BOYS AS PROPERTY

Interesting perspective. If he did leave because of that (that is an assumption) then that would be the takeaway message. Just today a “fag” treated me like I was some kind of prostitute who existed to serve his kink. He said he was into fin-dom, but what he attempted (laughably) to do was pressure me into sex work. I am not your employee.

Generally speaking, I feel that there are those who do you all a disservice. “Flaky fag” is a part of every Alpha’s vocabulary for a reason; so many fags flake when it gets Real. This is just a fantasy for them.

I AM NOT A FANTASY. WE ARE NOT FANTASIES.

We are real. If you approach looking for jackoff material, with no real intention of serving, you do all of your legitimately submissive brothers a disservice. If you approach wishing to taste service, and run away the moment you’ve gotten that taste, only to rinse and repeat with new accounts and new Alphas… you’re harming the entire community. Because I get jaded. We all get jaded. I put less energy into those who contact me, because I can’t invest in what turns out to be a waste of time, 90% of the time.

If you have a good heart and approach with a genuine wish to submit, this post isn’t about you. This isn’t aimed at all of those young fags around the globe who want to serve me physically but are too far away, and want to serve me financially but don’t meet my rules. This is aimed at those who have the power to serve, and the desire to do so, but don’t want to actually commit to it out of some bizarre mixture of fear and pride.

So, what is my message to fags? Make it simple for us. You have one Alpha to deal with. If you’re like me, you have roughly 50 fags messaging you on a weekly basis. We don’t have time, because we are busy. Approach with all of the information you think we might need. Be low maintenance. Be grateful for the time you’re given. Say Thank You regularly, and be liberal with your praise. Be completely honest and be swift in communication; “Hello Sir, I’m having a trouble with my service since…” beats “Sir?” every time. Don’t try and force us to work to your schedule.

Be Patient. Be Respectful. Be Grateful that we find the time.

If all of the good, passionate and ethical Alphas get jaded, what are you left with? Predatory idiots who are more than happy to turn your insecurity and desire to serve into a horrific credit rating.

I hear too many times how a fag, slave, or sub is suggesting what they think would be hot to do. They ask to be humiliated and used. They talk about their fantasies. The cunts are missing the mark.

It should always be about what a man wants and helping him feel like the King he is.

- pay attention to what a man says the first time. - don’t ask 100 questions just notice what he enjoys. - don’t make him repeat himself. - notice where he likes to sit when he enters. - is his drink within arms reach? - I what is his favorite snack and is it next to him? - does he like silence and to unwind without having to order you to around. Is the tv turned on to his shoe or the book he was reading out next to him. - is everything clean and smelling the way he likes - does he sigh in content when you take the initiative as a footstool after all the chores are done. - does he prefer you not be in view so you wait in a closet or knelt behind where he sits until needed. - he should never have to ask for a refill - he should never have to initiate boot or foot worship. - does it please the man you serve when you humiliate yourself for his amusement. - have you taken the time to have the items he likes to use ready without having to go look for them. - have you asked the man you serve if there is something he would like some better (after working on what he has already instructed - have you asked yourself what you could do to make His life easier or more convenient today?

These are minimal things a faggot should be thinking of. So the next time you think, “it would be really hot if master did…,” try adjusting yourself to anticipate his needs.

1. Be available.  You know you have competition.  Even if the number of men and cocksuckers were equal, you would be at a disadvantage.  You can probably suck 5+ cocks a day, he probably can’t provide 5+ loads a day.  If you are not available when he wants, you will lose more than he does.  When he calls, stay at your sister’s wedding, but leave the gym even if you just got there.

2. Be on time.  This is especially true of you’re meeting at your place.  A text message five minutes after you were supposed to meet is not acceptable.

3. Be prepared.  In most cases, you have more than five minutes to get ready.  Use this time to make sure your mouth doesn’t smell like a place he will be afraid to put his cock.  Make sure your place isn’t so messy he feels he’s taking his life in his hands just by walking in.  Go to the bathroom.  Put a pillow or cushion on the floor to pad your knees.

4. Don’t do things that will detract from his experience.  Don’t use throat spray to numb your throat.  It will get on his cock, and neither of you want him to have a  numb cock.  (Wear a sore throat as a badge of pride.  It means you got his cock deep enough to reach your throat.)  Don’t get drunk, stoned, or high.  You will not be able to provide the level of service he deserves (even if you think you are).

5. Pay attention.  If he gives you instructions (before, during, or after), make sure you follow them.  Listen and watch how he reacts to what is happening, and do whatever you can to enhance his enjoyment.  

6. Don’t get distracted.  Turn your phone OFF (not just set to vibrate).  Turn the TV off (if it is your place).  Don’t play with yourself.

7. Think ahead.  If you’re meeting at his place, it wouldn’t be a bad idea bring an extra shirt, and if you are likely to cum while sucking him, a pair of pants.  Don’t embarrass him by letting his neighbors see you leaving with cum all over you.  If you meet at your place, the time to look for a clean wash cloth to wipe him up is not when he’s ready to leave.

8. Swallow.  Any cocksucker deserving the name should swallow.  If you won’t, it should be very clear very early in your discussion.  Don’t spring this on him at the last minute.  You will need to find out what he considers acceptable if you wont swallow; never spit it on him unless he has agreed in advance.  (This applies only to cum.  If you are expected to swallow piss/spit/snot/other things, that should be arranged in advance.)

9. Be pleasant, accommodating and respectful.  Your competition is as much a cum rag as another cocksucker.  Cum rags are convenient, do what is expected, don’t spit, and don’t create drama.  That is the minimum you need to do.  To get the cock you want, though. you need to exceed that level of service.  If you have a chance before his cock is in you, thank him for choosing you.  When he is done, thank him again.  Let him know he has done you a favor, not the other way around.  As you know all too well, a cum rag is not a substitute for a man’s cock.  Make sure when he leaves, he feels you were worth the effort, wait, and inconvenience.

Not at all, dear.

My ass can take a lot more than yours can. Thats what I care about :) 

No need to be rude or competitive. 

You are tributing to serve your King, nothing else. This about service, not fulfilling your fantasies, not being humiliated for being a fag, not for an exchange of tribute for pictures.

Your King does not need your money, but it is His birthright to be served by you. It is your duty (not His) to initiate conversation and tribute soon after following this blog.

Your King is busy and will not talk incessantly to every fag who claims to want to tribute. It is your faggot duty to serve, and this blog is entirely devoted to and created for financial service to @kc-alpha.  You will tribute without expecting anything in return. You will tribute within three messages of initiating conversation with your King. If you wish to serve in other ways, go to His main blog (@kc-alpha) and message Him there.

As evidenced in the above sections, this is not a blog for wasting your King’s time. The correct and best way to serve on here is to: A) follow the blog, B) message your King on here immediately after following with a proposed financial service plan, and C) prepare and promptly send your first tribute within three messages.

The magical thrill of the Dominant/submissive commitment is what most kinksters strive for. Not only because of the erotic ambiance that it provides, but there is something visceral about it. When we think of D/s, it can make our heart buzz and give us goosebumps. What really goes on between the stern standing Dominant and the passive kneeling submissive is more than just a turn on.

Developing D/s relationships is a long process. We start as two strangers sitting opposite each other at a table. But, soon the submissive begins learning about his Dominant in depth, in just the same way that the Dominant is discovering everything about the submissive. We learn not only the things that are physical, but the motivations and drive of our partner.

Perhaps more-so than other relationships, D/s requires intense focus on your partner. In a way it’s like taking a lot of micro closeup photos after first looking at the larger macro image.

The psychological observation of your Master/slave changes you as an individual. This is where the visceral unexplainable charm comes in. Remember the first experience of you kneeling down by His feet? And being told in that hypnotic Master’s voice that you’re a “good boy”, or having the warmth of his hand on your skin? That isn’t just connecting Master and the slave physically, and it’s certainly not mere erotic posturing. It makes you feel complete, satisfied as a Master of a slave or a slave of a Master. This posture connects the inner self of two individuals. The inner soul of the Master who desires power but can’t exercise that power in everyday social life is suddenly being satisfied. Similarly, the inner self of the submissive who doesn’t like to exercise power, but is forced to make big decisions in everyday life, is satiated.

That is charm. We feel right, right in the sense that this is our true self that can’t be satisfied or expressed in any other way. But, in the D/s dynamic it is connected and fulfilled.

I’ve hd several conversations with locked boiz over the past couple weeks where we discussed how to truly become a locked bottom bitch.

Now, you may ask, “But isn’t having your cocklette permantently riveted in a cage enough?”

The answer is “No.”

I believe that the point where you no longer focus on your cocklette as a source of pleasure, that it’s simply the thing you piss from, AND when your holes have become your only sources of sexual release - when you learn to have anal orgasms ans squirt cum from your soft cocklette from receiving a man’s cock (or dildo) - then and only then have you truly become a locked bottom bitch, a true servant of real men, an acolyte of cock, a disciple of sexual energy.

I’ve been asked how to get to that state of mind, to that place where we want to be.  Now, I haven’t quite gotten there myself; though in truth, I no longer think of my locked cocklette as anything other than something to piss from.  I no longer get erections (though sometimes a bit of swelling) and I haven’t had a real, honest-to-goodness orgasm in 623 days (as of 4/12/15).  But I haven’t gotten to the point of being able to have an anal orgasm while being penetrated every time.  It HAS happened but I would love to have one every time my hole gets used.

So here’s my theory on how to move from a cock-focused life to a hole-focused life.

1. Get that cock caged!

2. Stay locked’n’deniedlonger each session. Start at 2 weeks, then 3, then 4 … and just keep going.

3. Now the real trick, of course is to shift your sexual NEED from that locked cocklette to your hole. So, they way I’ve done it is simply by fucking a dildo EVERY TIME I GET HORNY.  

Its that simple.  Back when I was a top with a free cock, when I cruised porn I’d take my hard cock in my hand and wank one out.  Or, when I mad my bottom bitch, Carlos, would kneel under the desk with a plug in his ass and suck my cock until I told him I was ready to blow.  Then I’d put him over the desk and fuck my load into his El Salvadoran ass.

Remember when your cock was free?  I bet you stroked that sucker every time you got the slightest bit horny.

Well, now, instead of thinking about your useless cock … go jump on a dildo - the bigger, the longer, the better.  NEVER cruise pron without being ready to fuck a dildo the second you get horny.

You will train yourself to equate “horny” with “penetration.”  That’s the key.

4. When you watch porn stop thinking about that real man’s cock, look at that bottom bitch taking it.  Hear him moan.  Think about your hole and how wonderful and amazing it feels when it is being penetrated.  My God! Writing this now I have the urge to grab my Kevin Dean dildo and fuck it into me!

4. Once you’ve gone 6 months locked’n’denied you are ready to go permanent … invest in that stainless steel cage that fits perfectly and rivet the fucker on!

5. NEVER stop training. When you’re horny … fuck a dildo, fuck your man … fuck a stranger.  Watch porn? Fuck a dildo.  Each and every time!

The chastity cages we all so love to use just tackle part of the “problem” of being a submissive bottom.  We have to change our physical, mental and emaotional states.