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Beef got absolutely wrecked, dress stayed on, with the goal of making them cry their makeup off.

This happened in the couch area/living room, and like some of them just watched. And I don't know if you could tell from my previous Spoingus posts I'm obsessed with Casey watching people with Endae in a way where she's like "I allowed this to happen."

I can't actually remember if Dawn was there, I think she was??? Either way if she was there she got her hands on everyone, even if it was only for a few moments. Same with Kxpow.

Bendo was there but just watched. And then both Andro and Siv tried to just watch at first but got involved later.

I'm not too into food play so I don't usually think about it, but some of that could've happened. Also this entire session was like, casual. Like Beef getting railed and then sitting right next to them is Bend having a conversation with Dawn while eating pizza.

kitty hax this puppy hax that

Hi Sun (was tempted to write Sub lol) I'm so sorry for the wall that's about to appear. You asked for Spoingus thoughts...

Right off the bat, Naddy, Endae, and Andro subs. There's a video that's the three of them trying to solve an escape room, and I can promise you that is not dom behavior. The thing is Naddy can take the lead, he's really smart, but he's also just so pathetic. The minute anything is slight different from the norm my guy just can't function. He just kinda forgets everything. Endae is also pathetic (...I need to find a different word). It's like the kind of pathetic that you see in guys in straight relationships. (Which would make Casey a dom). He tries to act more dominate but you tell him to do something (usually by Casey) he shuts up and does it. Andro is a bit similar to Endae in the sense he can take the lead. He's mischievous and likes to poke fun at people. He is however, also going to listen the moment you tell him to do something. You have to given him direct orders though. If you just say "Oh, you *can* stop if you want" he's gonna keep going. There has to be no uncertainty in the order. (*looking at you cooking stream*)

Erik is an interesting case. I think they would be a dom however they usually let other people take the lead. There's something angsty here with the idea that Erik things everyone else is better suited for leading whatever they're doing. Cause they can take the lead, they just usually don't. There's also a whole thing where they'll just mute in vc. Straight up big vc and they'll deafen, turn on music, and continue what they were focused on. Blumi, dom, they organize and take lead on everything. And they're so good at managing it too??? I want this kind of organization skills. Kxpow also dom. I promise you that Endae Kxpow kiss was mostly Kxpow's doing. *Head in hands* How do I even begin to explain all the bullshit Kxpow does. He's got the same kind of whimsy that Feinberg does. He's got the sort of confidence to call his teammate bad that I think only comes with being in charge. I'm always a pusher of dom Vsrtid.

I think Jaedid is someone you look at and think is a dom but is actually a sub. They just go along with whatever Kxpow drags them on. Same with Genesis actually- Kinda similar to Eirk too, in which they'll lead but if someone more fit for the role comes in they give up. But he will fight it. Dawn is a dom. And she likes "bullying" Nessa (sub) Bendo is god knows what, he disappeared for half a year then came back and that's all I got. The thing with Ogar is the fact that I think he's a dom, but he get's bullied so often in chat idk if I can give him that status. He's also in EVERYONE'S chat. There is not a Spoingus member stream where he is not there. So one I'm not to sure about. Brinkz is a sub.

I also feel like I should mention Spoingus's habit of "kidnapping" people from other groups to participate in whatever nonsense they're doing. I feel like all together they would be a group very open to experimenting.

@clearedskied (Again, sorry for the wall.... I saw Spoingus and exploded.)

Hi Skied!! This is sososososoos cool. THANK YOU FOR THE WALL OF TEXT <3

I agree with everything you've said based on your explanation! This so good, group dynamic of all time. I think they should all be experimenting with each other and all in a 24/7 polycule, they should kidnap people for their scenes as well.

Hi Remi! I have a few thoughts! Wall incoming...

I've mentioned it before but Siv fucking Beef with Vstrid watches <3333. Something I always like playing around with is the fact Beef seems to give into muscle memory a lot. They could be told to do something and then they'll do whatever their body feels lke doing instead. So basically, Beef daze and out of it (for whatever reason) but it's okay because their muscle memory is doing all the work, service top type of deal. And I think everyone in Spoingus would be a little mean and tease Beef!

In general I have a ton about Andro, but a bunch of them aren't Spoingus related but lean towards more Andro x Gray. He would just be so bratty and then have to be put in his place. He's also a lot more nervous than you would think, but just tell him what to do and he'll do it. However! I think he would take great pleasure in messing with others. Something for a bit of the darker side, maybe like spiking someone's drink and then just playing with them.

Also briefly mentioned in the tags of Sun's answer that I reblogged. Kxpow, Endae, and Beef all together while Kxpow is in control. There's just something about the way Kxpow has very little faith in Beef. Just the Kxpow Endae kiss right after Beef and Endae were cuddling. And I think Kxpow would be a little mean. He's into degradation, but like doing the degradation.

Endae is into humiliation. I'm sorry but one does not willingly go through what he did during the cooking stream without it giving you some sort of satisfaction. Which also makes me want to say he's into being slapped. Also Casey Endae relationship is 100% "he's mine but I'll let you have him for a night."

My only Erik thoughts are about them being lonely. Like if I were to write something it would be a look into feeling left out and not fit in your role disguise as smut. They want to be included, they'd prefer to dom but it's fine if they don't. They'll take anything.

Naddy Naddoms. So smart yet so helpless. More people need to get on this, because what do you mean there's someone right there who is incredible smart and talented and then moment something changes suddenly he's helpless. Idk about him but I think the others need to take advantage of that more often. Confuse the hell outa that man.

One of the things I can see so clearly is Hax asking Rowl to accompany him to doctors appointments because "You know what behavior is appropriate since you've got the most experience." And "I read that having a second person in the room makes abuse less likely, since it's hard to make two people spacey at once. And I mean, no one can make you spacey," and "well if I asked a dom, they'd just assume he makes my medical decisions and it's so annoying." And meanwhile Rowl is just nodding along. Like they weren't coming the second Hax suggested it .

Or like, cultures telling people it's bad to enter their respective space, that it should be kept to family etc... but on the flip side, people who make their money off of sceneing with stranger, or walk in clinics for a therapist who'll clinically help you before kicking you out.

I'm thinking about them calling again and having to ask "are you wearing your collar again?" And assuring no no it's not weird, you can keep it on, and it's almost teasing but also very genuine. "Well if you're a cat you should meow for me." And slowly encouraging Hax to be more more of a kitten. I think They should talk about how if Hax was with them irl, they'd pet him cause Hax would like that. And out loud consider buying a scratching post for when Hax visits because he seems like the kinda cat to rip things up.

And Hax is just sitting there, feeling really warm and loved from how much consideration is being put into him. And all of the things Rowl (/runner of choice) is suggesting sound so nice, he really wants to be their good kitty.

HI SUN!!! I love your thoughts here they’re soooo so good <3

I agree. Rowl should totally do this. (As well as other runners but I think Rowl is a great choice) I think some really gentle teasing and encouragement could go a long way for hax to embrace being a kitty. Slowly easing him into it by getting him to meow, asking to see the collar, things like that, all while telling him just how good and loved he is. It would make Hax feel so good and so happy, he’d slowly start to embrace it a little more, because Rowl is showing him just how good it feels to be a kitty.

I think Rowl should hang out with hax one day, and just casually pet Hax’s hair. And Hax is surprised at first but melts into it so quickly. He loves being a kitty for his friends and they’re showing him how fun it can be <3

Firstly I love that beef is your blorbo in law, because Rowl is MY blorbo in law and I think that’s awesome

Secondly, I really love your thoughts about beef in your bio bdsm au :3 I agree with all of them and you have a wonderful mind (if you ever think of any other ideas please please please dm me I would love to know)

I love thinking about beef (and everyone else) in this au… I said in my tags that I think beef really enjoys dropping like a lotttt (and would probably be ok spending the rest of their life dropped and fuzzy although that probably has weird medical consequences) and I think because of it, he does a lot of nonsexual scenes. Because sometimes the people around him are just way too exhausted for sex, so they just tie him up and leave him there or slap him around a bit or somethinggg

I also have no idea how this would occur but I think beef and Rowl should fuck in this au. For us.

I’m really excited about your au btw this is awesome please keep talking about it 🙏

Hi again remi :3

they're blorbos in law because they're our respective blorbos and I think that is wonderful :3

I 100% agree that Beef enjoys being spacey (this is probably what you mean by dropping. I have to use a different word because otherwise I get myself confused with the negative consequences which are also called dropping >.<) and is in it often. Also yes to non-sexual scenes. 100% Beef is doing them a lot. Everyone is doing them. This AU is actually my secret agenda to have the runners participate in kink without having to consider sex.

Being in subspace definitely does have some weird medical consequence but I don't think it'd be immediately dangerous. I'll have to brainstorm what it is......

Beef and Rowl SHOULD fuck in this au. Or at least scene together. TBH I think the fact they're polar opposites could lead into that. Beef is always in subspace. Meanwhile Rowl won't even take his meds that make them slightly like that. They should try and fix each other <3 (This is a futile task on Rowl's end. Beef likes being in subspace. Rowl has a medical condition that just requires someone having a shit ton of patience.)