hi i kind of need some help accepting my kink:(( i just feel so guilty and disgusted by myself all the time, i know it's not going away anytime soon so i might as well accept it but just idek how
Hey kiddo. So you didnβt specify your kink β but Iβm assuming just run of the mill chub kink/feedism, right?
Hereβs the thing. Does the average Joe civilian feel guilty for fetishizing visible ab muscles, or hip bones, or that vee muscle thing that some men have? Does the average romance novelist suffer paroxysms of guilt for describing their heroinesβ delicate collarbones or the shadow of the heroβs rib cage? No, they sure as shit donβt feel guilty, and theyβre fetishizing the fuck out of thinness. So why should you waste a moment of sleep over happening to prefer chubby bellies or thick thighs or fat rolls or whatever? Likeβ¦.WHY? Once you stop and purposely try to free your mind from a lifetime of internalized fat phobia, it all just seems super trivial, you know? In a world where skinny is equated with beauty, you want to feed your partner cookies and touch their belly. That puts you in the minority, but itβs nothing to beat yourself up over. I promise.
And, even better β its not as weird as you think. Iβve never had a partner turn me down for it. They just..roll with it. So look, I know it FEELS like being the loneliest weirdo in weirdo town, but I swear youβre not the only one, and you donβt have anything to feel ashamed about, okay?
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