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Some of you know that I studied male sexuality and sexology in college. I have several classes on the subject under my belt and got to work with amazing specialists on the matter so I’m not just blabling info for the fun of it. In a group conversation, I shared my point of view about the whole bondage scene and some of my friends told me it helped a lot and that I should share it.

Now, this is only for educational purposes. Do I believe PB went that route for profit? Absolutely. Is it still ok for you to be completely put off by it? Absolutely.

Some of you might not agree with it, and I’m fine with that. But if you want to come for me this time, just don’t hide behind an anon post and come talk to me and we’ll discuss it like adults.

Warning: Talk of bondages, BDSM, sexual arousal in an educational matter.

My only issue was the circumstance of it and to me it seemed that pb treated it like, he’s mad so he has to take it out on MC instead of actually communicating. I would’ve preferred it to be without the trauma of the trial stuff and just have been a scene about him wanting to open up and let MC in on a part of his life that he doesn’t share very often. It did instead come across a little bit like he was taking out his anger on MC through the whole bondage thing which then paints it in a bit of a bad light. I felt it makes it seem more harmful than it actually is and is perpetuating a bit of a stigma?? But I can also imagine that kind of thing is a way for people to release emotions so maybe that was true to the bdsm community. Please correct me if my interpretation is misguided.