The Other Problem with Carzekiel
Even if you take the fact that Carol belongs with Daryl out of the equation, there is still something fundamentally wrong with her relationship with Ezekiel.
On the latest episode of Talking Dead, KPโs response about the proposal was:
โEzekiel was hoping for a yes, but the response he got was classic Carolโ
โSheโs never gonna make it easyโ
โThis is what makes life funโ
โYou donโt climb a mountain because itโs easyโฆthereโs great payoff when you finally get to the top and look over at the vistaโ
โHeโs enjoying climbing that mountainโ
Are you fucking serious? Carol is just a mountain to climb? Itโs fun? Sheโs not making it easy?
Itโs 2018. We all know about the #metoo movement. By now, we should all know how to treat women. So why is The Walking Dead, who took an abused housewife and transformed her into a strong, fearless survivor, now forcing her into a relationship with an MCP?
Because Ezekiel is one. He repeatedly disturbed Carol when he knew she wanted to be left alone. She saved his ass, and everyone else at the Kingdom, and he has the cheek to call her a coward because she didnโt want to look for Henry, when he couldnโt be bothered to search himself?
And now, when sheโs (and God knows why) decided to enter into a relationship with this man, when she realizes that he is about to propose and tells him โdonโtโ, he ignores her and shows her a ring.
Donโt you see the problem? She said donโt, no, stop, and he ignores her and does it anyway. Doesnโt that sound like something else?
And when Carol reminds him that she had specifically asked him not propose to her, he just says โI know.โ
Ok, Ezekiel, so you can remember that Carol asked you not to propose. So why do it? Why would you blatantly ignore her wishes if you โlove herโ?
He then, and this is the worst bit, fucking laughs.
Itโs not some goddamn joke. Carol put up with Ed who verbally and physically abused her, and now sheโs with a disrespectful jackass who thinks โnoโ means โgo aheadโ.
And after Ezekiel laughs, he puts his ring away and says โIโll keep this till youโre readyโ.
Sheโs not ready. Sheโs just fucking told you no, sheโs not ready and she didnโt want you to ask anyway. She is not a โmountain to climbโ. She is not playing hard to get. She said no. No means no, it does not mean not right now, or maybe, or just ignore me and do it anyway. No means no!
So what kind of message is The Walking Dead sending to its viewers by showing this scene and KPโs interview? That itโs ok to pester women and not take no for an answer? That women just want to be climbed, even if they donโt make it easy?
If you agree that this is wrong, please share this post. Letโs make the writers sit up and take notice. Itโs not right to show this kind of shit and act like itโs ok. No means no.