ask me about my tattoos

The older i get the more i understand why some people become obsessed with privacy, not because they’re hiding something, but because being constantly perceived starts to feel spiritually exhausting.

Having a sudden craving to fuck off somewhere else to do something else for two months and have zero thoughts or concerns about my own regular daily life until I get back.

When nobody else was remember who was there for you at your lowest. That's right. Completely and absolutely dogshit music

whatever is happening right now is not your whole story. it’s not even close to the last chapter

One of the most fun cat names I've encountered was a kitty named Nalla, whose name was short for jalan-alla (finnish for "underfoot"), and anyone who didn't understand why she was named that hadn't met her.

I want more stories where healing isn't linear but also I do think it at least can be okay to have more dramatic ups and downs in fiction because the story does need to be told and a realistic timeframe would often make that difficult. so progress and regress and progress again can go faster?

Imagine if we just fucking fed people instead of making them jump through hoops for it.

Somewhat of a person who needs fed, btw.

No exaggeration but theeeee most critical lesson I learned in my 20s was letting go when it was time. It’s so cliche but it’s so true. I used to hold on so venomously to people, put on a tap dance for their approval, force relationships to last past their expiration date, carry the heavy lifting for reaching out because I didn’t want to feel “passive.” But when someone doesn’t want your effort it’s not about passivity. It’s literally about self respect, not wasting your time, and gravitating only to people who have your best interest in mind and celebrate you. I’ve met so many older people who don’t know how to let go and it truly scares me that this could easily be me. It’s better to develop this skill early than it is to spend an entire lifetime begging for love and belonging.

You know how much I would lose my mind if I was at an aquarium and turned a corner to see a wild ass heron staring at a fish tank

Fr*nch