butch, please.

Yeah. Itched scratched.

Yeah. Itched scratched.

that’s literally supernatural

Anyway, “Don’t Say the Z Word” is a trope, and it’s not clear exactly why the trope is a thing but it’s probably either to set a particular book/movie/etc apart (our monsters are different), or to make it sound more “serious” or “realistic”

You deserved better and you really didn’t know.

theres too many i cant name just two

send this to anybody who says stone sex isn’t reciprocal

actually i have a revision to make

Hayley Kiyoko writing a song called "Curious" about how dating bi women is uniquely traumatising because they will leave you for a man: no one can tell I hate bi women if i don't call it "bi-curious"

She wrote a whole song about DEALING with someone who is in the closet and brushed off their relationship with a man as something done to hide her real feelings.

also if you don’t want to date someone who’s in the closet just don’t date closeted people? have the emotional maturity to recognise you’re in different stages of your LGBT journey and are not compatible and just. don’t get involved. instead of pursuing a relationship you know wont work for you and then getting pissy about it

lesbians dating other lesbians who aren’t ready to come out is a common issue, and many of said lesbians who aren’t ready to come out will be with men and have these women on the side until they’re ready to be who they are. and they’ll string these women who love them along for a long time in the process. it’s a genuinely common issue, and i wish bi people would stop making stuff like this about them.

like what if you’re both closeted, you come out, and then they don’t? what if you don’t even learn they’re closeted until you’re already full on in the relationship? what if they’re out to their friends and others around them, but not their parents? being closeted isn’t a cut and dry experience and there’s plenty of times where being so could negatively affect your partner, without it being their fault.

Hayley Kiyoko writing a song called "Curious" about how dating bi women is uniquely traumatising because they will leave you for a man: no one can tell I hate bi women if i don't call it "bi-curious"

She wrote a whole song about DEALING with someone who is in the closet and brushed off their relationship with a man as something done to hide her real feelings.

also if you don’t want to date someone who’s in the closet just don’t date closeted people? have the emotional maturity to recognise you’re in different stages of your LGBT journey and are not compatible and just. don’t get involved. instead of pursuing a relationship you know wont work for you and then getting pissy about it

lesbians dating other lesbians who aren’t ready to come out is a common issue, and many of said lesbians who aren’t ready to come out will be with men and have these women on the side until they’re ready to be who they are. and they’ll string these women who love them along for a long time in the process. it’s a genuinely common issue, and i wish bi people would stop making stuff like this about them.

like what if you’re both closeted, you come out, and then they don’t? what if you don’t even learn they’re closeted until you’re already full on in the relationship? what if they’re out to their friends and others around them, but not their parents? being closeted isn’t a cut and dry experience and there’s plenty of times where being so could negatively affect your partner, without it being their fault.

Hayley Kiyoko writing a song called "Curious" about how dating bi women is uniquely traumatising because they will leave you for a man: no one can tell I hate bi women if i don't call it "bi-curious"

She wrote a whole song about DEALING with someone who is in the closet and brushed off their relationship with a man as something done to hide her real feelings.

also if you don’t want to date someone who’s in the closet just don’t date closeted people? have the emotional maturity to recognise you’re in different stages of your LGBT journey and are not compatible and just. don’t get involved. instead of pursuing a relationship you know wont work for you and then getting pissy about it

lesbians dating other lesbians who aren’t ready to come out is a common issue, and many of said lesbians who aren’t ready to come out will be with men and have these women on the side until they’re ready to be who they are. and they’ll string these women who love them along for a long time in the process. it’s a genuinely common issue, and i wish bi people would stop making stuff like this about them.