What Happens When You Max Out
At one point or another, every slave reaches a time when the Master theyâve been visiting isnât fulfilling their desires. Perhaps they wanted more bondage and just werenât getting it or a particular type of bondage or an activity that the Master wasnât able or wasnât willing to perform. In some cases, perhaps the slave wants to move up the ladder a bit and have slaves of his own.
This morning I awakened to a thought, which in retrospect may seem ridiculous, but honestly had never crossed my mind: what happens when a Master reaches this point? What happens when it seems that no slave is able to provide YOU with what YOU need?
Masters provide a service. Yes, a service. We donât like to admit it since by definition slaves are supposed to be serving us. But we are like the service person at the gas station that fills up the car. They come to us empty, in need, and we do all sorts of things to set them right. Then they drive away and hardly look back.Â
Experienced Masters are patient, investing months and even years into a slave - I have, many times over. But for what? The result is always the same and is never 24/7/365. Of course, there are those slaves who move on for which you had some affect on their life and are left feeling like a proud father, but they are a rarity.
So what is a Master to do? This question creates a conundrum to which I do not have an answer - at least not at this point.
Posted by BadYoungMaster at 6:17 PM
 My guess is that any relationship falls apart when it misses the glue. If exploration of your sexuality (by which i mean not only the kinky play, but the true exploration of your core dom/sub nature) eventually you reach that point you are talking about - either master or slave cannot go any further and they end up feeling unfulfilled or bored. Hence the need to move on. If the relationship was mature enough they will part in a good way like a father and a son or a teacher and a student, keeping the love and respect for each other, although not without a bitter feeling with a taste of a failure.
It seems inevitable if the exploration is seen by either of the parties only as a âserviceâ that they provide for each other, as you so put it. If the gas tank is overflowing or not being filled to its capacity then logically the car needs a different âproviderâ. If your partner is more than just a provider, and the relationship is based on true dedication, love and respect, entwining every aspect of your lives, there is no need to look for greener pastures and if you are smart you should learn by now that a new provider will be exhausted sooner or later and you will end up in the same situation looking for somebody who can fulfill your ever growing needs.
i am an owned slave in a 24/7 relationship and from many points of view our relationship is almost perfect, but the question of neediness and moving on is legit even in very stable relationships. There are plenty of times i feel that my Master is not using me to the fullest capacity, not taking me to the depth i can and want to go. It is very hard for me to draw a clear line between the call of the slave heart that yearns to be used and becoming needy in âfulfilling my destinyâ.
Of course every relationship is unique and things work differently for everybody. I guess we have to ask ourselves â what is the glue that keeps us together? What is the goal of these âservicesâ we provide to each other, does it match with the goal of my partner? If itâs not just for mere passing recreation, are we heading in the same direction as we fill each otherâs gas tanks?