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You are either racist

first of all

2. You do know that black skin comes in every shade(possible for people) from white to onyx? So what you just said is you aren’t attracted to skin if it’s on a black person.

3. You “literally” not being attracted to black skin(im assuming you mean darker skin), is due to ingrained racism. You being conditioned throughout your life by media and etc, to not find dark skin attractive at all. It’s one thing to PREFER to date lighter complexioned people. BUT if someone has dark skin and you immediately right them off as unattractive? That’s due to racism.

you may not want to be with a group of people because of differences in culture, worldview, politics and so on but when you say that an entire race is unattractive to you that’s a byproduct of racial hatred and the belief that an entire group is somehow inferior. 

for example, for years i didn’t date asian women. why? psychologically it’s believed that the groups of people you are most around when you start to explore sexuality are usually the groups that you’ll date. i’m putting it in laymen’s terms but if you want more clinical explanations you should look up “love maps.” to make it even simpler, if you’re around black, hispanics and white people when you enter puberty and begin to awaken sexually, you’re most likely going to date blacks, hispanics and white people overall. now, unless something dramatic happens to you during this period, you will always be attracted to your own race because of familiarity. that’s normal and if familiarity becomes the most important factor in dating someone, that’s fine too. that in and of itself ISN’T racist. back to me now, even though i didn’t date asian women i still saw and/or met many asian women i thought were hella attractive. without question. it just so happen that i didn’t consciously think of asian women when i thought about groups of women i would date because my specific mapping (i.e. there weren’t asians around when i was growing up and going through puberty). that changed after i lived in chinatown in nyc for a few years. which is important to note because one’s mapping is NOT static. it can change and evolve if one allows it to. however, again, i didn’t date asian women but that didn’t keep me from thinking that some asian women i came across were very attractive and sexy. as we speak, asian women are next to last on my list of races i would date (because there’s so much anti-blackness in their culture i just have no desire to even deal with that) but there’s no question that vickibaybeee is hot. i would have to poke my eyes out to say she’s unattractive.

i mean right now, the probability of me dating a white woman is near nill (again because of racist, anti-black traits in their culture) but i see everyday white women are objectively hot. to not have the capacity to see beauty in another race ever is a definite result of ingrained racial hatred. it’s also important to understand the difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to someone because one can happen without the other. “attractive” is to find someone “appealing to look at.” “attracted to” is to be drawn to that person. i’ve found many women attractive without being drawn to them. that happens every day. fuck that happens every morning on my commute to work. nyc is filled to the brim with attractive women but that doesn’t mean i feel a pull to each and every one of them. my problem right now is that i work with a black woman who i find both attractive and i’m attracted to and i don’t date coworkers but she’s fucking amazing. however that’s a story for another day hahaha.  so to say that you’ve never seen a black woman who you find appealing to look at is quite literally a mental block that can only come from racist indoctrination. only. 

let’s be clear about this too, this isn’t some “black people are desperate for white people to fuck them” shit. that’s not what happening here. instead this is exposing the many forms racism comes in. for instance, i can expose cbs to be a fucking racist shit hole to work at NOT because i want to work there (lawd no) but because the truth should and must be stated.  also because white people love to adopt racist and ignorant positions and then claim they’re not racist or ignorant. we all know how that goes.

the point of this post is NOT to say you need to see a black woman and say/feel/want to fuck her otherwise you’re racist. it’s saying that if you’ve never seen a black woman who you thought was simply attractive, pretty, beautiful and/or pleasant to behold, it is because you’re racist and you are racist because you’ve not only been educated by whiteness, you’ve held onto it. you’ve adopted it.

and to answer your questions (AS I DID IN MY REPLY) the chances of me dating a white woman is slim to none HOWEVER that doesn’t keep me from acknowledging that, for instance, reneesomerfield is attractive. fuckable (i.e attracted to)? not in my eyes, not to me but still attractive. understand the difference? no interest in dating, sleeping with her but i can easily admit that she’s pretty (i.e attractive) however avielleamor i find attractive AND i want to do things to her that might be illegal in certain parts of the country hahaha. somebody hook me up! hahaha.

it’s a little funny how this post is exposing the racism in so many people who i am sure have always claimed to NOT be racist. like mlk said

i also like on the low @doctordickinya tried to take us down the road of “reverse racism” with the question to black people “do you find white people attractive?” let me tell you something, i’ve met some of the most pro-black militant black people around and even they had/have the capacity to admit when a white man or woman is good looking. not “i want to sleep with, fuck that white…” no. a simple “yea he/she is good looking” or “he/she is aight” however understand they do it begrudgingly because it’s hard to look past white racism. it’s hard to look past 400+ years, 7 continents, billions of lies, millions of lives, slavery, segregation, sundown towna, racist policing, lynching, cultural appropriation, ghettos, #alllivesmatter, denial of privilege, rewriting of history, whitewashing and all that when your eyes are open and you’re looking at a white person. when you’re conscious you realize that the vast majority of white people are racist, you know the probability is very high that white person you’re looking at is a racist. they might be a “#alllivesmatter” racist or a kkk racist, they might be a “why can’t white people say the n-word” racist or a “let’s throw a black face party” racist but chances are good they’re a racist. therefore if you or i were to come upon black people who refused to find white people attractive, it wouldn’t be racist, that would be natural reaction to a race that has built an entire culture, identity, science and country on black dehumanization. like malcolm said

for the white man to ask the black man if he hates him is just like the rapist asking the raped, or the wolf asking the sheep, ‘do you hate me?’ the white man is in no moral position to accuse anyone else of hate! why, when all of my ancestors are snake-bitten, and i’m snake-bitten, and i warn my children to avoid snakes, what does that snake sound like accusing me of hate-teaching?

i have never met a black person who didn’t dislike white people whose reasons weren’t based squarely in white racism. not one. white people like to ignore that and claim that it’s just an excuse for “black racism” but that’s what you should expect from them. for white people to actually take responsibility for shit would be a revolutionary act. they’ll rather tell you that racism not around anymore, there’s no such thing as segregation anymore, that black people are the most racist people around, black on black crime and the classic “i didn’t do anything” while they cooperate with and perpetuate racist systems and constructs daily. dai-ly! 

so understand that it’s not the same. one group, white people, have made an entire culture and country based on (among other things) the lie that black people are animals, inferior and base in every way possible and white people is the apex of humanity. through that lens white people are unable to find black people attractive. the other group, black people, have been stolen, abused, raped, murdered, oppressed and altogether dehumanized by white people (past and present) and it is through that lens a black person may indeed find it impossible to see any beauty in a white man or woman and that’s natural. don’t like these self-victimizing, lying, history rewriting, racism ignoring, willfully blind white people make you think it’s the same. it is most certainly not. these are the same people who would have you believe that the black panthers and the kkk were the same and that black pride and white pride are also the same. bull-shit.

Tim Hetherington