Society does not like the idea of a spoiled black woman, much less a spoiled black dark skinned woman

Society expects darker women to struggle and slave all their lives, and only to be treated well when they are “respectable”.

And God forbid you have a modicum of self confidence. Then they want to shoot you down for being cocky.

I'm in my "I take care of me" era. I want her to like me. I want to impress her. I want to cook top tier meals for her and lay her down to sleep. I want her to stay excited about me. I want her to feel close to me. I want her to want to spend time with me. I want her to think I'm cool and irreplaceable because I take care of us both no matter the circumstance!!!!

when someone remembers the little details you told them >>>>