I mean, the example youâve given sounds like people who are in fact reading but donât know enough about feminism to recognize when a book that SAYS itâs breaking down a stereotype is actually enforcing it. It takes time to build contextual knowledge and understanding of deeper implications in text.
All of the straight romantasy bestsellers SAY theyâre female empowerment, their authors truly believe theyâre female empowerment (after all, sheâs writing her fantasy! As a woman!) but as far as Iâm aware none of them are really challenging dominant gender roles or heteronormativity. It takes a more advanced reading skill to realize when someone is actively lying to themselves and to you about the content of a book.
If you were a good reader when you were very young, youâve probably already made this step. Youâve had time to be in spaces where people actively dissect media they enjoy and criticize it. If someone is JUST NOW getting into reading as a hobby, then they havenât had that time to build context and analytical skill.
Your friendâs experience describes people who ARE practicing reading. They just havenât mastered it yet. What you describe as ânot actually readingâ is first of all what most people do when theyâre just reading for fun, and secondly, a stage every high-literacy person also went through at some point in their lives, you just maybe donât remember being in it because you are a statistical outlier
I promise the twilight girlies who went on to read other books ALSO werenât reading twilight that critically. Until they were.