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Let’s me virtual friends.

Fight to understand instead of to win. You’re married and suppose to be on the same team. Why worry about the winner, instead of solving the problem?

Name 3 things you could do better or improve on in your life?

Life is so much better when you stop judging and start understanding. Not everyone is like you but that’s ok. The world would be so boring if we were all alike. Be kind to ppl and open to new friendships. Join me on my journey to become my best self and let’s share our stories.

Dare you to share.

#challengeyourself

Instead of trying to bring me to your level get down on mine and understand where I’m coming from.

He will hit you tomorrow and God only knows what will happen everyday for the rest of your life with him!

A husband might fabricate negative things about his wife due to his own insecurities, a desire for control and power, to deflect from his own guilty conscience, or as a form of emotional abuse and manipulation like gaslighting.

Lack of Empathy: Some people struggle with empathy, finding it difficult to understand or "walk in someone else's shoes." This makes them less aware of the impact their actions have on others.

Replicating Past Experiences: Individuals who have experienced abuse or trauma in their past may unknowingly replicate these patterns in their current relationships. They may be driven by a desire to inflict the same pain they endured, often as an unconscious re-enactment of their own lived experiences.

Projection of Self-Dislike: People with low self-esteem or self-dislike often project these feelings onto others. By putting others down, they may attempt to feel superior or gain a sense of power that they lack internally.

Being with my sweet husband🥰