Blissfulvixen

“I’m not a stop along the way. I’m a destination.”

For starters, B is always confident. Whether she is trying out a new fashion trend, or trying to get ahead in the work place, Blair always has tons of confidence in who she is. This is the most important thing to have in life, confidence in who you are and what you can do.

Second, always look the part.

The one thing everyone can agree on is that B’s fashion sense is impeccable. Her school, work, party, and even sleep attire was always to die for. This is one of the ways that got Blair to where she wanted to be, and it will get you where you want to be.

Third, be composed and keep your cool

No matter how many times we saw B throw temper tantrums, she made sure to never do it in front of the person, or people, that made her upset. This is something that we all need to learn, as we can often blow up at the wrong time.

“I’m the best of the best. I’m Blair Waldorf.”

Although B would definitely have a nasty comeback, it’s best to not say something that could have you out of a job. Instead, a small stare down to intimidate the other person will suffice. Later, you can pull them aside and say that you will not allow them to disrespect you.

“I know what I want, and I’m going to get it.”

Last, but definitely not least, never give up. Throughout six seasons of backstabs, schemes, and lies, B never gave up, even when her whole world seemed to be crashing down at full speed. She always had Serena around to keep her going. Even though it’s your life, and you’re the one who has full responsibility for what happens in it, you do have to interact with people on a daily basis. Having a strong support system is the best, and healthiest, thing to have. Remember, you can have your cake and eat it too!

These are things I personally need/recommend to all my fellow uni people! This can also go for high schoolers :)

Writing Supplies

1. A pack of pastel highlighters (or 2)

2. Good gel ink pens (Papermate Inkjoy, FIOVER .5mm, Sharpie S Gel, etc)

3. White out pens

4. Mechanical pencils (of course)

Paper Wise

1. Transparent sticky notes/ pastel sticky notes

2. Annotation tabs

3. 5 subject college ruled notebooks (cute colors)

4. Yearly planner (stay organized honey)

5. Cute notecards for studying

6. Personal white board and markers

7. Desktop planner (with cute stickers that are pink of course)

8. Journal

9. Budget planner

Misc.

1. Portable tap light thing

2. Organizers

3. Tote bag

4. Laptop

5. HDMI cord & laptop charging cord

6. Pencil case (pink <3)

7. Tape

8. Scissors

9. Paper clips & thumb tacks

10. Calculator

11. Ruler

12. Rubber bands

13. Desk organizer

1. Paint your nails/toes

2. Read

3. Paint/draw

4. Go through your closet

5. Bake

6. Go on a walk

7. Practice curling your hair

8. Stretch

9. Journal

10. Clean your room

11. Do chores around the house

12. Give yourself a self care night

13. Learn a new skill

14. Organize your room

1. Sleep in that way I can feel rested for the day ahead of me!

2. Get out of bed to go make myself some tea/hot cocoa and drink water while getting my other drink ready (I always start my days with 1-2 glasses of water)

3. Go brush my teeth, brush my hair, and make my bed

4. Shower, do my skincare routine and get myself ready for the day

5. I either deep clean my room and bathroom or do some general cleaning and picking up

6. Open my windows to let some fresh air in, and then light a candle or turn on my wax warmer

7. Paint or draw with some music playing

8. Watch a couple episodes of a show or watch a movie

9. Do my nighttime skincare routine and shower again

10. Paint nails

11. Read 1-3 chapters of a book

12. Turn off my phone 1 hour before bed to start winding down

13. Pick outfit for the next day

14. Plan my week in my yearly planner

15. Go to sleep

And Change Your Mindset

When attempting to become more attractive, stop letting embarrassment take control. Don’t be afraid to try new things, new hair, new clothing, anything. Post your life. Make a change in your life. Sticking to the most comfortable things will only weigh you down and leave you with unfulfillment of what you could’ve been. If stuff goes wrong, learn from the experience and either way, you took control of yourself. You don’t need people to validate you to feel worthy or “okay” with something. You have the control.

Start to make time for yourself. Make the time and effort to clean yourself up and become flawless. Two very know yet successful needs are drinking water and having around 8 hours of sleep. By doing these, your skin and body will thank you. You’re having time to relax and cleanse your body. It will leave you feeling fresher, motivated and far more productive.

I really recommend getting a gua sha. Since using one, my face has changed instantly. They’re so affordable yet will work within the first few uses. If needed, look at YouTube videos for tutorials on how to gua sha!

Also, I’d really recommend taking the time to learn about your face shape and the makeup that suits it. Some people feel as if no matter what they try, makeup doesn’t suit them yet the application, product, how matte/glowy it is, can really affect the result of your makeup. Pinterest and YouTube are really good places to look for ideas and in depth tutorials!

Becoming a woman with light energy, both in character and demeanor, involves cultivating positivity, kindness, and compassion. Here are some steps you can take to embody this energy:

1. Practice Gratitude: Cultivate a mindset of gratitude by focusing on the positive aspects of your life.

2. Radiate Positivity: Choose to see the good in people and situations and strive to spread positivity wherever you may go.

3. Be Kind and Compassionate: Practice empathy and understanding and lend a helping hand to those in need.

4. Live with Integrity: Be true to yourself and your values. Act with honesty, integrity, and authenticity in all aspects of your life.

5. Embrace Lightness and Joy: Seek out activities and experiences that bring you joy and uplift your spirit. Surround yourself with people who radiate positive energy and inspire you to be your best self.

6. Practice Self-Care: Take care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

7. Forgive and Let Go: Practice forgiveness and let go of resentment and negative emotions.

8. Spread Love and Joy: Small acts of kindness and compassion can have a ripple effect and make a big difference in the lives of those around you.

9. Connect with the Universe: Recognize that we are all interconnected and part of something greater than ourselves.

Light Energy Aesthetic

Makeup

• Radiant Skin: Start with a luminous base by using a lightweight foundation or tinted moisturizer.

• Soft, Ethereal Eyes: Opt for soft, neutral eyeshadows. Apply a shimmery eyeshadow to the inner corners of your eyes.

• Glowing Cheeks: Sweep a soft, peachy blush onto the apples of your cheeks.

• Natural Lips: Keep your lips soft and natural with a sheer lip balm or gloss in a soft pink or nude shade (or clear).

• Glowing Highlight: Finish off your makeup look with a luminous highlighter applied to the high points of your face, such as the cheekbones, brow bones, and cupids bow.

Outfit

• Light, Airy Fabrics: Choose clothing made from light, airy fabrics like chiffon, silk, or cotton to create a soft and ethereal look.

• Soft, Feminine Silhouettes: Look for pieces with ruffles, lace, or delicate embellishments.

• Pastel Colors: Incorporate soft pastel colors like blush pink, baby blue, lavender, and mint green into your wardrobe.

• Accessorize with Sparkle: Add a touch of sparkle and shine to your outfits with dainty jewelry, embellished hair accessories, or metallic accents.

• Flowy Layers: Layering lightweight pieces like cardigans, dusters, or sheer kimono jackets.

Rule 1: Procrastination who?

Maximize the time you have by planning your days and make sure you don’t waste a single minute of it. We live only once, so instead of living in other people’s Instagram feeds or on your TikTok page, we should create our own memories.

Rule 2: Change and Evolve

Change is the only constant in our lives and we should worry more about always staying the same. It’s okay to change our views over time, it’s okay to make mistakes. You can change everything you don’t like about yourself. Show up as the person you want to be, but don’t forget where you came from.

Rule 3: You’re stronger than you might think

If you don’t believe me, cut the toxic people who don’t belong in your life anyways and wave them goodbye as they leave, taking your insecurities with them.

Rule 4: Don’t judge others

Don’t take everything others say or do personally, be aware that other people have bad days too and that it’s (probably) their first time living on this crazy planet too. You know what’s going on in your head and in your life, but we can only guess what’s going on in other peoples heads, there’s no way to know for sure.

Rule 5: Appreciate the people who surround you

Don’t take your friends or family for granted. Telling them once in a while will do the trick. And ALWAYS make it quality over quantity.

Rule 6: Spread Joy

Body care

• Consistent skincare routine

• Remove makeup before bed

• Dry brushing

• Put on lotion or oil after shower

• Hair masks

• Drink 2L or more of water a day

• Get split ends trimmed

• Keep nails clean and maintained

• Wear SPF on your face and body

Therapeutic

• Journal daily/weekly

• Curate your social media feed

• Meditate before bed

• Sing, cry, shake, run, dance, stim, draw, paint - let it out!

• Talk to someone you trust

• Listen to an affirmative podcast

• Advocate for yourself

• Pet an animal

• Go for a walk or run

Movement

• Try YouTube yoga videos

• Pilates

• Dynamic stretching before workouts

• Incline walking on treadmill

• Walks in your area

• Weightlifting

• Pinterest workouts

• HIIT training

•Calisthenics

Mealtime

• Don’t follow fad diets

• Listen to your hunger cues

• Eat foods that nourish and energize

• Learn the recommended protein intake for your body

• Take time to learn about what ingredients are in your food

• Take multivitamins or supplements

Intellectual

• Listen to podcasts

• Read for 10 mins nightly

• Carry a notepad with you for ideas

• Use a planner

• Annotate books you read

At Home

• Satin or silk pillowcases

• Invest in your home as your sanctuary

• Declutter on a regular basis

• Change your sheets weekly

Financial

• Use a budgeting app

• Build and monitor your credit

• Pay off small debt first

• Start an emergency fund

• Open a Roth IRA and contribute a small amount monthly

Social

• Find a pen-pal

• Practice a language on Duolingo

• Set and maintain clear boundaries

• Create a blog/vlog

Spiritual

• Burn incense or candles

• Pray

• Meditate

• Read about your religion or beliefs

• Connect in spiritual/religious online spaces and communities

You deserve to live your dream life

Your dream life is not just a wish, thought or idea. You keep thinking about your dream life because it’s already here, it’s just waiting for you to take action! Here are 4 ways to accelerate the process :)

Positivity:

Don’t ever let negativity get in the way of your potential. Don’t pay attention to negative comments on your progress, or negative habits that delay your progress. A positive attitude is strong and can’t be broken. Once you master staying positive, you’ll get so much closer to your dream life. Think of all the good things you’ll feel or get when you finally achieve your dream life.

Put in that work:

Things don’t just magically happen to you for free all the time. Your dream life most likely won’t just come to you. Putting in the work in whatever aspects of your dream life will get you closer to your goal as well. Keep pushing, grinding, and staying patient through this process. Your dream life won’t happen overnight babe.

Focus:

It’s easy to lose focus because of your environment and negativity. Don’t let external factors control you. When you’re focused nothing can get in the way of your journey. Stay focused on the end goal and you’ll get there faster than you thought.

Believe and you will achieve:

I’m going to be getting more active on here so if anyone has any other ideas besides what I’ve listed, don’t be shy to message me or leave a comment! :)

Broaden Your Reading Spectrum

Cultivate a reading challenge list that encompasses:

• A biography of a person you hold in high regard

• A book exploring a country or culture that intrigues you

• A celebrated classic literature piece

• A contemporary science or technology book

• A book dedicated to self-betterment

Maximize Online Learning

Each month, choose a new skill or subject matter you’re eager to delve into. For example:

• Enroll in an elementary course of a language that you want to learn

• Engage in a creative writing workshop to bolster your expressiveness

• Get into a web development course to comprehend core concepts of coding

Prioritize Your Physical Well-Being

Incorporate brain-stimulating foods into your diet such as:

• Snacking on walnuts or blueberries during studying or reading sessions

• Integrating fatty fish like salmon into your diet biweekly

• Opting for tea or matcha over coffee for a mild caffeine dose and antioxidant advantages

Journaling Habit

• Weekly objectives and accomplishments

• Facts or knowledge you learned that week

• Motivational quotes from books or articles

• Personal insights or ideas inspired by your newly gained knowledge

Nurture Your Curiosity

Employ a curiosity journal to:

• Write down any questions that come to mind throughout the day no matter how insignificant they might seem

• Allocate a weekend morning to delve into those questions, utilize documentaries, podcasts, articles, etc

Adopt Mindfulness Practices

To weave mindfulness into your routine, consider:

• Start your mornings with a short, 10-15 minute meditation session focused on breathing to rejuvenate and sharpen your mind

- If it’s meant to be, it will be

- Everything happens for you

- You wanting a sign is a sign

- Your biggest asset is your mindset

- ‘May it be this or something better’

- All love should feel calm, easy, and safe

- Anything meant for you will never leave

- If it’s important enough, you’ll find a way

- What you desire was planted inside of you for a reason