Big, Bald, Beautiful

That’s your cue to disregard my feelings. No more praise, no more encouragement, make it known that you are in charge of me.

I don’t control what happens with my body, you do. You decide how big I get, and you decide when I stop.

Humiliate me. Embarrass me. Flaunt your sleek, toned body to make me understand that I could never turn things around. Get it through my thick skull that there’s no going back to thin for me anymore.

Make me feel like such a useless tub of jiggling lard that any attempt at exercise would only be met with mockery. “Look at that fatty on the treadmill, even their double chin is bouncing”.

And if none of that works, if I keep insisting, then you just take me by force.

Tie me to the bed and lock me in my room, take away my mobility until you can feed me and feed me and feed me into a big ball of shame and blubber. Make me so fat and embarrassed of myself that I’ll never want to show my face outside again.

Feedees eating nutritious foods.

You know what's sexy?

Feedees taking a break from actively gaining to focus on their health.

You know what drives me FUCKING FERAL?!?

All that is normal!

I struggled with this a little when gaining as well. I don’t see many people talking about how feedism is basically just a different beauty standard for gainers to adhere to and it’s even more impossible because you can’t control the way your body gains weight! Some people get stretch marks others don’t, some get a lot of cellulite/face gains and others don’t.

Looking at weight gain art and sometimes even fetish models is not always the best example of body positivity because a lot of fat artists do not draw double chins and cellulite, and a lot of models pose from a higher angle so double chin is less visible or airbrush it out. This is not the models fault either because fat creators are only responding to the pressure to present themselves a certain way. :( just something to be aware of!

My best advice is to focus on the parts of the gain that you both love and PRAISE HER INSECURITIES!!

My partner/feeder saying they loved my double chin helped me feel a lot less insecure about it. In the end it does matter if your partner is doing this for themselves and their own fulfillment or humoring your fetish. If it’s equally shared by both of you, it’ll be a lot easier to overcome than if she’s just experimenting to see if they enjoy it but it’s primarily for you. If it’s not naturally their thing, I advise to take it slower and not push for more gains until your partner is feeling adjusted to and comfortable with the changes their body is going through.. although it’s so exciting and hot it can also be a little distressing to change so much and not recognize yourself.

Part of the fetish is honestly that you WILL be perceived less charitably in public, I have been body shamed by strangers before during my weight gain and if I wasn’t fully turned on my by weight gain (so it was hot to me) it would probably have been so upsetting.

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