Paige's Bullshit

1. this is not from a porn site or anything. this was platformed on youtube by someone who seemingly "tries to keep the community as SFW as possible". no one will be surprised by this because the femboy self-sexualisation is so commonplace its absence is more surprising than its presence at this point

2. "princess boy" feels like a direct parallel to "lady boy". i don't need to explain why this is insanely transmisogynistic

3. the fish guy immediatly switching from "this is pretty wife" to "this is sex toy tranny" upon learning that the person isn't "an actual woman" reveals how absolutely normalized it is to view transfems as sex objects to be freely abused, always treated worse than both cis men and cis women would be

4. the femboy character's response to being promised continuous sexual violence by a group being "cool thanks" reflects how the femboy community will do one of 3 things when confronted with the real violence transfems face : completely gloss over it, turn it into a joke, or say "that's hot" and turn it into more fuel for the degradation of transfemininity through sexualisation. this somehow manages to be a bit of all 3. mainly the third though

5. it's the "trap" trope all over again. "i look like a woman but i'm actually a dude! i'm being deceitful i could never actually be a girl!" transfemininity once again treated as a costume that makes you incredibly desireable. but only as a sex object, not as a person or equal. and only if it's a costume, if you're actually transfem you're lower than dirt. hot and fuckable and lower than dirt

the two types of transfem culture are "co-opted by tmes" and "harmful to the greater trans community". all transfem culture is placed into these two categories.

blahaj? co-opted. referring to each other by familial roles? harmful to the community. the term egg? co-opted. age regression? harmful to the community.

Hello TME. In front of you is a post in which a transfem laments the fact that she and her sisters cannot have anything, not even a cute plushie shark, which she will list alongside several other, more serious things.

You must reply without belittling said transfems pain and if you d- Oh that was quick. Bravo! Now into the acid with you.

I wonder why this person only mentioned the sharks and none of the more serious things?

Then again, it probably wouldn't sound quite as high, mighty and above it all to say:

"god I'm so sorry that someone co-opted an intra community slur whilst you were trying to reclaim it, that must be so difficult."

Or:

"god I'm so sorry people who claim to be your brothers siblings and allies frequently repress your civil rights movement, that must be so hard for you."

Huh.