petekey wizard

happy pride month chat

Emetophobia, hemophobia, major character death (Takashi Shirogane), tw

Rating: PG-13, (brief coarse language, violence)

445 words

aw thank you! they’re so cute and playful with each other i love them,,

Anyway, so I go into the men’s restroom today, it’s empty, only guy in there is a worker that’s cleaning the stalls. There’s a freshly cleaned one thank fuck. Right as I’m about ready to enter, a group of at least five or more cis boys (late teens or young adults) head right in and I just hear, “hey, this is the men’s right?”

I duck into the stall. I sit there for ten minutes waiting for these guys to leave, they’re loud as fuck and yelling at each other and one of them won’t shut the fuck up about a “woman in the bathroom” with them. And his friends are all like, “really, where?” “I think a stall” and I just have to sit there until they leave. I’m texting my friend in the stall because she’s right outside. She’s trying to assure me that they aren’t paying attention to me, they’re likely just doing their business. No, one of them, the one that clocked me, was very much interested in me. She tells me when they’ve finally left.

She seems to understood that I was in some danger, but I had to explain to her just how much, because she really thought I could just walk out of there and be okay. “What, did you think they’d like ambush you outside the stall? Or harass you?”

Fucking yes? One of them kept saying “there’s a woman in here” to his friends. And why did it take so fucking long for them to finally leave?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just refusing to pretend that his past of living as a woman/girl in a patriarchal society didn't exist?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just refusing to be treated like garbage by ppl who claim that their trauma justifies them in treating ppl horribly?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just talking about how ppl still treat/see him as a woman even after coming out/transition?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just unwilling to pretend that he has all the same privileges as a cis man of the same ethnicity and class?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just talking ab the life he is actually living?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or he just wants biological children?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just enjoying vaginal sex?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or he just doesn't want to model his presentation after the post basic of cishet men?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just alternative in one way or another?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just also non-binary?

is that trans guy really "not wanting to be a man" ? or is he just feminine or flamboyant?

You have to let the stud know that you don't see her as less of a woman. You have to let the transfem know you won't see her as a threat if she pauses in her performance for a moment. You have to let the transmasc know he won't be a threat in your eyes if he chooses black manhood. You have to let the black masc gay man that his presence is not a danger to everyone else, you have to let him know that he does not stick out, he is not unwelcome.