BLIND LOVE

Ok. So this popped up in my feed yesterday and I have feelings…

What are your thoughts? I think she’s right in that its wrong for married 40 year old men to enter into relationships with 15-18 year old students, but that’s not what the tcc is.

It’s a place for us to share these thoughts when we’re too scared to tell anyone else in our lives. It’s a place where we can meet people who feel the same sense of frustration and constriction that we do. Most of all, it’s a place for us to feel like our crush is okay and to not be ashamed of these feelings that have unwillingly come over us.

A lot of us aren’t sex-crazed “homewreckers” trying to seduce our teachers. A lot of us are just figuring out who we are and what we’re looking for in life. So what if we look up to our teachers? Or have crushes on them? As far as I know, that’s normal?? I get it: the more outspoken tccers are the ones who claim to act on their feelings and post about meeting up/going on dates… But the majority won’t ever reveal their feelings because even if we do have crushes, we care about our tcs and don’t want them to get hurt.

Personally, I could almost like her channel. She’s funny and witty and her vid esp on incels is well-handled and original. But idk, I don’t think she truly covered all aspects of the tcc. We are multifaceted and here for different reasons, so I feel as if giving the impression that we are just “crazy teenage girls” is a little offensive and not accurate to the group as a whole.

(update) And the worst part is the aftermath of the vid. The comments section alone is gross; there’s just thousands of people calling us disgusting, people coming to the blogs named in the video… Most everyone on here is afraid of being discovered irl because we know it isn’t considered normal to have these feelings - we just want a safe space to talk about them. And for others to call us out for… I’m not even sure what we’re doing wrong, honestly. We just run blogs about having crushes. The majority aren’t even NSFW or kink-blogs or anything.  It’s gross that grown adults subscribed to her are coming after teenage girls because we had the audacity to develop unreciprocated feelings for another human being… 

Because so many littles have asked me about this topic. I decided to take an excisting post and I added some points to it because there was some information missing in my opinion.

💥 Unfortunately Tumblr is becoming filled with “Daddies” that don’t deserve to ever be called Daddy by any little, because these guys are just perverts/creeps in disguise. Here’s some ways to spot these “Fuckboy fake Daddies” as I like to call them, before they hurt you. 💥

1. He asks for nudes and insists you do whatever he says within hours of meeting you.

2. Doesn’t give you structure. Doesn’t act like a Daddy. There are no rules. No bed times. Nothing.

3. His compliments exclusively focus on your appearance, so he says things like “you look great” and “your boobs are amazing”, but you never get a compliment on your personality, character or what you have achieved today.

4. Is suspiciously quick to punish you. You’re always being told you’ve “been a bad girl”, you always feel like you’re not doing enough to make him happy.

5. He’s only ever really engaged in the convo when he needs something. Other times he’s distant or he is busy with work and barely tolerates you. You feel like you’re bugging him.

6. His profile icon is a picture of his dick, or of him shirtless, or something dumb like that. Further his blog will be full of just porn and nudes.

7. He never really feels like your Daddy, the relationship feels empty and hollow. He is never or barely there for you when you really need him. You still feel still alone and sad.

8. Calls you pet names so often that it becomes nauseating. Ends every sentence with “little one” and “princess” and “little girl”; it comes across like he’s trying too hard.

9. He doesn’t seem interested about learning more about DD/lg and BDSM. You won’t find him reblogging long text posts such as this on his blog (instead it’ll be 100% sexual content).

10. He doesn’t seem to want to find out more about you to get to know the real you. Like what you do, your mental issues, your family, friends and so on.

11. Can be very mean and hurtful when he doesn’t get his way. Doesn’t understand how sensitive littles can be and is quick to make harsh personal comments.

12. Somebody who just likes to be called in the bedroom Daddy.