then turn around and see people making jokes about him suicide baiting people and straight up attacking them or using his size to intimidate them or yandere aus or just. A variety of content thats just a caricature.

And it’s fine if you realize you might have a bias you haven’t assessed! Every single person has a bias, no matter what- and everyone is constantly learning and growing. It’s good to learn and grow and change! There are people who might just not connect the idea of “oh hes showing these signs of mental illness associated with BPD such as massive abandonment issues and struggling to navigate relationships in his life as well as lashing out or black and white thinking or breaking down over things I feel aren’t that big, therefore he must [insert stereotype here]” or even realize that that’s the thought process in the back of their head. That’s why people talk about it, thats why people say “wow the yandere trope is really ableist” or “it’s ableist to insist tenna beats people”.