Bobbles n' Bitty-Bites

we’re p sure we’re an endo type being due to having absolutely no tr..ma shared via our body as far as ANYONE knows, which if u know us u know is kinda an iffy subject 4 us since we’ve heard harsh words and thus no longer use typical terms for that as our things bc of the disconnect and problematic thoughts that spawn due to that.

We’ll likely remove this account soon, or at least switch blogs to a new one we like and r willing 2 enjoy,

IF UR BLOCKED OR PART OF THE DNI LIST FOLLOW IT AND DNI!! We KNOW what we’re doing and dealing w/, we don’t need negativity thrown at us when we’re doing our best 2 fix things, even if it’s a struggle rn 4 it,

if u wanna know the new blog and stuff dm us on discord and We’ll get 2 u!

we're traumagenic and syscourse neutral, we've taken a LOT to realize we do have trauma, and finding out you've had over 100 alters BEFORE YOUR BODY WAS TEN is relatively earth shattering to handle. We're still learning a lot about ourselves but we know that Yes, anti-endo spaces have a drastic right to exist, and several of our friends are anti-endo, pro-endo/endo spaces were a lot safer for us to realize our trauma was a trauma and not gaslight ourselves on that fact.

Several anti-endos ended up making us spiral and our condition worsen. Especially horribly so because our traumas involve being isolated and alone- this system is built on the fact we had no one besides eachother in this body for the longest time and they were essentially telling us we were only One Person and that was distressing because of that. I will put that upfront because that made us be strictly pro-endo for the longest time with no leeway until we got in contact with some ex-friends now friends again who are strictly anti-endo because of similar ordeals with the pro-endo community.

second ordeal: for those who knew us before our changes and several moves, we're going to fully move soon account wise, we're keeping our older blogs up still since they do have a right to exist- at least for record keeping ordeals,

we're going to remake/redesign several aus and multiverses and redo several adoptable characters onto our blog and/or toyhouse, unsure which blog yet but it'll likely be attached to @darlingbeehive (our main and system blog on the newer account) or reblogged onto @introjis (our emoji blog)- some including some ships thought of as problematic but since that's the introjects of the characters' fault and they're at least not problematic innerworld age gap or otherwise we're not going to remove it from the remakes and such, we will tag it so it's filtered for everyone who has such whenever brought up though- because though we're pretty low-tolerance to those types of ships since this is for our alters of that au we're letting it be an exception.

if you've been here (or our bitty blogs) for bitties and such we're working with a friend to take the more customizable ones like the macaroons, sodas, and snail/slug bitties and give them FULL control over those ones- bitties based off ocs like the olis and olivias and whatnot will be moving house with us to another blog so we can maintain everything-

third of all- thank you guys for this incredible journey, there was a lot of bumps along the way but I'm genuinely proud that we've made it to be 22 years old now when this blog was when we were 15-16 bodily,

Hmm, let me explain it this way- have you ever lied to be a “good child” the “good friend” or to “fit in” to whatever group you likely looked up to at the time?

That’s the same as these slugs, they don’t benefit from lacking shells, they’re raised in a way that’s good for them (better than how they grow up in the wild at least-) so that they at least can be honest with who raises them to be fully grown before they are palm sized. Sure it’s not the best but it’s better than them lying 24/7 just to be the “good” person and to “fit in” with everyone else they know.

If you have any ideas that could help for when we allow them to be adoptable please do share, I’d love to chat with you off anon and we can talk about the mental, emotional, and physical things about these two species along with sub-species to make sure they get treated the best they can and raised properly even after adoption.

The Slugs Mask Because "Everyone Is Like That So I Must Conform"

We made Skele-slugs to show ourselves as autistic when we were not yet diagnosed- unconsciously,

Professional Autism Diagnosis Requires Someone Who Knows You As A Child?

Why is that?

Autistic people learn at a young age to Pretend Not To Be Themselves, they learn no matter any of what they do they will not be accepted. AS A CHILD- some autistics mask for so long and fool themselves that not a single doctor ends up diagnosing them.

Getting any autistic person to be themself around you is an act of major trust in a world where they had begun to stop trusting people. Them stimming, them talking about their debilitating focuses that can last YEARS, gaining their trust to know that you aren't like everyone else who has hurt them and the stress of masking to ACTIVELY be perceived as normal by everyone around them,

The slugs were designed this way because we were undiagnosed: we were a slug and not a snail, and didn't know it any. We were a slug who learned that the world is cruel and we could not be ourselves any without backlash and being hurt.

Okay for further notice ask me skele slug and snail questions at @bobblesnbittybites please,,, wanna keep answers in an easier to find place for later on,,, (also really really sorry I didn’t see this until now!!!)

To answer your question when adopting one you’re likely to get enough of a hint it’s not a skele-snail as needed without the skele-slug knowing. the skele-slugs act as skele-snails for their own safety in the wild, if raised without a shell avalible they likely will become so reckless they won’t survive long enough to even be the size of a human finger nail!

Again- skele-slugs are acting as skele-snails FOR THEIR OWN SAFETY if they come and tell you on their own they’re a skele-slug and apologize for fooling you then you have a loyal bitty who’s 10000% trusting of you and knows you wouldn’t let harm come to them if you can help it!