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Meltdowns happen, it doesn’t make you a bad kid.

You don’t have to play like everyone else does, however you play is awesome!

It’s okay if it’s hard to communicate, it doesn’t make you a burden.

Stimming is normal and a great tool to get the feelings out!

Sharing your special interests doesn’t make you a ‘know it all’, it’s really cool that you are passionate about things!

Trying new things can be scary and being scared of that doesn’t make you stubborn.

It is okay if you cant feel things that other people feel. It doesn't make you a bad kid not to be able to empathize with others. The kindness in your actions towards them is what makes you a good kid.

Just because you aren't able to feel emotions as strongly as other kids, or because you tend to feel them even stronger, doesn't make you any less deserving of compassion. You are capable of being gentle; and if you dont want to be or aren't gentle, you deserve outlets for your emotions and ways to regulate just like any other kid.

How you percieve the world and how others percieve you because of it are not reflections on you as a person. Just because you have delusions or hallucinations doesn't mean you're scary.

There are people who will love you exactly the way you are, and lift you up to better yourself, out there. Your negative experiences can't define how you live your life forever. You deserve to heal and be happy!! And so does your inner child, regardless of neurodivergency!!

Some of you have got to understand and learn that just because something is on someone's dni list does not mean that that person hates people who do/are that thing. It does not even necessarily mean that they think the people on their dni are evil or morally wrong.

"DNI" means "Do Not Interact" and it is NOTHING but a list of what the person is/isn't comfortable with. You being On Someone's DNI does not = they want you to lose your rights and die in horrible ways.

It literally ONLY means (and should ONLY be used as) "this is who makes me uncomfortable. If you are one of these kinds of people, please do not interact with me or I will block you." No one person has perfectly correct morals and no one dni list is an exhaustive list of everyone who is Bad excluding everyone who is Good. That is simply not the way human people work.

Come on you guys. Someone denying you access to their blog on tumblr dot com because they don't vibe with you is not killing you dead. There are probably like a bazillion more blogs who are fine with you interacting. We have gotten much too comfortable violating people's boundaries just because we're online behind screens, and much too comfortable whining and throwing fits about it when they don't like it.

"Your posts are PUBLIC I can do whatever I want!" Yes, other people irl are out in public all the time too, but that doesnt mean we get to go up to them and say vile stuff just because we're "allowed" to.

And on that note, people you dislike and even hate still deserve basic human rights and decency

I'd just be "Marsie" or "Doggy/Puppy"

Like the family pet all the kids gravitate to and fight over because I'm nice to them and I'll play with them to the best of my ability

Like yeess I'm a friendly beast you can hang out with and I won't bite ankles or snap if you pull my ears and my tail because I'm gentle and tolerant... nanny dog 🐶💭

We all know play is creative and imaginative.

But play is essentially the same thing as art. It’s the same thing as drawing or writing a story or roleplaying. It’s a creative outlet. It is not just a thing you do. Channel the same drive that causes you to world build for fandoms and draw pictures and write stories and fanfiction. It is the same thing.

YOU are not a bad CG for having a personality disorder,

YOU are not any less caring for having low empathy,

YOU are not any less caring for having depression,

YOU are not any less fun for having OCD or Paranoia,

YOU are not any less caring for having Schizophrenia,

YOU are not any less fun for having Social Anxiety,

YOU are not any less caring for having PTSD,

YOU are not any less caring for having DID,

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Hippity hoppity hello, my friends! 👋🐰 I’m here to share a list of prompts for a 12-Day Age Regression Challenge inspired by @sunnimals!

You are welcome to submit art, flags, icons, moodboards, stimboards, positivity posts, etc! Reminder that you are not required to do every prompt, or in any particular order. Feel free to combine the prompts if you like! I encourage you to please tag me in your posts so I may see your wonderful creations.

Nsfw, proshippers, radqueers, or dualcom do not interact.

𐐪𐑂 Based on Yourself

𐐪𐑂 Representation: LGBTQIA+, disability or any kind of representation you wish to see more of in the regression community!

𐐪𐑂 Healing

𐐪𐑂 Self Indulgence/Self Insert: Make something self indulgent for yourself, or involving your self insert!

𐐪𐑂 Special Interest

𐐪𐑂 Caregiver Appreciation: Express appreciation for your caregiver, whether they’re real or fictional!

𐐪𐑂 Comfort

𐐪𐑂 A Gift for a Friend: Surprise a friend of yours with a gift!

𐐪𐑂 Safe Space

𐐪𐑂 Crossover Playdate: Imagine your favorite characters from different series having a playdate together!

𐐪𐑂 Nostalgia

𐐪𐑂 Wish: What’s kind of gear, toys, plushies, etc. do you wish you had while regressed?

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It is not stupid and it is not dramatic to ask for the small things that make life easier, too c:

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Headcanons ⤸

🌸🍀 : pink twee !

“Wow this is pretty rough huh…let’s think of some good things instead! What are some things we’re looking forward to?”

“I have an idea, lets pretend we’re in slow-motion, even our breathing and blinking is slooowwww”

“Quick I need your help it’s really super important! Tell me every single [color/animal/etc] you can possibly think of”

“Hey buddy, do you maybe want your favorite snack? I bet you’re pretty tired huh…how about we have a little nap/go to bed early tonight”

Doesn’t always have to be for handling negative stuff either in fact doing it in neutral-positive situations will help you remember it’s even an option in times of distress. And in general it’s just very healing, promotes self-worth, etc.

Good morning, my dear! I know, you're still so very sleepy. Perhaps you can have a nap later? Did you sleep well? The sun is peeking over the horizon, and the birds are chirping! The world is telling you "Good morning!" Can you hear it? You will do wonderful things today, my darling. I believe in you! Whether it's a good or a bad day, I will always be here if you need me.