For the queer & trans cannabis enthusiasts

my take on the "can trans men be lesbians?" thing is that i would never ever comment on a stranger's identity and i would never tell someone i don't know what they can or can't do but also like. come on. if you're explicitly choosing to be a man you can get mad when women don't want to date you.

if you're going into a space where there are women explicitly saying "I do not want men involved in my romance" and you are actively identifying as a man you cannot get upset when they don't want to date you or are uncomfortable with you being there

i also deeply empathize with every trans femme lesbian who has had to watch her existence debated and been seen as a pervert for loving women see most of the lesbian community go "oh yeah you have a vagina, you have the Unbreakable Woman Bond that means we are connected forever" and get a little frustrated about that

Also: do you think a cis man could be a lesbian without identifying as a woman? if not, and you think trans men can, i think you're just speaking from bioesstentialism and maybe don't really think trans men are fully men in the way cis men are

i'm remembering that trans man/lesbian i knew who was mad the girl he was seeing ID'd as straight its like damn maybe you don't really see yourself as a man.

kind of insane seeing the extent to which some transmascs are willing to sandbag and outright lie about phalloplasty and tell other transmascs that if they have bottom dysphoria they're doomed just so they can whine about the "misogyny" of how "underdeveloped" phallo is in order to implicitly cast trans women in the role of men

i’m a lover, a yearner, and a freak

people pointing out i said penis options and i am in fact doing research into my options for penis. my penis options #mypenisoptions

if youre freaked about the social construction of “natural” just wait till you hear about “real”

I want you guys to all start making a bigger stink about Tumblr's Age Verification Horseshit.