When you care too much what someone thinks about you you stop being the good sort of curious…the tension of over caring contorts you into such a stiff shape. You don’t mentally stretch out or notice things or play as much…. Stuck in the bondage of personality that you think might earn their love. It’s impossible for them to see you, and you’re so into your role which for whom they are also a character. So you don’t see them either. Everybody loses!















