British Filth

#soon

Thank you for letting me remind you that you ARE so good.

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They're not as regular as I'd like, but being silly is a big one; feeling free of constraint to dance like a madman in my living room, doing daft impressions even though I'm not good at them, pretending like I'm Ramsey by muttering things like 'aaand INTO THE PAN' when I'm simply frying eggs.

Your imagination can take flight without limitation. The only ceiling is what your mind can conjure, and I can help with that 😉

But I look forward to when that happens again 👀

So chill. Breathe. Relax. It’ll go by quick, but not so quickly you don’t have time to take a breath. You’re amazing. I am too (not unrelated). Time is everything.

Thanks for making me want you ❤️

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Absolutely LOVE to hear this. Many of us in relationships weren’t as sexually open as we really are, or we’d like to be, so after a while of being in a relationship with someone new, it becomes a bit awkward to open our boundaries; a norm has already been set. If I can help, fantastic. Better still, if you’re able to find a way to communicate your desires to your partner, so much the better.

I love that, thank you! Drop me a line with any specific subjects or links you’d like me to talk about.

I think the answer is in the intent. Yes, I do use those words, but I never use them in a pejorative sense. When I use words like slut, it’s celebratory. It’s about owning and exploring sexuality; reclaiming terms that have been hijacked for misuse by the patriarchy. I never suggest there’s anything to be ashamed or embarrassed of. It’s an embrace of sexuality.

From the beautiful mind of Kae Tempest