hi! feel free to call me cai (pronounced ts-eye) or c. I’m 25, queer, asexual, and chinese, and I use they/them pronouns!

my activity in this space may be sporadic since I’m still a bit shy re: all this, but it’s lovely to meet you all and I hope you all are having a great day :)

I’ll list a few notes/boundaries that I’ll be maintaining for this blog below. thanks for understanding!

this is an adult-only space. minors and ageless blogs will be auto-blocked.

vanilla blogs can interact and follow, but please don’t share my content on vanilla / non-kink blogs.

I may share some scenarios/headcanons/writing etc. about fictional characters or theoretical situations on this blog, but I will not post anything self-referential. I ask that you please do not send me or tag me in anything self-referential, as well. content involving fictional characters is fine as long as it’s not explicitly NSFW.

on that note, please don’t send me or tag me in anything explicitly NSFW. I may occasionally like/reblog NSFW posts, but I would prefer to interact with those on my own terms rather than having it sent to me by someone else.

I will not answer any kink-related questions about my race/culture, gender, or sexuality.

I block liberally. it isn’t necessarily personal—just curating my own space. :)

if you are unsure about my comfortability with something, feel free to ask! I may be blunt, but I don’t bite when it comes to questions asked in good faith. (though, like anyone else, I reserve the right to turn down any questions I don’t wish to answer.) just don’t be a weirdo and we’re all good lol

he is also apparently a germaphobe which is. very real lol

plus there’s this bonus whumpy scene that’s set after D/ressrosa 🥲: