Brownie's Headmate Market

The following is a series of screenshots from the Radbugs server where members state kids as young as 10 years old are able to consent. The member mentioned this is what started the shit show.

⭕️❗️- Hating endos is lame, hate on us instead ! We’re a DID system that believes people shouldn’t have to have their own entry in the DSM5 to be respected , apparently a controversial opinion these days !

Being unapologetically plural is punk, ESPECIALLY if you don’t fit the “scientific” idea of what a real system should be. Systems should support other systems regardless of where we come from. The world doesn’t understand us and they don’t want to have to understand us, if we want to have a future where we are proudly and loudly ourselves we have to work together to make it.

I have to fight to be accepted as gay, i have to fight to be accepted as polyamorous, I have to fight to be accepted as trans, I have to fight to be accepted as non human, I have to fight to be accepted as autistic, I have to fight to be accepted as plural.

I do not want anyone to have to fight me to be accepted as who they are, I want to fight alongside them because we’re fighting the exact same battle and it’s hard enough without us stabbing each other in the backs.

1. Get Consent of the Sold Headmate

Cool start. Consent is important. I do feel ethics can still be shaky with headmates who are made to be sold, but I don't feel it's quite equivalent to slavery as some suggest.

2. Get the information on Carrds/documents

This is interesting. It makes sense to market the headmate. Although the other variation of this I heard sold documents themselves. I assume that particular method was to trick the consumer into reading the material later, introjecting, and thinking it was a successful hop.

With this method though, if all the information is available upfront, you can just browse the headmate market looking for headmates to introject for free!

3. Advertise in places

Makes sense.

4. Negotiate price after finding the buyer

Well this is very disappointing. Here I was hoping the prices would be public so I could see what the going rates of headmates are. What's even the point of this if the prices are a mystery?

Seems to be utilizing the sunk cost fallacy a bit here too. Get someone invested before talking over prices so they'll be more likely to spend more than if you had given them the price straight-up due to all the time they already put in.

5. Consent again

Good practice. Make sure the headmate is still okay with this.

6. Pay first, get the headmate later.

Okay, backtrack...

Why is this necessary?

System hopping is a totally real practice, right?

And this is definitely not a scam?

And the headmate can leave a system any time they want, surely?

Then why not offer the headmate a visit on a trial period to prove that this actually works?

Headmate visits for a few days to a week week, spends time with buyer, and if they're compatible then you can complete the transaction.