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Guys, one of my best friends in the world lesbianymir really needs help. She’s been living in an unhealthy and abusive environment all her life and outside of her job, she needs an extra $500 to get herself out. Here is the gofundme page. She also has a donate button on her blog, if you wish to send donations straight to her paypal. I’m making this post in hopes that my followers will be able to signal boost it. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

For most of her life, Mick has been dealing with extreme emotional abuse and instances of physical abuse at the hands of her mother. I’ve been in skype calls with her and have witnessed some of her mom’s acidic words. The things she says to her daughter are absolutely vile. Some of the worst things she has said to Mick have been things like “No one will ever love you” “You’re a worthless bitch” “No men like fat women”, etc. She’s said that she’s nothing but a prostitute, she’s disgusting because she likes women, and she’s going to burn in hell because of that. My friend is pansexual, and when she first tried to tell her she liked girls more than boys when she was young (6th grade to be exact) her mom explicitly said to her “Don’t you ever fucking touch me again.” Mick isn’t even allowed to keep her short hair because her mom said she “won’t have a dyke living under her roof”.

Mick can’t go one day without experiencing some form of emotional abuse. She rejects her, constantly ridicules her, tries to isolate her from her friends and family, uses her credit card, exposes her to uncomfortable and dangerous situations, and attacks her in every way possible. Even right now, she can’t speak out loud to me in our Skype call because she’s afraid her mother will hear. 

If it was only emotional abuse, it might be bearable, but it’s become so much more dangerous for her. Mick’s mom has taken to physically assaulting her when she’s very angry. She’s thrown glass at her. She’s suffocated her because Mick wouldn’t give up her cell phone. She’s driven recklessly to scare her and almost drove them into a pole, saying she would kill them both if Mick didn’t shut up. Recently, in an altercation where she bit her and punched her in the face, the cops were called. Her mom was almost arrested, but she wasn’t because she took his warning and stayed in the car. And for the past two weeks, she’s been forcing Mick to come along with her to stalk her mom’s ex-boyfriend. When Mick said she didn’t want to do this, she was kicked out of the car on the side of the road.

(x) (x) (x) (x) (x) Here is some evidence of her mother manipulating her and trying to take away Mick’s family. She also admits to punishing her, and she threatened to move out if Mick chooses to stay in contact with her father and his family (she took this part back because she can’t survive off of her own paycheck, she prefers to use Mick’s card instead). Mick’s mom has been known to stalk all of her dad’s family and force her way into their lives without their consent. 

Mick has reached her breaking point. She’s already been diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, and PTSD from an unrelated incident. All of this has aggravated her illnesses to an unbearable degree, putting her in a constant state of near panic and made her very depressed to the point of hopelessness. I want to help her get out of this environment so she can begin to heal and to feel safe again. She deserves that. She loves her mom, but her mom is hurting her immeasurably.