āWHO PUT THE WORLD ON MY BACK AND NOT IN MY HANDS?ā š¶
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ļ¾ can I exhale for a minute..? ąæ
p.s. are you feeling stressed? doubtful? regretful? disappointed? hopeless? frustrated? jealous? doomed? out of control? off track? just negatively towards manifestation overall?
Well then this post is perfect for that little outer self of yours who needs a little guidance from your inner (real) self.
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Hey my gorgeous upper east siders. This is going to be a gossip girl informational + comfort post (not much I havenāt told you already), consider this a post youāll come back to every time you feel like you need internal guidance from yourself, and most importantly, a moment to breathe, and exhale.
Once upon a time, a wise woman asked ācan I exhale for a minute?ā, and that wise woman is named Sabrina Carpenter. This post is inspired by her song exhale. Itās a very calming song, that acknowledges how it feels to not be listened to, and mental health is very important. Yet itās such an overlooked topic in the loa community, unfortunately. Especially when it comes to manifesting the things you want. Beating yourself up when another year goes by and you let yourself down, not acknowledging your power.
Sometimes you just find yourself asking āwho put the world on my back and not in my hands?ā
Well the truth is, that someone is you. We all know it. And this post is not about scolding you for it. Itās about knowing how to deal with that feeling and remembering where it comes from.
First of all, acknowledge that the outer self is the one whoās talking. The outer self is the one reacting that way. Reacting so negatively to the law of assumption. Realise that this outer self is not the one who holds the desired assumption. So why would what the outer self feels affect the desired assumption? It doesnāt.
You may wonder what the point of me telling you that was.
Well itās because if thereās one thing I can promise you, itās that your negative feelings towards manifestation come from the outer self. Those negative feelings are never coming from the inner self. I promise you that. And acknowledging that, is power.
Why? Because when you acknowledge that those negative feelings come from the outer you, your inner self cannot take accountability for it. And wait, wait, wait. I know what youāre thinking. Accountability? All I mean by that, is that your inner self (real you) cannot take accountability for those negative feelings, because the real you is not the one feeling them. Those feelings come from the one who sees nothing but limitations and therefore has reason to doubt.
This also applies to fulfillment. When you feel fulfilled, the inner self is the one who is accountable for that. Not the outer self.
So just know that every time āyouāreā feeling low, itās the outer self feeling low. The feeling indicates who you are identifying with. Use that feeling as a weapon. Itās letting you know how to get back on track and who you should be identifying with. It is everything.
Once youāve understood that, I want you to take a deep breath. Just breathe. Feel the relief knowing that you cannot identify with those negative feelings, because they simply have nothing to do with you. Even if you wanted those negative feelings to be a part of you, they simply canāt. Because they will always come from the outer self, never the inner self.
You are not the one feeling stressed. You are not the one feeling doubtful. You are not the one feeling regretful. You are not the one feeling disappointed. You are not the one feeling hopeless. You are not the one feeling frustrated. You are not the one feeling jealous. You are not the one feeling doomed. You are not the one feeling out of control. You are not the one feeling off track.
The outer self is the only one with the capability to experience such negative feelings. But when you arenāt identifying with the outer self, it literally doesnāt matter. Because when you are identifying with the inner self, those negative feelings are non existent. And the point is, when the outer self is feeling those negative feelings, you start to feel as if you donāt have it and that youāve āruined progressā. But as I said before, the the outer self is not the one holding the desired assumption, so why would what the outer self feels affect the desired assumption? Say that iām holding an apple in my hand, and youāre holding a different apple in your hand. If I take a bite out of my apple, it does not affect your apple, at all. And itās ridiculous to believe that just because I took a bite out of my apple, that the bite mark would show up on yours.
All iām saying here, is that when youāre feeling like sh*t, itās just the outer self feeling that way. Itās not you (inner self) feeling that way. And therefore does not affect the inner self at all. The inner self is never affected by the outer self. The outer self is only affected by the inner self. Thatās why you change self. You change self from outer self TO inner self. You are just changing who you are identifying with.
When you realise this, you realise that progress cannot be ruined. There is no progress to ruin because manifestation is not a process. There is only having it now. Know that there are no negative feelings to get in your way. Internal guidance is all youāll ever need. The answer is always within you. No one else.
SUMMARY OF THIS POST INTO 3 QUOTES:
ā© āthis outer self is not the one who holds the desired assumption. So why would what the outer self feels affect the desired assumption? It doesnāt.ā
ā© āinner self (real you) cannot take accountability for those negative feelings, because the real you is not the one feeling them. Those feelings come from the one who sees nothing but limitations and therefore has reason to doubt.ā
ā© āprogress cannot be ruined. There is no progress to ruin because manifestation is not a process. There is only having it now. Know that there are no negative feelings to get in your way.ā
A wrong self identification will have you falling hard, but not in-love. XOXO
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