breewylde

I'm 28 and while I am no sex doctor I can tell you how my experiences have been. I have been with way more partners than that which could be counted on my fingers (winces okay maybe more than fingers and toes). I have had my share of Kings and Queens. I love them both, I get a different need answered from each but when it comes down to sexual openness , fluidity, and willing to do any and everything in the bed Queens will always win with me. I don't know if it's because another woman knows what another woman needs, or perhaps a woman feels she has more to prove due to the lack of penis but they go the extra 2 miles to make sure their sexual partners are satisfied. You can tell another woman I'm on my period and she will tell you to lay a towel down so yall don't mess those good 1000 count sheets you all just picked out together she might even just tell you go hop in the shower and let's do it there. Tell another woman you are afraid of squirting because it feels like you have to piss instead of cum and she's going to probably tell you just to let it go and see what happens. Tell another woman you like anal sex and she's giving you a finger up that back door. Now onto our brown men...I don't know what the fuck happened. It might be some conditioned learning but they are a little uptight when it comes to the sex department. They feel the need to have in deep rationalizations about sexual activities that might be considered outside the normal. If we are together, if we are vibing, if we are tested, if we are connected you need to give ME EVERYTHING SEXUALLY. I don't want to hear about what your homeboys told you, what society instills in you, or your damn insecurities that somethings make you less of a man. It's the bed not the street give me what I need. Questions 1- For those of you who have been with both men and women...what did you see as the difference in sex with the two? 2- Why do you feel black men have hang ups about certain sexual activities?