on We Heart It.

— Reyna Biddy

— Reyna Biddy (via deeplifequotes)

you don’t know the feeling.. or meaning of what it is to be “valued”. so you lean on the foundation of what you’re used to. most relationships start out.. feeling right. you feel good.. for the time being and you go for it. you allow yourself to fall. then things change. for whatever reasoning. but that beginning part.. that stage where you “felt good” is what you so eagerly chase. from one man to another. you neglect the reality of the matters - and fail to realize that in ‘relationships’ we are agreeing to be a partnership. meaning, you have to be an independent force on your own - first. you have to be happy with who you are and what you are - before entering into a business or “partnership” or “relationship” with another person. and if not - you attract people who are you. people who aren’t ready yet. people who don’t know what the meaning of love truly is. people who don’t value their own selves so they don’t know how to necessarily value anyone else, either. you can stop.. but you have to want to. you have to want to change your habits.. and your ways. you have to want to dig deeper within.. and heal the broken and bruised parts of you.. and then you have to make peace with your past. then you have to let it all go. you have start fresh.. become something “new” and create yourself into the way your ideal reality is. meaning.. you have to become the person you want to become - the person who you want to be with. again, you are who you attract. so the more growing you do.. the more developing and discovering you do - of “self”.. the more growth you’ll see in relationships. the more you’ll be able to stay clear from people who may harm you.. or who mean you no good. relationships all start within. they start with self. and you will never find the relationship you hope to be apart of - if you arent improving - on your part.

— Reyna Biddy (via deeplifequotes)

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Can’t say I know that feeling

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