BnKNorman

Hey guys, over the last several days it’s occurred to me that the content that I post is very much dictated by the conversations that I have in DM with all of you. I find that from your feedback and questions that I spend a lot of my normal drive time during the days thinking about ways to help all of you. With that being said, I wanted to dive head first into an idea that I had as I was talking to one of my followers just within the last couple of days. 

It should come as no surprise to you, but the #1 question I’m asked in private is “How can I convince my wife to get into hotwifing?” or some variation of that question. 

Well just the other day, I was talking to a follower who asked that question, and through my investigation into his situation I found out that this person’s wife is very conservative – brought up in a religious type home where the concept of having multiple sexual partners goes against everything she believes in. Being that I try to help everyone out, I had to try to think of an idea to help satisfy both of their wishes. After a little thought, I came up with an idea that seemed like it would not only benefit them, but also might help some others in this group who are just in the exploratory phases of this journey. 

I came back to this user and suggested that if there was no room for compromise, that maybe the wife would indulge his fantasy by NOT sleeping with another man, but at least be into an elaborate roleplaying scenario. I made the suggestion that he talk to his wife about setting up a date night where he goes to a nice hotel that has a nice bar, he checks into a room, then later in the evening he heads down to the bar alone. Then his wife, while at home, gets ready for a “date”.. she could send him dirty pictures of her lingerie or whatever she’s wearing for the date.. and could tease her husband by telling him that she’s getting ready to go out with another man, etc. 

When she’s ready, this is where the roleplaying comes into play. 

She would then get a ride to the hotel, where she would approach her “date” (yes that would be YOU). She would proceed to flirt with you, dance, have a few drinks, etc. She has free reign to do whatever she likes, BUT she cannot ever refer to you as her husband or mention anything family related during the date. In fact, she should make mention about how her flirting with you turns her husband on, and how he’s always wanted to watch her be with another man. For tonight, YOU are the other man. You will flirt with her as if she’s another woman that you don’t know. 

Your goal is to seduce this woman that you don’t know, and you cannot make an assumption that you’re going to get her into your hotel room. Ladies, you shouldn’t just roll over and give into him either. Make him work for it. 

The next morning, guys you should check out of the hotel and head home, so that you can witness your wife coming home after a night out with another man to complete the entire experience. 

If anyone can convince your wife to indulge in this experience, PLEASE DM me and let me know how it goes. I’d love to hear about whether it went well, or didn’t go well so that I can update my posts. 

I hope this helps!  Remember THIS IS ABSOLUTELY JUST THE VERY BASICS. If you’re going to really get involved and begin engaging in parts of BDSM in your personal life it would be hugely important to do more research on your own and look into the safety of each individual activity before you try it.

Places I got my info from:

Xeromag

Oh Joy Sex Toy by erikamoen

Spanking and whipping for beginners

7 tips for safe and happy BDSM sex

BDSM Tip Sheet for Beginners

What is BDSM?

Bondage 101: How to tie someone up?

BDSM Aftercare

How to tell the difference between BDSM and abuse