Stuffing Kink Blog

I KNOW and yet I struggle to keep it in mind: hitting the recommended spot of every aspect of life would require 50 hour days and amounts of money I'll never see. It's fine. You'll be fine. You'll be fine. You'll be fine. People live fine, entire lives missing all of the standards. People change their sheets too rarely and they're fine. They go to the gym and do more chatting than working out. They binge crappy shows. They tell white lies. They get the cheap shampoo. They eat chocolate. They have too many drinks in one night. They lie to their kids sometimes. They procrastinate and take shortcuts and improvise and forget things and make mistakes and it's probably fine. Like by all means do what works for you, pursue changes you really want to, push yourself when it's prudent, but you won't reach that perfection and it's FINE. It's so fine. You're a complete and worthy person anyway. And you'll never be so on top of things that nothing bad can happen, which is what I think they want us to believe. Shield yourself from danger by doing EVERYTHING RIGHT.

now that they’ve made some room, they look like they could use a snack.

you gently jostle them awake, holding a treat near their mouth. “hi, baby. here - just one more bite,” you murmur, knowing they’re too sleepy to protest. you press it past their lips, stroking their cheek as they chew, and the moment they swallow you coax them back to sleep.

it’s even easier than you thought.

so you start the cycle over: worshipping their body, mouthing at their chest, grinding against their thighs and tummy, diving between their legs, reaping the rewards of their indulgence for them…careful not to send them over the edge. not yet. if they start to wake up from an overeager bounce of their belly or too sharp a nip at their rolls? well, that just means it’s time for another treat~

a dizzyingly delicious cycle, so easy to get lost in. feeding them up even fuller than they started — and they’re just too deep in dreamland to keep track of how many “one more bite”s they’ve had. by the time they wake up for real, they’re packed to the brim, so full they can’t even roll over…and they barely know why. even more, they’re so riled up from however long you spent gorging yourself on them, it’s all they can do to beg you for help. so stuffed they can’t move, so turned on they can’t focus, and completely at your mercy.

Whether that's because they intentionally refuse to indulge, or they simply haven't ever gotten the chance to.

Tried to have this up before Christmas but work and life caught up with me.

Any tips, advice, or pointers for a beginner?

(disclaimer that this is just my opinion!! also it turned out to be longer than i expected lol so bare with me)

communication is so important. this is not specific to feedist relationships of course but still adding it because i think it’s crucial

make sure you are separating kink from reality! this kink is like inherently lifestyle-based so i find this can be difficult for people to do sometimes. but it’s so important i think. keep checking in, keep ensuring you’re both having fun, always make sure they know they are loved wholly and unconditionally, whether they are eating/gaining for you or not!

when it comes to stuffing, eating a lot of something sweet usually tends to make someone feel sick. and tbh even eating a lot of the same thing, whatever it is, can get tiring. so make sure to switch it up! i find it really helpful to just have a wide variety of snacks or treats or food items (sweet and savoury) so that if they get tired of one thing they can just switch to another and keep eating to their greedy lil heart’s content

find out what your feedee LOVES to eat! find out what they don’t like! this extends even beyond food tbh. learn them. and then craft a life specifically for them to feel happy and content.

drinking calories is a weight gain life hack. sodas, juices, milkshakes, wg shakes, morning coffees with extra creamer, cute sugary cocktails, etc etc etc. are packed with calories and can be so easy to drink absentmindedly throughout the day. make sure to get your feedee some fattening beverages (:

be prepared for stomach-related mishaps. upset tummies, pain from overeating, etc. I know we often eroticize these things in feedism fantasies but it doesn’t always go that way irl. sometimes it’s a bit too much and takes them out of that “horny state”. just be on the lookout during stuffings and make sure your feedee is still comfortable enough and enjoying themselves.

in a similar vein, it is very possible that eventually one day your feedee may overdo it a bit too much and end up throwing up. when you’re engaging in the “force myself/my partner to eat as much as they possibly can” kink, it’s not unlikely to happen yknow? if it does, BE THERE for them. support them. exude love and understanding and care. I sometimes see feeders or posts on here saying things like “aw piggy threw up all those calories and now I’m gonna have to replace them😈”. again, that is maybe a hot FANTASY (and no shade if that’s what you’re into!) but if someone just ate so much they threw up, I promise you that isn’t what they’re tryna hear right then. instead, help them cleanup or whatever else is needed, get them some water or warm tea or something and then cuddle them until they start to feel better.

I'm going to start posting some of the full reward videos I did on my patreon page now that it's gone the way of the dinosaurs. First up is a video I was actually very proud of; a proper stuffing animation featuring Hawks getting good and bloated.