Aceitar ≠ acreditar

Guys i’m honestly gagged at this success story. I have never revised something this big. I have manifested big things before, but this one is just so impressive.

Today i woke up to a bill of 9k YEAH. You heard that right. I was like, wtf?? I wasn’t expecting to have to pay this much money for this specific thing. It was so unexpected, it caught me by surprise. I started to worry wondering how i’m going to pay this (i’m a student) but i was like no wait i can just manifest the money. But i figured an even better option is to revise it completely. I started to affirm nonstop that it’s already been paid. I didn’t want to pay that much for this even if i had the money cause wtf do i look like? If im paying for something i better be enjoying it and it better be by choice… this wasn’t by choice at all it was just imposed on me like that and i was like hell NO.

While affirming, i was also thinking about what i’m going to do in the background, i thought about manifesting the money, i thought about asking my parents to pay for it, i literally thought about every possible way i could fix this. I had those background opposing thoughts and visuals. I still affirmed no matter what. I refused to entertain any other option. I didn’t want to pay and i know the law so i am going to use it to MY ADVANTAGE and prove it always works even when it feels impossible.

Happy New Year to all my loves that follow me on here! here is my gift for you guys:

🔮: ALTER EGO: if your goal for this new year is to achieve your best version, you definitely should consider an alter ego.

An alter ego is like an “improved” version of you, the version you want to become and want to empower. You can give your alter ego a different name from yours (e.g., mine is Jade), and you give your alter ego your desired characteristics, whatever your better version would acquire. Your alter ego is usually more confident and more magnetic.

How to create your own alter ego: Decide how your alter ego is going to be, and to do this, you just need to ask yourself how would you like to be. You’re going to decide how your alter ego is going to behave, how they are going to think, how they are going to act around other people. You’re going to decide their whole aesthetic and what current issue you have that they will fix, for example, an insecurity or a fear. You don’t have to give them a new name, as it is completely optional. You can also make a Pinterest board for your alter ego and add pictures that remind you of them. It can be clothes or just pictures with the same energy as them to be able to visualise it better.

How to activate your alter ego: You will know when you want to embody your alter ego. For example, if you’re in a very awkward position where you feel very shy and scared to talk, you can pretend to press a button in order to activate this better version of yourself. You need to embody them and just pretend that this is who you are right now.

Você não é e nunca foi seus sentimentos, esteja em paz com eles e se encontre em paz consigo mesmo.

1. Be mindful of the length of your fingernails. I know I mentioned long nails fit my nails better, but your nails should not be kissing your palms and poking everything and everybody. Keep your nails trimmed to a manageable length if yours grow like weeds.

2. You’ll gain “the stare”. When I was at a steakhouse, I looked at this man I knew didn’t respect this 20-something girl’s worth. He looked through my soul because I knew what they were doing and he was being extremely cheap with her making her eat at the bar when she wanted a table. The Stare makes cheap men feel uncomfortable and angry.

3. You’ll learn what mannerisms you’ll need for the “job”. Practice your tools at home so trial and error doesn’t nab you in behind. Your tiny purse goes in both of your hands when you’re worried instead of rubbing your temples like a man.

Bursting into tears in trivial situations will have an unintended effect like a man putting his wallet back and pulling his phone out for you to call home or a friend.

4. It’s acceptable to be neutral in your attitude. Being all smiles can get you taken advantage of and hurt.

5. There’s ALWAYS bigger fish out there. Don’t compromise on exercising, dieting or practicing your makeup. A lazy eyeshadow can bar you from having your brunch covered. Clothes fitting you weirdly will cause a man to choose another woman to surprise with a fulfilled bill. Be the biggest and best around. Don’t SLACK on your appearance!

6. Don’t be too fast to correct him. If I would’ve been quick to correct, I would’ve spent a lot of money on surprise expenses because I emasculated him.

7. On the way, you’ll learn how to tailor your femininity around women. I’ve mentioned before my feminine demeanor unravels around older (albeit miserable) women.

8. Find smaller targets to practice on. Small doesn’t equal bad or you’re unattractive. It’s as exciting to have your milkshake covered as it is your shopping trip! Hint: Invest in a signature makeup look whenever your intention is shopping. There ARE men out there who look for pretty women to pay for.

9. Appear 2-3 years older than you are when you’ve just entered adulthood. It makes you appear mature and like you know what you want. Don’t look at yourself as a juvenile or confused girl.

10. It’s not your job to make others comfortable with your appearance. Don’t leave the house looking homely because you don’t want to intimidate people.

11. You can look expensive for cheap. Beauty supply beauty can look expensive with lots of alterations. Most of the products aren’t bad, just underrated. I’m not going to pad it, you’ll need a palette mixer and a very good moisturizer to make these shades look good because they are BASIC. I’d allocate a part of my budget and a day or 2 for beauty supply shopping. You’ll find so many gems.

12. It’s not his business how affordable your makeup or outfit was. Your NYX is Nars and your beauty supply makeup is Mac.

13. Average is boring. Average is predictable and shows a lack of preparation. Average means you’re complacent with yourself.

14. You’ll know how to respond to time wasters. I blocked a guy for texting me too early about himself.

15. Learning how to be delicate is difficult. This was a huge issue for me coming from a masculine background when being delicate meant weakness and sacrificing something.

16. Snatch your body before it’s developed into maturity. For most of my followers, your body is most likely changing before your eyes. Not having an exercise regimen can make or break your transformation. Literally, don’t allow your new hips to give away you’re unhealthy.

17. Your real name is not your name in public. I would not use a variant of my name either. Your phone name is your alter ego’s name. He’s not your doctor, roommate, friend or parent. Learn how to not acknowledge someone who recognizes you.

18. You’re whoever you want to be in your element. A socialite, glamorous beauty, girly girl, goth princess, etc. who wears all of the hats in her style.

19. You HAVE to find the standards of a higher class appearance so you won’t be overlooked. What may look appear wealthy in your community may make you invisible in higher end communities. I’ve felt so invisible in affluent areas due to this. The higher class look will equate to more success for you in your own community because men who’ll cover you respect that.

20. Ignore bitter girls. If they’re being aggressive to you in public, find a way to get out of their way as soon as possible.

21. Focus on getting 1 hairstyle right if others look messy on you. 1 is better than nothing or until you get the others right.

22. Wearing wigs doesn’t mean your own hair texture is undesirable. A year into my journey was when I bought my 1st lace front wig. I struggled with telling myself that a wig is a protective style and not a measure of self-hatred.

23. Learn at your pace. I’m grateful I stopped myself before I tried free-styling. The glitz and glam is a lot of fun, until you’re still at square 1 acting the same way you did, only dressed up.

24. Your experience improves with age. I have to educate myself about expensive living and work 3 times as hard to be taken seriously.

25. Etiquette is as important as your appearance. You can look like a luxury queen, and exude being his buddy when you burp without saying anything or scratch your back.

26. Invoke your fantasy aura at all times. You’re not an average woman. Men look for you through matchmakers, spiritual guides and wishes.

27. Your low self esteem can be your demise. It’s not quirky to go out and accept anything thrown at you. Your esteem dictates your outfits, attitude, lifestyle and mindset.

28. You’ll unfollow a lot of your influences becoming more feminine. You’ll discover how your influences feel about you in their music, when they’re angry or under pressure.

29. Resting is very important. Going to bed before midnight doesn’t mean you have no social life, it’s your safety net for your life and mind.

30. You’re saving your life. You’re saving yourself from what your family suffered and what you would’ve suffered. Remember to appreciate all you’ve done.

When self-conscious thoughts and doubts surface, recognize them for what they are: programming inherited from unhealed people. They are not your voice. The cycle breaks when you stop identifying with them. The difficulty lies in the fact that these thoughts sit in the body, triggering somatic responses that feel real and personal. But they are intruders, unwanted guests, not your intrinsic self.