caruxcaru

my mother literally MARRIED to escape her own mother's control and now she wants to push me to do the same with her actions😍😍😍

she swears up and down she's chill and laidback but really everything in life revolves around HER life and HER mood. no consideration for others whatsoever. i can't be decompressing in my own room without her barging in every five minutes because SHE wants to talk and it doesn't matter that I don't. i need to immediately cancel my plans i made LAST MONTH because she has a LAST-MINUTE impulse that needs to be catered to IMMEDIATELY. and my outfit sucks, and i'm dressed like a slut, and i can't stay out all night bc i'm just a smol baby and i'll be the only one of my friends that will be killed. but when you dare get angry, it's YOUR fault that you did, and she NEVER asked for anything and you could've just told her that you're busy or whatever. as if it won't result in a huge biweekly tantrum about how no one helps her and no one cares for her. and i know damn well that yes, my dad can be an absolutely careless piece of shit, and i know daily maintenance is difficult and i notice and i do my fucking part, but like,,,,, i can't expect to know that you want to go grocery shopping just because when the fridge is full or that you apparently wanted to go to ten other different completely miscellaneous places on an errand run that was originally agreed to take an hour max. and i know i should be grateful that i'm not kicked out at my big age but i literally CAN'T go anywhere on my salary and i'm a fucking adult (again literally the same age that she got married) but damn. and now i'm going to be sleep-deprived again because you couldn't tell me we have guests tomorrow earlier than thirty minutes before my bedtime and i just have to deep clean my room NOW

i cannot watch almost any male youtuber give his opinion on something involving women because 99,9999% of the time it devolves to casual misogyny. like why are you making fun of that lady's fillers rn. what does this have to do with the issue at hand

in the same way i cannot listen to women who, in big 2026, still try to push this happy-go-lucky 2015 liberal "feminism is for men AND women" approach and will foam at the mouth defending men's issues and fight tooth and nail for their right to make life's easier. lady have you heard men at all in the last few years? the wokest leftist male would never defend you this way

men peeped that women want them to be emotionally vulnerable and instead of, like, learning empathy and processing their feelings, they began bitching and moaning about the dumbest, most embarrassing shit within a month of knowing you. why is your day ruined by forgetting your keys. you are not vulnerable, you are weak

ohhhh wait nvm it's because they think you are weak and dumb and this is what you will relate to. i get ittttttttt