if your nature is the rare kind that inevitably causes pain to others and facilitates harm to you when embodied, I want you to know that there is always a way for you to find consistent joy in this world. You can make a space for yourself and your needs here. Death is not the place you belong in because it’s not where you are. We are here to be what we are, even if what we are goes against everything in this physical world. You are more than just a spirit unable to touch the physical, you can tap into an enormous pool of passion and creativity and joy, you were born with this, you are rich with it, that’s the kind of animal you are. It’s hard to balance your nature and your presence here against all other things, but it’s possible, find what you love and play, you can do it, don’t believe it’s gone, the void you slip in isn’t forever, you can leave at any time but you have to know how. Take my hand, I’m learning with you, we are not doomed.


















