Chiron Moon

I will be using black moon lilith. this applies mostly to major aspects, tighter the orb the better. check house placements as well!

part 1

sun conjunct/trine/sextile lilith :

lilith in this scenario is truly the 🌞 persons dark side personified. the sun is a hot arizona morning and lilith is the dry dark night. with the conjunct specifically, a lot of mutual attraction is shown, the sun person represents liliths good side, and lilith is the sun persons dark side. together in synastry the two may be able to strike a really nice balance of energy if both can meet in the middle. the sun person will activate all of liliths traits, which could be uncomfortable if they haven’t been exposed much to them. similar to the square/opposition something about being together feels a bit wrong but it’s more likely to be sexy then alarming. the flip side with the conjunct here is that it can go either way, if the chart is mostly positive it mostly an enhancer that adds depth, two different sides of the same coin. the connection will feel profound even if it’s mundane. with the trine and sextile, the lilith person will feel like the sun person really “shines” a light on their personality and can discover untapped talents. the sun person isn’t likely to hold back the lilith in terms of sexual expression and spirit, theyre likely to “get” what/why lilith is the way they are. sexual undertones will be present in most interactions as lilith is quite sexual by nature.

sun square/opposite lilith :

this signifies a growth relationship. these two will learn a lot about each other but likely part ways if the other aspects are not strongly supportive. a lot of attraction for each other comes from how wrong it feels. the sun person finds lilith intense and uncomfortable at times and has trouble relating to the issues and morals that drive the lilith persons individuality and rebellious spirit. think diane nguyen and mr peanut butter in bojack horsemen. lilith has been described as being the dark uranus and that’s accurate. the ☀️ person may find the lilith persons personality unpredictable, and with the opposition their can be a lot of back and forth energy of wanting to rebel or compete against one another, and a basic lack of understanding . there also could be a strong forbidden aspect, “opposites attract”energy that entices the two to each other, maybe they can’t be together for some reason, and keep trying to break the rules to be together only to realize the chase was why they wanted to be together the whole time. the sun person may soak up all the attention of a room, but then tell the lilith person they should have tried harder. lilith will feel challenged by the sun persons basic sun sign traits.

moon conjunct/sextile/trine lilith:

emotional bonding is likely to be strong in the relationship. the sensitive part of the 🌙 is comforting to the lilith person. lots of subconscious attraction here, they may be on each other’s minds a lot. strong feelings of being bewitched by one another. old baggage from both parties could be expelled and healed through this. lots of repressed energy finally breaking the surface between the two. the conjunct can go either way and typically is a mixture of both the best and the worst qualities of the trine and square. on one hand you feel an emotional depth that can borderline on obsession and turmoil all at once, on another, the intensity can feel rare and preordained.

moon square/opposite lilith:

this is not a good indicator if you’re wanting an emotionally fulfilling relationship. to be frank, the moon person is probably going to get their feelings hurt a lot. moon person may want a commitment that lilith is unable/refuses to provide, and the harder the moon tries to get consistency/commitments, the harder lilith will pull back. this is especially bad if the lilith person is a male as a man’s lilith typically shows the type of person he both craves and fears. if both parties are male, they may find they cycle through periods of craving and feeling repulsed by the other. lilith will trigger the moons old emotional wounds over and over in a much darker way than they’re accustomed to. on an extreme manifestation of this placement one of these people (most likely moon as the planet person is usually the one reacting to the lilith) may actually have a mental breakdown from this contact, the emotional exhaustion can be nauseating at times. depression is a common factor here. on a more external note, it could be that the lilith person doesn’t get along with the moon persons maternal figure.

venus conjunct/trine/sextile lilith:

intense, palpable attraction that hangs in the air like a suffocating fog in interactions. it will be very easy for this relationship to have obsessive tendencies even with the easy aspects. lilith will be the forbidden fruit to venus, and a cat and mouse game could begin. if the venus person bumps heads with the lilith persons natal venus in the chart, it will heighten the forbidden feeling, but beware of this aspect combined with hard mars aspects as the intensity could go volatile fast. the two will be very intensely sexually attracted to each other, and will feel unavoidable. lilith will incite deep, protruding, likely obsessive thoughts into the venus partner. this can be especially intense for people with a heavy influence of air/earth in the natal chart as the type of feelings that are generated between lilith and venus will feel illogical, and very irrational. this can point to a karmic link between two people. it will feel very much like you were supposed to meet them, even if you’re not particularly spiritual. lilith will want to get close to the venus person instinctively. interactions will be sexy and intense. good sex indicator

venus square/opposite lilith:

a relationship that takes the forbidden fruit and poisons it. this could be a toxic relationship. sexual attraction could feel as strong as the conjunct, but these strong feelings erupt jealousy and inferiority in the venus person. mind games and manipulation are not uncommon, as well as the relationship actually being forbidden, on a worst case level this could be a mistress aspect. lilith will probably enjoy having this level of power over someone, and could stick around for the sex. in astrology lilith represents a lot of concepts, but the theme of being “too much” is common. venus may feel at times that lilith is too much to handle. they may also feel as though they need to prove themselves constantly to lilith and live in fear of losing liliths attention, again, this aspect produces a lot of illogical feeling of attraction. strong indicator for commitment issues. they could go to extremes in order to make points made. issues with telling both parties telling the truth, hidden lies eventually surfacing and causing imminent heart break.

mars conjunct/sextile/trine lilith :

SPICY hot attraction. the feeling as though you’re plummeting towards the sun at 400 mphs. out of all the lilith contacts this one produces the most raw magnetism. this contact is also the most confidence inspiring aspect for lilith. something about the mars person just makes you feel sexy. if lilith is taken this will not stop mars from pursuing. especially with the conjunct, lilith will be the challenge they want. the two are also likely respect each other’s drive and ambitions. they may have an almost taboo sex life, very experimental in nature, as well as frequent. could even be a possible nymphomanic aspect. goals the two set their eyes on will seem like easy prey with each other and produces a couple with an insane amount of endurance, but not stability. lilith may unintentionally encourage mars impulsive side and get them into trouble. the two could be partners in crime quite literally (especially if mars has negative uranus/pluto aspects natally but sun chiefly) a bonnie and clyde sort of duo that produces quite a bit of excitement but even the easy aspects make the arguments a bit more fiery. arguments could even be a bit of a foreplay for these two as this aspect is extremely sexual, makeup sex/breakup sex are very common.

mars square/opposite lilith:

an initially wildly, captivating encounter, that goes sour fast. the two may end up being sexually active quickly after meeting, but when these two aren’t having sex they’re likely fighting. whether that be arguing, actually physically fighting each other, these two simply tick each other off. mars may have to deal with working on a controlling tendency, even if they’re not a controlling person by nature the lilith person makes them feel this way. mars views lilith as a never ending challenge to conquer. strong feelings of obsession that go both ways. at its worst the two may react violently towards each other over in an impetuous manner. a love-hate relationship with lots of departures and hate sex. the mars person may have a lot of issues controlling their temper. beware

Well Harmonic charts are VERY complicated.  The basis behind them is that we multiply degrees times fixed numbers to blow up the degrees in harmonic charts.  What we end up getting is each Harmonic chart we go into sees how the planets interact at deeper levels.  

The best way to describe this is if we see the natal birth horoscope as our physical plane existence. Each time you look into a Harmonic chart number that is higher, we are looking deeper into the persons soul.  Think of Harmonics as a case study of seeing into someones soul.  On the birth level we see an aspect that might need more exploration.  Perhaps on the birth horoscope we see they are an artist.  Now Harmonics can see what kind of art they do.

I have seen certain people go as much as harmonic chart 128.  But for learning, and sanity purpose I encourage people who are really into this to start small.

First off how do we calculate it if we are not massive scientists and mathematicians?  Well we use Astro.com.  once you have an account there, you can save your information and quickly draw up harmonics of any number you imagine.

You can do this easily in astro.com as they have a drop down for harmonic charts.  it even tells you on the site how to do it.  Here take a Look. I will show you a quick example of Harmonics in action.  Below I am showing where on astro.com to find the harmonics selection, and what I will do is show you a few harmonic charts, what the layers represent and how to read aspects within.

As you can see, we are in the extended chart selection of astro.com.  "under please select the type of chart you want", scroll down to “other charts”, then “harmonic charts (please enter harmonic chart in day field.”)  Once your mouse selects that option, under date the first text field says “start date for charts marked with” and then in that box, in the day field you put the harmonic number you want to look at.

When you look at a harmonic chart, conjunctions take a priority because they are the most powerful.  What we also look for is ties to the ascendant, because those parts of the soul because a major part in their self expressions.  Youll find hidden parts of a personality that are subtle in expression that you wont find from a birth horoscope.  We can also look for planets tieing to conjnctions to make a major aspect.  If they don’t tie to the ascendant, then these parts are internalized but still present.

Another important thing to look at is the midheaven.  Why?  because harmonic aspects that tie to the midheaven through conjunction or major aspect can come before the public or be used in the career.

What am I going to do is a really basic small case study of Famous Singer Johnny Cash.  What am I going to do is show you his birth chart, and give you a brief explanation as to why we use harmonics and their importance into showing our soul and the way we subtly acts and thinks.  You might be surprised as to how it reveals things about how a person acts when these aspects can’t be seen in the birth horoscope.

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The purpose of this case study is to prove the effectiveness of Harmonic charts in show casing a persons artistic expression if the natal birth horoscope prove artistic talent.  In this case I am using Famous Singer Johnny Cash as the subject.  I will start by using the Natal Birth Horoscope as a means to set the stage of the Harmonics Charts used later to explain Cash’s Soul and subtle behaviors we don’t see at the physical Birth Chart Level.

(Natal Birth Horoscope)

Let us start by painting a picture of Johnny Cash on the physical plane.  We can see in the first house he has a conjunction aspect of less then 1 degree of Venus and Uranus.  This aspect makes who is very artistic eccentric in expression it.  They are rebels of their times and certainly love to go against the grain of society in their expression.  

This is more so powerful for Cash because it happens in the first house that represents unconscious behavior expression and mannerisms.  It doesn’t show his musical talent per say, but it certainly sets the stage.  It exists in flowing aspects in many musicians charts who go against the grain in the their music.

Cash has a conjunction of sun, mercury, and mars.  All three of these planets were in the 12 house which is famous for having two sides, a spiritual side and a self undoing side.  Cash was lost at points and did drugs in his life because the ego struggled to establish itself.  It the Pisces concept of being lost that can lead to the self undoing that shows itself in the 12th house sun often.

In one interview johnny cash mentioned that his father worked very hard in fields and he was of a family of 7 children.  He never mentioned it directly but I believe the typical 12th house sun protocol may of been present.  His father was described as a decent guy, but may of been to busy and preoccupied trying to support and raise a large family to focus on Cash’s individuality from child hood.

Having Mars in the 12th tends to internalize anger, and with sun there I believe this set the stage for his drug problems.  With no healthy way to express his anger, he interalized it and it helped lead to his early “self undoings.”

As he got older, he became more spiritual he slowly unlocked the power of that 12th stellium with mercury, mars and sun there.  He used the suns creative drive in the Pisces house to write music.  Alot of it had spiritual overtones, which can be seen in the birth horoscope quiet easily.

When people with sun in 12 transcend, they can use the artistic side of Pisces to help form their ego and what they are about.  In this case, he used that Neptune energy of Pisces to be put into music and writing songs.

Cash had pluto in the 5th which i believed added depth to his creative nature being in the house of self and self expression.  He really loved to express himself, but I believe the pluto energy added the depth to his song writing because Leo loves to be creative.

Last on the Birth chart we see Sagittarius on the 10th house cusp with it’s ruler Jupiter in the 5th house.  This Lordship sets the stage for someone whose career and public reputation is influenced by their creative Leo side.  So his Career of being a singing came because of this.  He brought his Leo side of self expression and creating music to his career.  And since Lord Jupiter was the planet in the 5th ruling the 10th, he had an expanded interest in being creative.

The birth horoscope doesn’t show everything about Johnny Cash’s desire to sing or be artistic, but it certainly set the stage.  So let’s cut his chart open using the 5th, 7th, 11th, and 32nd harmonic to see more of what made him the way he was.

(5th Harmonic)

First Let’s look at his 5th Harmonic.  The 5th Harmonic horoscope shoes hidden talents.  In this Harmonic we see his Ascendant trines a conjunction of Venus and Uranus.  So he had a hidden talent of bringing his love of being a rebel out in self expression behavior.  Not necessarily a wild find as Venus and Uranus were conjunct in the birth horoscope, but the Harmonic confirms it further.

In this harmonic he has a conjunction of Neptune and Saturn which I believe made him have take spirituality and music seriously.  It opposes a major conjunction directly opposite.  The midheaven has chiron sun and mercury siting in a conjunction.  This conjunction I believe indicates he had a hidden talent for creatively (the sun) communicating (mercury) about pain (Chiron) in his career (midheaven.)  Alot of his music certainly did showcase about painful expediences people had.

All of this in an opposition tied his career/ midheaven to music and spirituality. I believe this is also why he had a serious (Saturn) hidden talent for expressing himself through music (Neptune, creativity, music.) in his career.

(7th Harmonic)

Now on deeper we go to the 7th Harmonic.  The 7th Harmonic represents Inspiration and how we inspire others.  In his 7th Harmonic Cash has sun and Mercury conjuncted tight part of an aspect pattern that opposes Neptune.  I translate this has he is creatively inspired (the sun) to communicate (mercury) through music and spirituality (opposite neptune.)  The opposition just ties it together.  More important parts of his music.

(11th Harmonic)

On to the 11th Harmonic we see a persons imagination, fantasy and dream world.  Imagination is very important to a singer and music writer.  The first thing I notice immediate is his Ascendant has Neptune conjunct exact.  This would indicate he has mannerisms of expressing his imagination through his self expression and mannerisms and behaviors.

Opposite that is a conjunction of mercury and sun, which makes ties Neptune to make an ability to creatively communicate his imagination that we can’t see on the birth horoscope level.  A key ingredient i believe for a country/pop folk singer which his music is more word driven.

Also he has a conjunction in this harmonic between Venus Uranus and chiron. His artistic side (Venus) met with his rebellious and innovated side (Uranus) and included painful experiences together.  All key ingratiation in his imagination used to write music He was very artistic about expressing and creating art (music) that was about painful experience, all born from the imagination in his 11th harmonic.

Last but not least his midheaven has another strong conjunction.  Mars and Jupiter conjuncted the midheaven.  Mars the imagination an unconscious desire to appear before the public.  Jupiter expands this ability for the imagination to come, and may even add some luck in the public being receptive to putting his imagination on display.  He did become famous after all.

(32nd Harmonic)

Last but not least the 32nd harmonic.  Kind of a dark horse to use in case study as the 32nd harmonic represents inner drive, talent and motivation.  This will show why Cash was motivated to bring it all to a surface level.  

First let’s look at the chiron, ascendant, moon conjunction in this harmonic.  He had an inner drive to express his emotions and pain through his self mannerisms and expression.  A key ingredient I believe important to putting his feelings behind his music.

Another vital conjunction exists in the 32nd harmonic.  Mercury, Neptune and sun make a wide conjunction, but still vital for his inner drive.  He was motivated to express his creative nature ( Sun) by communicating (mercury) his spiritual, creative and musical side from Neptune energies (neptune.)

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The angles can be compared to the ‘backbone’ of the chart. They represent the four pillars that form our identity and show were we ‘become’ and take action towards ‘becoming’, Thus, when the angles are touched in synastry, there is a constant flow of energy, and it’s either stimulating or irritating, as one part of our self/identification is constantly influenced and thus triggered by someone else’s energy. Naturally, if the angles are touched in synastry, the influence of these aspects on the whole chemistry can be very significant as the planet person will have a strong influence on the direction of ‘becoming’ the angle person takes.  When the Ascendant is touched in synastry, at best it can show how to people hit it off from the beginning or at worst, what set’s them apart fight from the beginning. When the Ascendant is touched, it can set the whole mood for not only the start of a connection, but also its development over time, as the Ascendant is how you a) immediately relate to one another and b) how you influence the Ascendant person’s development of the person they are, the way they navigate through life. 

! The following will show the positive as well as negative potential of Ascendant contacts in synastry.

✧ Sun-Ascendant:

When the Sun and Ascendant touch positively/neutrally, this can bring an immediate familiarity between the two, the Sun person is generally supportive and inspiring to the Ascendant person, they usually see themselves reflecting in each other, though the Sun person is rawer in the expression of this energy and thus can potentially come off too strong for the Ascendant person at times, especially if they themself have difficulties with their Ascendant’s energy. Generally though, the Sun person can seem like the ‘master’ of energy, meaning they can show the Ascendant person the best way in how to become more authentic in their self image and how to integrate their self image into their environment successfully. Harmonious/neutral aspects can create a ‘feel-good’ connection, that is not only exciting because it grands opportunities, but also bears the potential to grow and learn together. At worst, the Sun’s expression is too overbearing, too out of control for the Ascendant person. The Sun person can become too demanding and pushy/bossy, while both feel misunderstood and like their freedom of choice and independence is threatened.

✧ Moon-Ascendant:

Moon and Ascendant in combination can create a wonderful comfortable atmosphere, and most likely the Moon person feels welcome to express their emotional nature, because they feel the Moon person just gets them. As they both feel like they somehow reflect each others way of processing emotions and what is needed to be comfortable, this can easily lead to more vulnerable and intimate moments between the two, though this effect can also lead to a feeling of intrusion for the Moon person, as the Ascendant person can act like a ‘mind reader’. At the same time, the Ascendant person might think the Moon person is emotionally overbearing and exhausts them. This contact, no matter of harmonious, neutral or negative, can show a point in a connection where both are very reactive with the other, emotions come and go spontaneously, thus this can be a point of moodiness and instability as well.  At worst, this can lead to misunderstandings, the Moon person being perceived as too sensitive for the Ascendant person and them having to adjust to their needs.

✧ Mercury-Ascendant:

Communication just flows here. As it’s easy to find topics to talk about, Mercury and the Ascendant coming together can bear the opportunity for decreased boredom, but also being able to reflect the world around one with one another. Both might enjoy that they make sense out of the world in the same or similar way, thus giving the opportunity to define and sharpen each others intellect. Both can hold an equal amount of adoration for the other, while the Mercury person can have especially big heart eyes for the Ascendant person, as they show how the Mercury persons energy (even if it’s just similar) can be successfully integrated in ones direct approach to the world. Thus, there is an opportunity to feel small in this connection, or make it a competition, with an belittling attitude from either the Ascendant or Mercury person to the other. So when there’s not a mental stimulation, which leads to mutual intellectual progression and/or integrating the self better into ones environment, at worst this can lead to difficulties in finding common interests, bickering about every detail and potentially feeling annoyed by the others constant disagreement or even feeling little around the other. Even if a debate is interesting, if there’s no real closure, both feel like it’s hard pursuing the other and making amends. Awkwardness at first meeting with harsh aspects can occure as well, because both don’t know how to successfully start a conversation or how to run it organically and smoothly.

✧ Mars-Ascendant:

This connection can be quiet exciting at first. The Ascendant person is energized by Mars, and Mars is motivated by the way the Ascendant person expresses themselves. The Ascendant person can naturally awake curiosity and thus the ‘pursuer’ in Mars. This connection can lead to the desire to take action together, or motivating the other to take action. Especially the Ascendant person can benefit from the Mars persons energy, as their motivation and attention can lead to a confident boost, or Mars helping with any sort of plans the Ascendant person has for their future. Needless to say, this connection is famously known to create physical attraction, as the need to take action towards the Ascendant person and the amount of attraction and attention the Ascendant person receives can heighten physical chemistry. But there is also another side to it: neutral or harsh aspects can create real competition between the two. The competition is playful at best, but can turn between a fight of egos easily. Unintentionally or intentionally riling the other up is possible here, irritation can lead to frustration and thus heighten the chances for fights. Aggression is openly expressed here. Putting one’s foot in the others mouth can be common as well, the Ascendant person can especially feel like the Mars person is rather inconsiderate and too impulsive or stubborn.

✧ Venus-Ascendant:

A famously known beneficial connection, because both find it easy to connect to the other, as they represent the standard of what one needs in order to build a friendship, or at least a harmonious bond. Here, both most likely seek for the same or similar experiences and values in a social connection and thus really enjoy spending quality time together. The Venus person usually feels easily drawn to the Ascendant person, and the Ascendant person appreciates and welcomes the Venus person and can subconsciously seek them out even. Socializing together is just a lot of fun here, though sometimes these moments can be fleeting. Both can feel too busy feeling goof and focusing on the nice stuff, that they forget the necessary, but most likely tougher topics/situations that occur in any form of close connection. At worst, this can lead to feeling awkward with the other or even turned off, as the Ascendant person can come off as 'uncultured’ or without any manner/insensitive, and the Venus person as stuck up or very conceited/snobbish.

✧ Jupiter-Ascendant:

Compared to Mercury, this can be more the indicator of  a subconscious, more spiritual connection, that is based on the same attitude towards something or believe/following. The mutual connection is most likely felt. The Ascendant person can feel strong admiration for the Jupiter person and see them as some sort of ideal or mentor/teacher. The mutual agreement on whatever these two follow in life, can bring out a feeling of companionship. The two most likely will find the time they spend interesting and enjoyable or find it easy to have a good time together! At worst, the other can appeal as a try hard or preachy and snobbish/egalitarian. Same as with the Sun, harsh or neutral aspects can make the Jupiter person overbearing and hard to handle at time, other than that, the differences in believes, ethics, etc. can create tension, or make one feel off put by the other and fall into ethical fights that can exaggerate rather quickly.

✧ Saturn-Ascendant:

When Saturn and the Ascendant touch, this can evoke deep respect for the other, or at worst feeling pressured, judged and even being afraid of making mistakes in front of the other. At first, this aspect can bring distance, as if the other has to be scanned before proceeding to pursue them, but this connection can bear a lot of warmth and closeness, as Saturn here works as a stabilizer: the two want to become their best versions together. It is especially Saturn that can fall into the admirer/student role here, as the Ascendant person can be the positive example of how to successfully integrate Saturn’s lesson and call for responsibility into the world. Due to this factor, the Ascendant person can soften the Saturn person up, and subconsciously they can form a 'responsibility’ to stay together, because it’s simply beneficial for both, as the Ascendant person can strengthen their own character through the Saturn person. So at best, this contact can be very practical and useful, but at worst, this contact can bring coldness, distance, especially the Saturn person can perceive the Ascendant person as irresponsible, while the Ascendant person feels that Saturn is their strongest critique and even cruel/not empathetic.

✧ Uranus-Ascendant:

This contact can create strong, sudden feelings when the two meet, truly electrifying, but as Uranus’ bursts of energy come and go, so can the intensity of this urge to be together as well. Despite this on and off, Uranus can truly boost the Ascendant’s person growth, as Uranus constantly questions the status quo of themself, their surroundings and society’s structures. Both identify with what sets each of them apart, which can create a strong sense of companionship. Both can value the unconditional acceptance the other give. At worst, the need for unconventionality and change in the dynamic can cause a fragile bond, Uranus might get bored easily or thinks the Ascendant person is too narrow minded in the way the represent themself and approach the world. The two can come across as too off putting and thus they simply walk into two different directions. Especially the Ascendant person can feel like the Uranus person triggers something self destructive inside them.

✧ Neptune-Ascendant:

When Neptune touches the Ascendant, the Neptune person can see a wonderful dream in the Ascendant person and at first this can be true for the Ascendant person as well. Idealization plays a huge role here, as the Ascendant person can represent everything the Neptune person dreams of, and the Ascendant person most likely welcomes the devoting and empathetic nature of the Neptune person. They can inspire the other to create new dreams and follow them, again, the Ascendant person probably feels lifted by Neptune’s spirit, but the question is how real it can be, until it crosses the line of mere dreaming. At worst, the Ascendant person can become an object of 'delusion’ for the Neptune person, and Neptune gets the other off course by leading them to no real end goal. There is simply not enough realism that can actualize any of these dreams and desires between the two. The Neptune person confuses and frustrates the Ascendant person. Neptune could also be turned off by the Ascendant’s cruel nature or feel scared to open up their deepest desires and feelings in front of them. It can also cause an awkward feeling of simply assuming what the other feels, without ever addressing it, because both are avoidant.

✧ Pluto-Ascendant:

This connection can cause extreme reactions towards the other: either being intrigued or withdrawal, with most likely the Ascendant person being the one desiring distance between the Pluto person. Regardless, both can be tempted to get to know the other better, as both feel like the other has something important to reveal to them (which can also point to physical intimacy). Pluto usually sees the Ascendant person as their object of interest, while the Ascendant person likes the power Pluto holds and thus almost subconsciously open ups to them. Both can feel eerily comfortable together as they feel like they carry the same wounds, or at least the Ascendant person can help Pluto understand their wounds better, how to get over their fears and integrate their power successfully into the world. Meeting each other can feel fateful even. Coming together can feel like playing with fire for the Ascendant person  at worst, this connection can cause constant triggering and provoke the worst behavior of self destruction, especially in Pluto. The connection can blow up in flames and turn to ashes when any suspicions aren’t sorted out.

✧ Ascendant-Ascendant:

Both have a similar approach to life and thus start off the connection on easy terms in most cases. Working together, forming a routine and sorting out priorities as well. This connection can also indicate having followed an either a very similar life path so far or that both life paths 'complete’ or improve the other’s approach to life. Supportive. The harmony and similarities can turn into feeling stuck in a rut as well though. At worst, both have an approach to life that is simply too different, this can cause constant bickering or even having difficulties aligning a future together, causing the connection to fade away. Being torn in how to successfully move forward together, misunderstanding happen on basic levels.

✧ Lilith-Ascendant:

Challenging and/or exciting. Lilith here offers the Ascendant person another perspective it life, one they consider new and exciting or even inappropriate or taboo. This is why Lilith contacts to the Ascendant can feel like temptation and are alluring, as well as destructive. Sometimes Lilith provokes the Ascendant person on purpose, other times it genuine and is meant to give mutual stimulation and fun. The Ascendant person either appreciates Lilith’s 'wildcard’ nature, which can initiate change in the way the Ascendant person approaches and sees the world, or at worst, it causes frustration, hurt and aggression in the Ascendant person, while Lilith feels judged and alienated.

✧ Vertex-Ascendant:

When the Vertex touches this can create a meaningful connection, the Vertex person will cause long-term change in the Ascendant person by their influence on them. In long term connections, this can be a sign of strong attraction, never getting tired of the other and constantly searching ways to stay and come together. Bringing something new into the Ascendant’ persons life by coming into their life. It is important to mention that a Vertex connection can come in many ways: it’s not always romantic and not always long term (because the rest of the synastry and birth chart’s always play into this). The empathize is here that that the Vertex person has great influence on the Ascendant person, no matter if it’s a friendship,  a colleague, or simply someone they talked to at the nearest bus stop this morning.

✧ North Node-Ascendant:

Similar to the Vertex, this can also indicate someone that feels 'meant to be’, but compared to the Vertex person, the North Node person is meant to work together with you, as you both follow a similar path together. Especially the North Node person feels like the Ascendant person is their friend/mentor/lover that was here to help them realize who they are truly meant to be. As the North Node holds very impatient and straight forward energy, the Ascendant person is pushed to take action in their life and the North Node person most likely appreciates and values the new opportunities for self realization the Ascendant person offers. At worst, when the North Node and Ascendant clash, the believes the Ascendant person follows in life do not align with the North Node person and can cause them to feel slowed down or discouraged by the Ascendant person, which can potentially lead to the North Node person searching for distance. The Ascendant person might feel like the North Node person is too stubborn or obsessed with how things/they should be.

✧ Chiron-Ascendant:

This can indicate a strong teacher-student dynamic between two people. The Ascendant person can become the living example of healing for the Chiron person and inspire them to grow out of their open wound/show them how to properly heal and integrate it into their life. Both can expose the other to any unrecognized or hidden wounds. The Chiron person can help the Ascendant person with any unnoticed/unhealed wounds regarding their self expression, body image or self-esteem and can motivate them to take action towards self improvement. At worst the, the Ascendant person is a constant reminder of Chiron’s trauma and can accidentally hit them where it hurts the most.

✧ Juno-Ascendant:

This aspect can be really benefitting for any long term connection, as it can show the Juno person that the Ascendant person is willing to commit to the same things in life Juno thinks of as important, especially in any relationship/friendship. The Ascendant person could shine here with their sense of devotion to the Juno person. Thus, this contact can act like a reinforcement for the strength of the connection both share. Ultimately, this can add to Junos and the Ascendant persons contentment in the relationship. At worst, Juno sees the Ascendant person as unreliable and flaky. The Juno person can become dissatisfied easily.

Venus conjunct Moon synastry is considered a true love aspect. If at a tight orb the love will be mutual and likely emotionally fulfilling.  Both parties tend to be very sweet to each other. It can be sickening to outsiders sometimes. They very much understand each other’s emotional and security needs. They enjoy doting and spoiling one another with back rubs and gifts. They are each other’s side kick and best friend. They care for each other deeply, and selflessly. The Moon finds beauty and warmth from the Venus. The Venus feels greatly understood and nurtured in return. Long walks, hand in hand and cuddling. They look into each other’s eyes and feel their spirits lift. Simply being in one another’s presence heals pain. It feels as though they are wearing a favorite comfortable sweater. They are a classic and romantic pairing. In non-romantic relationships this aspect will still be good to have.  They joke around and behave goofy.  Venus feels like being romantic with the Moon. The Moon draws out their creative and organic self.  They are allowed to be themselves in this relationship. They hardly will notice other people when they’re with each other. If one of them do give anyone outside of the relationship more attention than the other party will feel left out in the cold. There can be jealousy but generally they want to make each other as happy as possible.  Going about their individual daily routines won’t normally clash too much. Always look to the rest of the chart to determine.

Venus square Moon indicates a rather strong emotional and sexual connection. Instead of the conjunction and softer contacts which show mutual understanding and good feelings. The square creates friction and a restless energy. Venus square Moon in synastry shows two people who usually are very much in love, or attracted to one another but are very different in how they each express their emotions and go about romantic gestures. Frequent likely arguments can become the couples natural form of foreplay.. Such paring indicates an off and on again relationship. Similar in some basic ways but different in other important ways. They argue about little petty things. This can even be the case in the early stages of the relationship, but since there’s a strong attraction both parties will try to ignore the irritation or awkwardness felt sometimes. This aspect will generally play out when they couple is out socializing together or having company over to their home. They can have differences when it comes to raising their children, or have conflicting views on marriage and children. Such as one person may want kids and a big family while the person person although aren’t entirely turned off by the idea, is not completely sure that is something they want. They may want to travel and never considered children. Their moods generally two don’t match up well. One person will want to have sex and the other seems to be caught up in something else they’re doing. When the two do sync up, there is emotionally driven sex. 

Venus conjunct Mars is considered to be a marriage and major sexual attraction aspect. Especially when it is at a tight orb. This particular aspect’s potency depends on other mars and venus contacts going on in the synastry charts. When Venus conjunct Mars, there is an immense sexual chemistry between two people. Venus is the feminine and Mars is the masculine, so together they have found their ideal match. They view each other as the mate they always wanted. Mars is compelled to touch and flirt with Venus. They really like to touch one another, especially early on in relationships. They may feel like they haven’t been as fulfilled in the bedroom before they met each other. Mars is usually the initiator and behaves like Venus’s knight in shining armor. They feel compelled to win Venus over. Venus in return feels completely in her feminine energy, but being chased after by Mars. Mars really make them feel like a woman. Not only is there simply a sexual/romantic attraction, there is mutual respect. Both parties do not mind going out of their way for one another. In fact they may want to team up and tackle projects together. People  see the couple as an ideal match. They physically look good together and are charming. This is a good long-term aspect because when two people are sexually compatible it makes them less likely to wander outside of the relationship.  Candle lit love making and passion are all the name of the game. If there are any negative contacts connected to this one, then beware of jealousy.  You don’t need to be around each other 24/7. Give each other some room to breathe or this can turn platonic.

Venus square Mars there is either an immediate repulsion or attraction towards one another. In many cases it is both. The way that the Mars person advances on the Venus person can make them flat out uncomfortable.  However that is where the tricky-ness occurs with this aspect. There is a fine line between dislike and like. Love and hate. They irritate the hell out of each other sometimes, which ironically fuels the attraction. Venus see’s Mars as aggressive or inconsiderate. Mars sees Venus as soft and beautiful physically, but Venus is overly sensitive or does not react how the Mars wants when they pursue. Mar’s wants to dominate and conquer Venus, so they can come off as desperate or overbearing.  It can take longer then the conjunction/opposition for these two to form a relationship of any kind because of how much they drive each other crazy. They can be be that couple who has some fiery, epic arguments. Screaming at each other in a very public place. All because one of them said/did something the other person didn’t approve of. Other people will take notice of the tension between them, especially in the beginning. Some issues this contact also ensures is sexual disharmony. They are attracted and horny, just at different times. When they do have sex it’ll be aggressive and passionate. Think of Brad and Angelina in Mr. and Mrs. Smith. Loud make up sex isn’t uncommon.  

Moon conjunct Mars in synastry is a baby maker aspect. This is because of the impassioned physical responses from both parties. There is a great deal of libido responses when around each other, making them more fertile. The moon persons emotions are drawn outward, making them feel vulnerable initially in front of Mars. the mars can go into fits when the moon becomes overly sensitive or emotional. At the same time there is a lot of understanding about what both people are attracted to in an intimate relationship. The moon in the beginning is intimidated by the mars yet finds their domination and strength to be very sexy. It causes much steam. The kind which burns underneath the skin. This attraction is primal and instinctive. This aspect puts both people in heat.  They want to engage in sexual activities or mate. The sex is likely to happen quickly. Mars does the chasing and wants the Moon person SO badly. Both planets feel primal and primitive traits of animal and man. There can be an animalistic quality to the sex. It is common for the Moon person to want to have the Mars children.  The female in this contact can become more fertile like those mentioned above. Mars makes the moon feel safe and protected. Mars is indeed protective of the moon. They go into total warrior mode when anyone messes with their lover. Although they may respond heatedly to each other, any outsiders should beware trying to pull that nonsense. This is another good long-term contact to have if there’s other positive aspects. Similar to the Venus/Mars conjunct, there is great sexual relief and satisfaction.

🤍This is such a romantic aspect! It gives the relationship a soft and warm feeling. When the planet of romance comes into contact with the planet of emotion it creates a nurturing and loving atmosphere around this relationship. These people truly care for and appreciate eachother.

The Moon person feels safe to express their most repressed emotions because there is a beautiful amount of understanding with these people. They can see each others needs and will happily meet them as there is a reqiuted respect and nurturing that takes place between these two.

The Venus persons love language matches perfectly with what the Moon person needs to feel loved and important. It makes the moon person feel truly special!

And the Venus person thrives off of the emotional support and reciprication of care! There is little misunderstanding when it comes to how these two love eachother Because the way each one shows the other affection is exactly what they both need to feel cared for. This means that both people rarely feel neglected.

I have also found that often in this connection these people both help stimulate each other creatively. Especially the Moon person who can see the Venus person as their muse. The Moon person is so inspired creatively by the venus person and they love expressing it! It makes them feel alive! And the Venus person loves to be the muse as it makes them feel truly beautiful! Like a piece of art being gazed at.

This is one of my favorite aspects for that soft and sweet kind of love! It can also be a good long term aspect because of the understanding it creates 🖤

Romantic Synastry Series: Mars Synastry Connections are intense and can be very much needed in relationships because Mars represents movement and the expenditure of energy. The sparks in a relationship begin with Mars in synastry and the longevity is determined by strong Moon or Saturnian aspects. With Mars aspects, you can expect a travel companion, a business partner or someone who has you become their gym companion. This is a connection that can change your outlook and bring some potent transformations for both parties. Mars needs balance to bring true happiness and the person with Mars in the synastry must add compromise to make the relationship thrive. This post focuses on the harmonious aspects only.

Mars/Sun – This is the lust at first sight placement. Expect the chemistry levels to be through the roof assuming there aren’t any Saturn contacts especially with the conjunction. The conjunction adds a level of intimacy that will allow both parties to feel very comfortable with one another immediately. It can feel like a fated occurrence, that you have met one another before in another timeline. Mars here represents what the Sun is physically attracted to. The Sun is enchanted by Mars because of the attention they receive from their partner. This connection could be purely physical at first and can become something more with time. Mars is pleased with this connection since they retain most of the control, it appreciates the Sun and wants to build. This aspect can help both parties enter a business endeavor together as well, especially with the trine aspect. You can expect favorable outcomes here with Mars and Sun agreeing to a common goal. The sextile adds playfulness and romance but not as much of the blinding passion that the conjunction and trine will provide.

Mars/Moon – Passionate connection between these two people and an element of possession by Mars. Mars is enchanted by the Moon to the point where it wants to dominate and control. The masculine side of Mars will see the Moon as the ideal person to be with. Moon is someone they can protect or possibly control. With the positive aspects, the Moon will be happy that Mars will safeguard and care for them. It is not surprising if both parties feel the need to be together and commit immediately since Mars wants to live and share moments with the Moon with urgency. A connection like this can feel surreal and beautiful with the trine. As usual, the sextile brings a calmer energy that flows and yes, both parties will feel the urge to get to know one another and be together but it will take time. This aspect can be successful generally with the harmonious trines and sextiles. Conjunctions can go either sweet or sour, but generally should be fine if both parties are mature and have some influence of a Moon/Saturn or Mars/Saturn dynamic natally.

Mars/Mercury – Intense communication with this placement as both parties feel emotionally and intellectually stimulated. Mars is captivated by what Mercury has to say. If it is a conjunction, the conversation can become heated, but it will be more in an engaging and intriguing way. Mercury can teach Mars how to see all sides to an argument and provide clarity only if Mars is willing to respect their partner’s views and the relationship is balanced. The trine aspect can provide a playful and fun dynamic to their communication. They will be inspired by each other, bouncing off ideas. This is ideal for Mercurial people and Uranian types. If both partners are in the creative field, they can make some wonderful projects together, especially with the sextile since it will allow them to build in a respectful way by honoring what their partner has to say and appreciating their opinions.

Mars/Venus – Passionate Venus will enjoy the game with Mars. Venus can shine and feel a sense of confidence with this synastry aspect. Mars will be the soldier that will protect and captivate Venus. With the conjunction, this synastry aspect can make Mars obsessed with Venus but Venus here can hold their own. Like with the Moon, Mars will be focused on controlling Venus because they represent everything they want in a partner. However, Venus will be much more of a challenge here. Games will be played between the two until Mars sees themselves as the victorious one (or at least Venus will let them think that). The trine will allow the energy to flow between both people in a way that adds an element of compromise. Venus will be diplomatic, and Mars will follow suit but the romantic gestures and devotion will be much more appreciated by Venus. With the sextile, it will be easiest to handle since both parties will be even more receptive to creating balance and harmony. It will be more playful here and enjoyable.

Mars/Mars – Similar to the Sun and Mars aspect, Mars in the same sign or with a Trine can make partners filled with passion and a deeper connection since the energies are understood and can be shared in controlled ways. The conjunction will add a competitive feel and sparks will be flying for these people when they are together most of the time. The sextile adds restraint, cool, calm and the ability to bring up the passion seamlessly whenever they want. Building and creating can be wonderful for these people if they are able to meet a compromise or if they have a common adversary. When both have a goal they want to seek together, they can become unstoppable, and others may even envy the way that they can work together to get things done. This relationship gets better with time the longer they are together and the more opportunities they have to grow as a team.

Mars/Jupiter – Explosive connection and both parties will not be able to get enough of each other. There is a hunger that is not satiated when both are close. The conjunction makes them inseparable; the trine adds more of a romantic and controlled feel while the sextile is the smoothest energy of them all, allowing them to come together in harmony, seamlessly whenever. Mars will be challenged here as Jupiter prefers to do things on their own. This can make Mars respect Jupiter but also wary as Mars sees the strong independent spirit that their partner has. Jupiter can become a great teacher for Mars, allowing them to see things differently and open their mind. This can serve as a Mercury and Mars connection if Jupiter is more worldly or older than Mars, they can be a teacher or a guide for them. With this relationship there is the potential for growth as Mars will continue to be fascinated by Jupiter as time goes by.

Mars/Saturn – This could feel quite restrained and controlled as Saturn makes Mars hit the brakes. Saturn allows Mars to mature showing them how to express themselves in new ways; it can even make Mars want to commit, assuming both parties are focused on the long term and have set their sights on a path of growth. For partners with Uranian dominance, this can feel overwhelming, but with time they can settle in if all other aspects allow. The conjunction can feel heavy, especially for Mars since Saturn may be older or just carry themselves in a more mature way. Mars can feel restricted, but those obstacles can ease themselves with time. The trine is more cooperative and preferred for both parties since it can allow them to channel their energies into building a stronger foundation for their relationship. The sextile adds a level of commitment, but it might not be as strong as Saturn would like. Either way, this is a recipe for a relationship that gets better with years, and it is essential that both parties remain patient and understanding.

Mars/Neptune – Fairy Tale connection when Neptune meets Mars. This can be a sultry bond, one that you could only have imagined in your wildest of dreams. While Neptune can make this feel fated and spiritual, it can also make you feel like you have on rose colored glasses. Be aware of who you are with and try to be more analytical once the glamour drops. With the conjunction, both parties will be in their own little world. Things will feel surreal until the shoe drops and both parties begin to see who they are with. Sometimes, seeing the reality might be a little bit of a shock but assuming there are positive or grounding Saturnian aspects involved, both people can appreciate what the other has to offer. The trine adds some flare, but it will make both partners very hyper aware of who they are with. With the sextile it is by far the most pleasant aspect since Neptune’s mystery will be easily navigated. Mars will see Neptune as someone they can learn from, and this becomes similar to the Jupiter/Mars aspect where one can serve as a guide to the other without the smoke and mirrors the conjunction might provide.

Mars/Uranus – Other worldly connection as Mars is enchanted by Uranus because of how they view the world. Mars understands levels of structure like Saturn, but it is extremely impulsive and not as rigid. However, meeting Uranus will bring Mars into a more Saturnian role in this relationship. The conjunction will be explosive as Mars begins to pursue relentlessly for the freedom seeking and independent Uranian partner. This aspect surely delivers with excitement and unexpected moments that can wear down Mars over the years. At the beginning, things can feel experimental and surreal, adding a tinge of the Neptunian connection but none of the fairy tale moments. This feels interdimensional and transcendent for both. The trine allows these people to seek a compromise and if both parties want to be in non-exclusive terms, this aspect can provide that with ease. The sextile adds a calmer level of excitement. Uranus might surprise Mars with new experiences or travel opportunities and generally will be more of a welcoming aspect for both parties if they are not natally Uranian types.

….She is adorned in elegant yet provocative attire that highlights her curves, with a cosmic, shadowy background filled with glowing red and black tones. Surrounding her are subtle symbols of transformation such as blooming flowers, broken chains, and wisps of smoke, all evoking themes of power and sensuality. The atmosphere is bold, mysterious, and irresistibly seductive, blending classic pin-up aesthetics with a touch of mysticism and intensity.” -~ Cherry

Aries: “Life is a battle”

Scorpio: “Realise what is truly worth fighting for”

~ signs of Venus

Taurus: “this looks good on me”

Libra: “that looks good on you”

~ signs of Mercury

Gemini: “I’ve already thought about all of it”

Virgo: “but have you thought twice about it all yet?”

~ signs of Jupiter

Sagittarius: “I’ll believe in magic when I see it”

Pisces: “I see magic because I believe in it”

~ signs of Saturn

Capricorn: “it’s important for future generations…”

Aquarius: “.. I already saw the future and they didn’t like it…”

Moon in the 11th house - Unicorn Dancer 

The Seven Social Sins are: Wealth without work. Pleasure without conscience. Knowledge without character. Commerce without morality. Science without humanity. Worship without sacrifice. Politics without principle.

With Moon in the 11th the emotional spectrum is highly sensitive to mass humanity. The highs and lows experienced by the global consciousness are felt like translucent waves of squeals and delight. Moon in the 11th people have a tremendous social conscience and easily intuit the invisible feelings and longings of their friends and loved ones. Any vibration or desire circulating will enter the individual’s open and perforated auric field. The individual brings a responsive touch and magic essence to the Aquarius home while dispersing a warm, maternal and nurturing expression amongst friends. The individual may be endearingly known as the ‘mother’ of the social group. But like the moon waxes and wanes, and hides away, the individual can frequently vanish from the social scene. Friends satisfy emotional needs.

Moon in the 11th people have a great sense of equality and prefer to see the poor, abused, and disadvantaged taken care off. They can be a light lamp of comfort and safety for those who are dazed and confused, a cloud of a dream, a moment of elusive safety, because this is a guardian of humanity. It’s like the moon light radiates outward, and they are the light of nurture for the lost ones humanity has forgotten. The individual simply cannot be indifferent to the suffering of humanity, because they are so hypersensitive. The person could be a passive radical, humbly assisting those who have been broken in the rampage. Emotions may be swept away with the crowd, but the individual can still be private and long to escape the attention. The individual will likely let only a select few into his emotional circle. The moon is within eye sight for much of the time, and the 11th house represents society, so the individual could become quite renowned or publicly recognisable. The individual identifies closely with his social ties and can lose sense of self and purpose to the needs of friends and wider networks. Maybe the individual experiences a tremendous fear of abandonment from friends or rejection from society. If this self fulfilling prophecy unfolds, the individual’s sense of exile and isolation will be consuming. It is these groups of people that provide feeling of safety and comforting that is residual from childhood. Despite this, the individual has a very natural flow in the social scene, the essence is well received and they know how to coax and soothe. The individual can create innovative ways to problem solve personal problems and fractures in the fabric of society. Social causes can erupt tense emotional eruptions.

There is something extra solar about the 11th house moon, the way they touch people they’ve never met halfway across the globe. It’s as if they have adopted every child as his own. The individual takes friends in as family and may be emotionally remedied by time spent around friends. There is an exquisite intuition that can guide them toward the golden handshake, and this will in someway relate to a social encounter, social standing, or network. It is important for the individual to fit into a group and maintain contact with others on deep emotional levels. The 11th house is the dream weaving Aquarius cove, so there can be tremendous leaps in consciousness when the individual is amongst friends in shared delight, it’s like the group hang out is a sort of temple. The individual is capable of the peak collective experience, the experience of divine unity, harmony between all beings, splaying out into every oracle and milky way, entering the tapestry of every soul. They are in the company of the stars, drifting on the edge of a cloud, watching over every being, pregnant with the ideas of salvation, the inventions that will suture the broken, watching cautiously and adoringly, like the mother of humanity.

-Cherry

(written for kie-the-faery-witch)

In a jar, however large you want it, layer any / some of the following:

sea salt

rosemary

bergamot (as in, earl gray tea)

cinnamon

crumbled up bay leaves

mint

basil

thyme

dill seeds

marjoram

cumin

garlic flakes / powder

black peppercorns (or just black pepper)

As you add each layer to the jar, focus deeply on your intent and pour that energy into the herbs. If you’d like, repeat a phrase to bring protection to your home and all those in it. (Don’t tell anyone else that phrase.) If you want to lock this spell on to anyone specific in the household, add some of their hair or other personal materials; otherwise, just state whomever is in the home at any given time is protected from harm. Feel free to also add any other items you associate with protection and safety. Tie a black ribbon or string near the neck / top of the jar to tie it off, and keep it on a windowsill in a common area of your home. (If you can - otherwise, wherever you can keep it safely is good).

This is the instructions for making a simple protection spell jar:

Ingredients:

-Rosemary (protection, warding off the evil eye)

- Sage ( protection, clearing out energy)

- Black tourmaline (removing hexes, blocking evil)

-Mint (cleansing, warding)

- Lavender (to bring good vibes back into your space as well as cleansing)

- petition stating what you want to protect, what you want out of your life/ what is harming you/ what you want to banish

Instructions: During a waning moon (cleansing, releasing, etc.) smudge with protective herbs and after casting a circle, place the ingredients in the jar whilst saying a protective incantation or prayer. I will let you choose your words, but I recommend the following incantation, which I really like:

“ I seek protection, and sound my alarm, my body mind and spirit now safe from harm, my aura a shield to keep me from harm, I now banish negativity and all that is wrong.”

When you are done, smudge some smoke into and inside the jar before closing it; finishing by saying “so mote it be” right as you are closing the jar. 

This spell should last for around a moon cycle; on the next waning moon I recommend redoing the spell or adding to it to keep its strength alive. 

Go to the jar and shake it whenever you need protection. If things don’t get better within  a moon cycle I recommend a stronger banishing spell, or even hex removal. However, I personally don’t like to go full out aggressive for every little issue; generally if the issue is something that can be solved easily a spell jar will do the trick. \

1. No, your birth chart is not special and ‘crazy’. It’s literally like everybody else’s. There are the same planets, asteroids, points and angles just like in every single chart of every human being

2. There’s nothing ‘doomed’ or ‘cursed’ about your placements. The reason you think like that is because you won’t face yourself. Which brings me to the next point:

3. There are probably a lot of things you need to work on. Things that are unpleasant, hard and unflattering. All of us do. Nothing happens overnight. Most likely, you won’t like my advice. People prefer complaining and doing nothing and just being patted on the back and told they were right, omg you’re so doomed/special

4. No, you won’t become rich and famous like, ever, unless you work extremely hard and maybe not even then. People who are ‘meant to be’ celebrities for example, already are on that path. If you were, you wouldn’t ask, trust me. The same goes for every other ‘stellar’ career

5. I have no idea how many children you’ll have or if any

6. Same for marriage - there are indicators, but it’s ultimately your decision

7. Just because you have one single placement that is traditionally described as (insert description) it doesn’t mean anything. It’s part of the whole system and it manifest differently in every chart

8. No, I can’t do synastry for you and your crush. You don’t have a relationship. And whatever the astrological placements are, the reason you’re not together is not there. Trust me.

9. No transit in the sky can change anything to the better for you unless you act upon it.

10. I can’t tell how/when you’re gonna die or whether somebody loves you. It’s beyond astrology’s reach.

11. No, I can’t do your chart/solar return for free. It’s hard work and it takes time and I value myself and my knowledge enough

So yeah. People are draining and most of the time very superficial. So I talk about astrology only to those who are really ready to listen/learn and ask specific questions, or within astro community so I can also learn something. Whenever some random ‘astro’ conversation pops up, like ‘Do Libra and Gemini get along’ I play dumb and pretend not to know what Libra is. It saves me so much frustration.