Water Signs: Make The Choice
Water signs have a reputation for experiencing their emotions fully, being sensitive, creative, and intuitive. Signs in this element has a lot of good qualities, but share one absolutely horrible flaw.
They don’t take responsibility for their emotions.
If something rubs them the wrong way, a water sign’s first reaction is “why is this happening to me?” If you say or do something that happens to hurt their feelings, they’ll think, “why is this person doing this to me?”
It doesn’t occur to them that no one is out to get them, and everyone is just trying to be themselves. Sometimes, people are accidentally blunt or inconsiderate. Even if someone tries to hurt you, that is a reflection of their own shortcomings. The best thing to do is ignore such people.
If you tell a water sign that they can choose how to feel about something, detach and observe negative emotions, and that they are the true source of their emotions, they’ll immediately go on the defensive.
“Oh, so now you’re blaming me for feeling this way?”
“Is everything my fault?”
And other such statements, which completely miss the point and once again place them in the role of the ‘victim.’
Unevolved water signs trap themselves in this cycle of negative emotions. They can’t differentiate between ‘blame’ (which is disenfranchises) and responsibility (which is empowering). They choose to play the victim.
Evolved water signs have the power to free others from negative emotions, with love, empathy, and their natural healing ability. Evolved water signs know they can choose how to perceive reality, and take responsibility not only for themselves, but those around them. They choose to be the savior.
Remember, you have the power to choose how to feel. Other people have nothing to do with it. Take responsibility for your reactions.
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