new intro post incoming :D
hi! feel free to call me cai (pronounced ts-eye) or c. I’m 25, queer, asexual, and chinese, and I use they/them pronouns!
my activity in this space may be sporadic since I’m still a bit shy re: all this, but it’s lovely to meet you all and I hope you all are having a great day :)
I’ll list a few notes/boundaries that I’ll be maintaining for this blog below. thanks for understanding!
this is an adult-only space. minors and ageless blogs will be auto-blocked.
vanilla blogs can interact and follow, but please don’t share my content on vanilla / non-kink blogs.
I may share some scenarios/headcanons/writing etc. about fictional characters or theoretical situations on this blog, but I will not post anything self-referential. I ask that you please do not send me or tag me in anything self-referential, as well. content involving fictional characters is fine as long as it’s not explicitly NSFW.
on that note, please don’t send me or tag me in anything explicitly NSFW. I may occasionally like/reblog NSFW posts, but I would prefer to interact with those on my own terms rather than having it sent to me by someone else.
I will not answer any kink-related questions about my race/culture, gender, or sexuality.
I block liberally. it isn’t necessarily personal—just curating my own space. :)
if you are unsure about my comfortability with something, feel free to ask! I may be blunt, but I don’t bite when it comes to questions asked in good faith. (though, like anyone else, I reserve the right to turn down any questions I don’t wish to answer.) just don’t be a weirdo and we’re all good lol
P.S. I may sometimes take a long time to answer messages, asks, or replies—so sorry about this!! I promise it isn’t personal—I just get overwhelmed by life sometimes and/or need some time to put a response together. if I feel uncomfortable by something, I will clearly say so; otherwise, silence on my end does not mean I am deliberately ignoring you. I really do deeply appreciate the kind messages and words that folks send my way. ❤️ and of course, feel free to send me a nudge or ask me outright if you’re ever unsure about anything. Thank you so much for your patience and understanding!















