yes this! It was the happiest day of my life when I embraced my gayness, understood my sissiness, and stopped trying to be something I wasnβt. My (birth) daddy hated feminine men, hated βfagsβ, embraced patriarchal ideas, and he made sure I knew that. It was so miserable, and I made others miserable. Including a wife. God I hated it so much. But leaving her, freeing her really, so we could BOTH find a real Manβ¦god that was heaven. I still have patriarchal ideasβ¦but understand my real place in it. And I am happy.























