"Some fans really should learn their boundries and stop acting like the cast is one of their besties." This goes for a few fans recently. I think they need to politely remember the conventions are the safe space where they can interact with the cast. Some of the tweets I've seen about finding hotels they're staying in, or trying to find them in local bars/restaurants cause me to raise a fuckass eyebrow. If they genuinely run into them in public, that's different and they can't help that - it's pure luck and super cool! However, the cast know a lot of the fans' names now that they've been to multiple cons, so I pray it doesn't become unhealthy and somewhat parasocial.
Right and now we know both Ryan and Oliver are a pair of elephants with the best memories on planet earth. They know your face and your name, so chill. They arenât your friends and wonât be. Iâd expect these people to have decorum in the sense that they know that and will continue to have these happy little run ins as fun and nothing more.
Stalking can become unhealthy and make you spiral into knowing exactly who what when and where with these people you feel strongly for. Iâve seen it many times during my time in fandoms. I do know a lot of fans who had the opportunity to visit Taylor Swift in her home and lucky none of them became super weird about it. May it remain fun.
