Joey Burrow

This is exactly what people mean when they talk about the danger of parasocial hate.

All it takes is one person ,one who’s been fed a constant stream of “she’s a stalker,” “she’s a threat,” “she’s ruining his life,” to take that rhetoric seriously and escalate it. And suddenly it’s not “just harmless gossip” anymore , it’s someone making threats on her life.

Words don’t exist in a vacuum. When you repeatedly dehumanize someone, strip them down to a villain in your narrative, and encourage others to dogpile, you create an environment where this kind of behaviour feels justified to the wrong person And no, you don’t get to wash your hands of it and say “well I didn’t tell them to do that.” If your content is built on harassment, conspiracy, and constant hostility, you are contributing to that pipeline whether you like it or not.

We’ve seen how this ends before public figures being stalked, attacked, harmed because online spaces convinced unstable individuals that they were the problem that needed to be “dealt with.”

And let’s be very clear: using Cincinnati or the Bengals as part of a threat is not the flex you think it is. The people of that city take pride in their team and community they are not going to look kindly on someone weaponizing their city or their QB’s personal life to threaten a woman.

This is a real person. With a real life. Real safety concerns. Real consequences.

what's crazy is that Deux Moi doesn't care

I like that Deux Moi refused to be bullied by her and basically laughed at her.

she’s been telling everyone “don’t go to Deuxmoi, they’re pathetic, they’re on OP’s payroll” — meanwhile she’s been in their DMs 😭

the call has been coming from inside the house the entire time.

also the “i blocked her months ago” narrative… yet somehow still viewing, still posting, still interacting? Like cmon

You’re significantly overestimating how famous he is lol. They are not following him around like he’s Britney Spears in 2005, one or both of them are arranging for these shots. In the world of celebrities he’s b list and she’s d list at best

no one said he’s Britney 2005 level, but acting like paps don’t clock a high-profile QB in LA is just unserious.

if he’s at a known hotspot, they’re going to see him. that’s literally how that industry works.

and the “they’re arranging it” conspiracy needs to die already. not everything is a mastermind PR plan sometimes it’s just a well-known athlete being photographed in places where photographers already are.

you’d think with the way they crash out, they’d at least be able to recognise one… because that is very clearly not someone “crashing out in a car.”

and the “she set up the pap pics” narrative is getting tired.

Joe’s been in LA since at least January , paps already know:

- where he lives

- what he drives

- where he goes for dinner

- they also know photos of them together sell

they don’t need her to “call them.” that’s literally their job. He has been seen without her by them at least 3 times. be serious.

He looks exactly the same in photos she’s not even in.

i used to think joe was kind of a weirdo about this whole privacy thing, but now i get it. these ppl will not be happy until the girl's life is destroyed.

did she make some questionable choices? yes. do i think she should be held accountable? yes, again. but these blogs hide behind the guise of accountability when really they want her life to be ruined. they do not care if she's grown and changed. she's only 23! i'm sure she'll do some more dumb things and it'll find it's way to the internet. god knows i did!

i think op successfully showed that joe is not the guy that the fanfics and headcanons portrayed him to be (which to anyone w/a brain is obvious lol) but it's easy to get caught in the illusion of who you think someone is and have that vision echoed in the content you consume.

the reality is that joe likes her enough to keep her around (and vice versa). they have been together for 2 years with varying degrees of seriousness. we do not know them. we do not know the inner workings of their relationship. and it is no one's business except theirs. this relationship is clearly mutually beneficial to them.

we need to starve these loser blogs of the attention that they so desperately seek. hopefully that will be redirected into some sort of psychiatric help (doubtful, but one can dream).

Vent away that’s what anons are for

exactly this.

people say “accountability” but what they actually want is punishment and they won’t be satisfied until there’s nothing left. you can acknowledge someone made mistakes without turning it into a full-time mission to tear them down.

they don’t know him, they don’t know her, and they definitely don’t know their relationship.

calling someone’s business, inserting yourselves into their business, spamming their comments… expecting what exactly? insider information? a statement? for them to deny someone’s relationship on your behalf?

that’s not “being a fan.” that’s crossing a line into someone else’s livelihood.

you’re not entitled to answers from people who don’t know you, and you definitely don’t get to jeopardize their business because you’re unhappy with a narrative.

and yes, it’s embarrassing because imagine being in his position and seeing people who claim to support you harassing others, creating problems, and dragging completely uninvolved people into it

because they’ve been told it’s acceptable.

when you have certain accounts constantly encouraging people to:

* contact brands

* message people in her life

* insert themselves where they don’t belong

it creates this false sense that there are no boundaries anymore. so they escalate.

and then they run to the same certain anons to brag because they think they’ll get validation for it like it’s some kind of achievement

but the switch up is funny. suddenly now it’s “too far” because it involved Joe’s private chef, when the reality is it was already too far weeks ago.

I'm sorry but they're going too far

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it’s been escalating for a while.

sharing or spreading those kinds of photos of another woman and then pretending ignorance is completely unacceptable and the irony of sitting in Olivia’s tag, actively seeking out her content, just to be “offended” by it… she’s not a victim of what you chose to look for.

women tearing down other women like this especially in such a violating way is honestly one of the lowest levels you can reach. there’s no justification for it, and there’s definitely no moral high ground.

like let’s recap shall we

- telling someone to drink bleach because they acknowledged a relationship

- telling another blog to drink bleach and making up lies about her because you don’t like her blog

- wishing death on people, doxxing, and harassing others while hiding behind “morals” and religion. you don’t get to preach values while acting like that. it doesn’t work that way

- encouraging harassment

- making up abuse allegations

- saying they support the LGBTQI community but then making transphobic comments about another blog and saying Olivia is a fake pansexual

- making accusations, and inventing stories surrounding Joe, his friends and family

- stalking their locations just so that you can follow them there saying your going to “take out the trash” and threatening to assault Olivia

- calling Olivia a cum dumpster, sex doll, prostitute and other disgusting misogynistic things she can think of

this is the same kind of behaviour you see in larry/gaylor groups.congratulations that’s the level your at now. You’re actively embarrassing yourself everytime you get online and make a spectacle of yourself trying to push your bat shit narratives because what kind of “fan” behaves like this in his name? what kind of person thinks this reflects well on anyone involved?

none of this makes you look informed.

none of this makes you look righteous.

it makes you look unhinged, obsessive, and cruel

you’ve built an entire narrative in your head, and anytime reality doesn’t match it, you lash out.

this isn’t about joe.

this isn’t about olivia.

it’s the same tired narrative of people wanting him with a very specific type of woman.

are we talking about the same joe who didn’t marry his long-term girlfriend? the same joe who pulled back when engagement rumours started and then the relationship ended? because if he truly wanted that traditional, settle-down, have-kids-now life… he quite literally had that option and didn’t take it and let’s not rewrite history — OH was already living that lifestyle people claim he “wants.” cooking, baking, gardening, lowkey life…

that man is clearly focused on his career. if he wanted to be married with kids right now, he would be. he’s not being held hostage from that life.

i saw what you’re talking about and…

this is literally a paparazzi company doing what they always do — slap a vague, clickbait caption on photos to make them seem more interesting so they sell. ‘Joe Burrow leaves party with Todd Graves’ does not sell.

‘Models left after him’ does not equal ‘He left with Models’ that’s just basic comprehension

and let’s be real — if there were actual photos of him leaving with anyone, they would’ve posted them. Immediately. that’s how they make money. the fact they didn’t tells you everything. They don’t sit on exclusive content.

Oh wait they did post him leaving with someone Todd Graves.

Do I like Todd Graves not really but people are being weird. he’s a married man, has been for 25 years, and he and joe have known each other for years now through charity and events. not every interaction has to be turned into something shady just to keep a narrative going. People of all ages can be friends it how the world works

The blatant backgrid confusion is just the cherry on top, claiming they said things that they didn’t . Classic hater blogs move. taking a vague caption, removing all context, and building a whole storyline out of it because it’s convenient.

All of this for a relationship that probably won’t even last….its crazy how much they think Joe owes them in life. It’s crazy how they believe he is not allowed to live at all unless they approve of it. It’s crazy how one acct makes it her whole ass personality, says she’s a mature adult but talks about it daily. It’s even more crazy that a Jaxson dart fan is out there calling Joe and op maga racist…and when you point it out…she blocks you, makes fun of you, and takes zero accountability.

the irony of some of the people saying all this… especially that dart fan… you really couldn’t write it. no accountability, just constant projection.

they genuinely think joe has to run his personal life past them for approval, like he owes them explanations for who he dates or where he goes. it’s ridiculous.

But it’s honestly funny at this point, they claim to hate her, but she’s somehow the main character in their lives. like they hate her, but she’s starring in every post, every theory, every conversation! that’s not hate, that’s casting her as the lead and giving her a full-time role.

What are these people going to invent now?