MJ

what if we cut each other’s hair in the kitchen…….. and we were both butches

11x14in acrylic on canvas

i got my first real packer in the mail yesterday

it’s a mr. limpy x-small

here’s my review of it so far:

best thing about it: BALLS! better than any DIY sock packer you could make. reaching down and having squishy little balls down there is so amazing.

also, because of the cyberskin it’s made out of, the mr. limpy feels incredibly realistic. it’s slightly more detailed than i had expected, even with wrinkles and veins that pop out a bit.

i will say it’s an awkward size for me. i’m 5’3 and skinny, so it looks strange in my pants (although i think it will look more natural to me once i get used to it). on the other hand, it’s definitely too small for masturbating. i like to pretend i’m jerking off, but it’s just barely big enough to put my entire hand around it. (edit: nevermind it took a while to get used to but it’s actually fairly good for jerking off, even though it’s soft.)

last night i slept with it and it smelled super funky in the morning. a quick wash and cornstarch fixed that, but i just thought i should note that it requires regular washes to stay clean and ~fresh~.

i guess the last thing is, i’m having a difficult time figuring out how to pack with it without having a huge boner. i usually pack “up” with my DIY packers, but this one just kind of hangs between my legs. it takes a lot of adjusting to keep it from falling down my leg.

It’s been easier than before, but occasionally I’ll still have some trouble, but that’s more of a mental blockage than anything. I think the pleasure slide is more meant for if you’re on T, BUT if you’re pre-T you can still masturbate with it, as I do. I can’t say for sure if the pleasure slide works, but when you tug on it the whole thing is just flimsy enough to where some part of the inside is going to come into contact with your anatomy — whether it be the pleasure slide or some spot on the inside of the cup — and while I can’t ever tell if it’s the pleasure slide or not, I’m still getting plenty of stimulation and don’t even bother questioning it. It feels great, and it’s incredibly easy to achieve! Especially since you can do it at any angle that works best for your body and to where everything is situated down there, since everyone is different. Also, you can put a small, thin vibe in the shaft if you want instead of having the rod inside, so that it’s still firm and the vibe touches you as you “jerk” the packer.

The visual is pretty amazing, especially if you’re using packing/STP underwear so you can’t see the “line” of what’s the packer and what’s your actual skin, because sometimes that can ruin it for people. I usually wear underwear and just have it pulled out of the opening in the front so that it looks more like a part of me and hides where it clearly isn’t. And having the rod or something inside makes everything a lot better, so I highly suggest using it even though it’s just solo play!

trinity packing but with a jockstrap 🥴🥴🥴 or with transtape so it can hang and flop around....i know she lovess to see that packer bulge when she's sitting down oh ma godd....probably traces her finger along the outline and squeezes it occasionally. and you know she's manspreading to show it off to you!!!! thinking about teasing one another, throwing sarcastic remarks to get on each other's nerves, only for trinity to spin in her chair and spread her legs open so you get a glimpse of that bulge in her scub pants, which immediately shuts you up.

hooking up with trinity and pulling her pants down to reveal her boxers with a hard package behind it :3 slipping them down, her packer springing up and nearly hitting you in the face. i know deep in my heart she's the type to act like she can feel it when you suck or jerk her off.....she highkey loves when you grope her packer bulge and make little comments about how you can feel her get hard @___@ it gets her going.

smth smth condom on the packer while you're riding her....tearing it off and squeezing the shaft to make her cum inside...

trinity sending you vids of her stroking her packer <3 quick bathroom break that involves her pulling her pants down and jerking it in the stall, quietly moaning out your name.

How does one go about this?

Get a toy like a satisfyer or the disgustingly named "womaniser" (some of the models come without a brand name on it) or any air pressure toy which is kind of long shaped. Preferably one with a good amount of settings for pressure (10-12 is good, because not everyone likes intense heavy sucking and some like more stimulation). Phallic shaped is better tbh, because it's easier to do "the motion" of jerking off.

These toys are placed over your dick, yes I'm calling it a dick even pre-T because if you want to actively ease any dysphoria about this potentially affecting these guys you have to name it something they're comfortable with (and if they're okay with clit aka verbally expressed this then by all means go ahead).

Get the toy, make sure the handle of it is placed upwards, place it on the tdick you wish to jerk off and start on a low setting. Check in with your sexual partner to see how this feels, it can be quite a new and awkward sensation at first. If the toy gives too much friction you can add a little bit of water based lube on their dick (very minimal amount). If they like it and have gotten accustomed somewhat you can totally start putting a little more pressure on the toy and moving it either up or down vertically or horizontally (check in with them again for best results). Play around with the settings and increase where necessary.

Always keep communicating. If you have enough trust and feel comfortable with it you can even blindfold them - sometimes this can ease the dysphoria since they do not see the toy and rely on you verbally to set the scene. Tell them how you enjoy jerking them off, tell them that their dick is hard, show them how into their responses you are. Also since this is a suction toy it can have the effect of temporarily making tdick look and feel bigger.

I still personally think there would be a great market for an air pressure toy that looks like a dick, most of the masturbators for transmascs are for those with bottom growth. Bottom growth gives gender euphoria, but we shouldn't be keeping that away from transmasculine people who want that but do not have it (yet) for whatever reason.

Specifically, the Gen2 pleasure rod from Peecock Products is a fantastic option. It’s meant to accommodate bottom growth, so if T is in your long term plans you should be able to keep using the stroker function, but the best part about this product specifically is that even pre-T the rod provides enough friction against the body to stimulate your dick pre-T. You don’t need any kind of bottom growth to get the full effect.

From my experience the rod isn’t sturdy enough to accommodate penetration, but if you’re just looking for something to ease your or your partner’s gender dysphoria while jerking off this is a great option. Additionally the rod has an ejaculation feature for anyone who enjoys the visual affirmation of a ‘big finish’

There are three style options for these rods, to accommodate different preferences and anatomy, so use your best judgment about which might work for you. The prosthetics themselves are a bit pricey, but the rods themselves are more affordable and could be inserted into other STP packers depending on the size and flexibility.

Here’s a photo for reference. As always, use your best judgment, take your own measurements, do your research. Feel free to shoot me a message if you have questions. Always here to support my transmasc brothers and siblings

I jokingly told my gf that “imma go back to being trans cuz I wanna wear a packer again and that it feels so right.” But look I’m not gonna do that but I also fell asleep with it on. Also was jerking it off in the mirror.

Yes it was black

And realistic

And the briefs fit comfy

Details about the toy/idea:

So I have a packed that’s got ridges on the backside off it and you can like rub it against yourself which I did and had a good time but bc it’s a packer it’s behold for the shaft to point down so when I was jerking it it put my wrist in a real uncomfortable position. So the idea I have is I found these like bumpers for putting on a strap and I’m thinking that paired with a dildo. So I can like jerk off with the dildo and use the bumper part to stimulate myself. There’s a few different versions of the bumper and in trying to decide which one I think I will like the best. And the other dilemma is do I just use it with the strapon dildo I have which is not lifelike or would I need one that looked lifelike for this to be successful

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Literally so real for that, it's now canon to me too and you are Peter Parker in my mind now. You're our friendly neighborhood kinkblr Spiderman.

But ooo that sounds like an interesting dillema :3c I wish you luck in figuring it out!!! I hope you're able to figure it out without much hassle, but don't be hard on yourself if it takes a bit of experimenting!

...or maybe even a toy with a knot, so i can knot miss's fist while she presses me into the mattress...