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A Black man grabbing your ass in public is such a powerful statement.

His hands on your body is telling the world that you're his, and that he's willing to protect you from the advances of other men.

And the fact that it's such a sexualized part of your body lets everyone know that you aren't merely a friend or a relative. "I'm clapping these cheeks on a regular basis."

The scenarios I write about here contain a healthy mix of "pure fantasy" and "I want it to happen IRL".

Like, I'm insanely attracted to Black men, and if my white boyfriend hadn't been in the picture I would definitely have acted on that. But the societal changes I write about, with reparations on a massive scale, are mostly daydreams, not something I would like to happen in real life.

In other words, I wouldn't actually want to be the girl in this gif:

I know what you feel like. Sometimes a picture says more than a thousand words.

responsible for opening white women’s eyes to the possibility of dating a Black man, kissing a Black man, putting a Black man at the centre of their lives; of resisting social pressure to date white, and instead following their passion and dating Black

responsible for continually upholding Black men, emphasising that dynamism, charm and masculinity which makes white women swoon

responsible for standing up against racism in the West, for imagining a better world in which prejudice has been defeated, and where every night thousands of white women gladly spread their legs for the strong sons of Africa

responsible for encouraging a beautiful, Africanised Europe, where white women and Black men can get it on without racist whitebois getting in the way

finally, responsible for being kinder to us whitebois than we deserve; for teaching us that interracial sex is not about us, that we should not try to control the process, but step aside and let the natural course of things unfold, and instead of getting resentful and jealous when we see our crush grinding her cute little ass on a well-endowed Black man (is there any other type?), we should feel happy for the intensity of the pleasure, physical and emotional, that both she and her Black lover-to-be are experiencing.

In short, thank you! And ignore the haters.

Just doing my part. ;)

I AM dating a white guy. My fantasies about Black men are just that - fantasies.

If I were to live out my fantasies, though, I don't see what I would need a white guy for. Why not just date a Black man?

To be honest, white guys are kinda NPC in my fantasy society. I don't know, wear jeans and a monocolored t-shirt?

And don't get in the way.

To be honest, white guys are kinda NPC in my fantasy society. I don't know, wear jeans and a monocolored t-shirt?

And don't get in the way.

I mean fantasies are one thing it exists in very extreme ways but most of us switch that off in real life

What you feel really as a white person yourself

I think white guys can have a tendency to confuse self-confidence and assertiveness in Black men with arrogance, offensiveness, and racism. White guys are so used to having things their way that they react with confusion and anger when a Black man shows up and demands something the white guys thought they had to themselves.

I mean fantasies are one thing it exists in very extreme ways but most of us switch that off in real life

What you feel really as a white person yourself

I think white guys can have a tendency to confuse self-confidence and assertiveness in Black men with arrogance, offensiveness, and racism. White guys are so used to having things their way that they react with confusion and anger when a Black man shows up and demands something the white guys thought they had to themselves.

White women and Black men only see these changes as positives, gain more confidence and agency with it. With that comes more self-assurance, willingness to try things and take on new chances. While white men can turn bitter, feel threatened and lash out in negative ways. This only compounds the loss of status into extra loss of attractiveness.

Mix into that, often only unconscious, racial resentment and a sense of physical insecurity then you can see how white guys will label Black men "arrogant af" or similar. Then wonder why white women are attracted to them while also seeking out snowbunny blogs and the predictable categories on over 18 websites.

White guys just have to come to terms with new realities and make the best of it for themselves. With women and Black men will just continue to enjoy a better life without thinking about them.

So true, all of it.

White women and Black men only see these changes as positives, gain more confidence and agency with it. With that comes more self-assurance, willingness to try things and take on new chances. While white men can turn bitter, feel threatened and lash out in negative ways. This only compounds the loss of status into extra loss of attractiveness.

Mix into that, often only unconscious, racial resentment and a sense of physical insecurity then you can see how white guys will label Black men "arrogant af" or similar. Then wonder why white women are attracted to them while also seeking out snowbunny blogs and the predictable categories on over 18 websites.

White guys just have to come to terms with new realities and make the best of it for themselves. With women and Black men will just continue to enjoy a better life without thinking about them.

So true, all of it.

What big changes have you seen (online and in your country) since you began blogging?

I don't know if it's just because I've gotten more aware of it, but I think I see more "Black man with white girl" couples on the street.

None; I've never been with a Black man outside of my fantasies.

True ;)

Congratulations. :)