*ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS use condoms. If you get your sister pregnant, you will have a child that is likely to be deformed- parents will not be proud, in addition you may have financial problems paying for the child. If you use a condom, you wont have to spend 50$ on a pill to prevent the pregnancy.
* AlWAYS and I mean AlWAYS make sure your sister or relative that your are choosing is ok with it. Never EVER, do something they do not want to do. If you do, it is considered rape and you can be serving time in prison.
1. Your sister is good practice. When you go through it with your sister, you work with each other and understand what to expect. You live in the same household, so you are forced to deal with each other. Too many people at this age, just take relationships for granted and hurt someone emotionally and mess with other peoples feelings. There is no running, from the other, when you are related, you just have to accept they live in the same house and work with them.
2.If you both agree to it, you can keep it light and keep it simple. You donβt HAVE to have a deep relationship, just a fun sexual one. If you choose this path, you would just have simple sex to understand it and enjoy yourself. Thereβs no βHe broke up with me, and rumors are going to fly at schoolβ. No, its simple, you both know this is taboo, and if either of you tells others, BOTH of you suffer societies scrutiny and possibly parents scrutiny. Being discreet is the best choice. If you both want a deeper relationship, then you both can mutually communicate that and arrange for that to happen to the extent you want to happen.
3. Take the time to get to learn each others bodies. Learn what she likes, and how to do it, so that when you get a girlfriend, you know the hotspots. Not every girl is the same in what they like, but they all have the same hotspots, and you will have the basics down. Intimacy is not just about hitting it and quitting it. It is about taking time to please one another and make love. There are various spots that really get a women going. Practice on sis, so you can be a pro when you get to your future girlfriend. With this being said she will be practicing on you, to be great in bed for the next person she chooses. She can learn the many different things that gets a man going and learn what pleases him. Again you guys are learning and growing with each other- together.
4. Not every guy gets intimate all the time and not every girl gets intimate all the time. There are people from both sexes that crave more sex. Lets face it, this is not the movies, where people are having sex left and right. Some people want relationships, others just want to mess around. Many people go through high school without having any sex at all. Sometimes you cant help it. Sometimes your type of partner is not in that school or the partner you like does not like you back or want to be with you. Once again, the remedy to this, is being with your sibling. You dont have to fall in love with your sibling. You can keep the intimacy to a degree you are both happy with that can be, just sex, dating or superloveβ¦whatever floats your boat.
5. Gay marriage is about letting someone marry the same sex. Essentially, whatever gender they want to marry. As a society, if we can allow people to marry/be intimate with whatever gender they want, you can compare that to allowing 2 consensual people to make love. It is practically the same concept. If one can marry who they want, one should be able to have sex with who they want-this includes relatives.
6. You must question, who is anyone to tell you who you make love to or how you make love? As a society, if we tell people who to make love to, that is beyond equivalent to arranged marriage, where your parents tell you who to marry and make love to. Except in incest, society would tell you who NOT to make love to. This is just as equally wrong. If 2 people want to make love, suppose its 2 relatives, then they should, period. Its no ones business to try to separate them.
7. Just because one feels incest is disgusting does not mean, that one person should decide for everyone elseβs actions. I think eating escargot (snails) is disgusting, but I would never ban the french from eating it, nor would I think they are bad people. I just wouldnβt do it myself. That is how you should view incest. You may think its disgusting, but you have no right to stop it or judge someone else for doing it. Just because someone believes differently does not make them a bad person. People have all sorts of sexual preferences. So let them be. You do not have to partake.
8. If you believe in the christian bible and you believe in Adam and Eve, being the only humans who existed at the beggining of time. They had children. In order to procreate, the children HAD to be involved in incest. If not with each other, then with one of their parents. The bible has no mention of any other families during that time. More families were created from Adam and Eves kids, plain and simple. Its time to put 2 and 2 together.
9. When you do this, you never have to feel cheated on, after all this is your sister or relative. They are free to be with whomever they want, just as you are free to be with whomever you want, so as long as its consensual. Sure feelings can develop and things can get complicated, but that can happen in any relationship.If someone cheats on the other, no worries, you got cheated on by your sister and you can move on to another partner.
10. Remember that incest is not accepted because of culture. Religion has told everyone its not ok, yet religion has been the cause of so many wars. People argue that children can be deformed from incest. Yea, so wear a condom. You should be wearing a condom with WHOMEVER partner you choose, not just a relative. The third argument is that it disgusts some people. That is fine, those disgusted people do not have to do it. However if 2 people enjoy it or want it, then so be it. If you like chocolate ice cream, and chocolate disgusts me, I will not prevent you from eating it, because you enjoy that. I will just go have vanilla because that is what I prefer.
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