missing richas hours

it's SO important to spend lots and lots of time on shit that no one cares about but you and does not enhance your life in any way

it's very disheartening to see people posting men they like from whatever stories they're into and being like he's like a woman to me BUT theyre not headcanoning this character as a trans woman theyre saying this character is similar to a woman in that he is bad at stuff maybe or isn't really where he wants to be in life but not in a gender sense like specifically in the sense of being pathetic and bad at things. like maybe he's in between jobs right now or maybe one time he cried. and this is womanesque behavior for a man to exhibit. and the people who say this? pronouns. sometimes even several. it really does boggle the mind.

sometimes i imagine qroier with a tumblr blog and i feel like he’d post something like “reblog si tu mejor amigo te traiciono y mato a tu perro y despues cuando pensaste que habias encontrado felicidad de nuevo con una nueva familia tu hijo murio y luego te deprimiste muchisimo pero te enamoraste y te casaste con un sexy gostoso brasileño millonario y tuviste un nuevo hijo y por fin volviste a sentirte feliz pero como siempre nunca dura y tu hijo nuevo y hermanita fueron secuestrados y una entidad maligna te llevó a una isla donde descubristes que el hombre que te traiciono murio y nunca pudiste vengarte de el y luego tuviste que matar a todos tus amigos repetidamente y cuando por fin escapaste tu marido pendejo estúpido guapo te dejó atrás y lo último que te dijo fue que te amaba y además tu mejor amiga y madre de tu hijo muerto también murió y entonces luego te quedaste completamente solo para cuidar de un nuevo hijo sin tu marido y cada vez que mirabas al niño pequeño te recordabas que todos los que amas te dejan abandonado. o si te gusta verga”

hm. why is it so easy for people to headcanon characters as gay and transmasc but as soon as someone starts talking about them being lesbian and/or transfem people are like well i don't see it because it doesn't make sense. well i know why but it's still annoying

gay people cant just say "i love you" they have to say stuff like "I'll never let anything bad happen to you, or at least, I'll try"

“we have to stop straight men from playing gay characters” AND KILL FITMC???????